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Married for 11 years to my "soul-mate" but I had an affair

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Question - (3 January 2005) 1 Answers - (Newest, 30 December 2005)
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I've been married for 11 years (together for 13 years) to the man I thought was my soul mate, but I recently had an affair with a man I met at work, we no longer work together but the attraction is this there. He says he loves me and wants us to be together.

I still love my husbend very much, but I'm also in love with "the other man" and I'm not sure what I should do next. Please, can anyone help me?

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A male reader, pzeller +, writes (30 December 2005):

pzeller agony auntChoose. Remember, "Love" lasts longer than "in love". It is still quite possible your husband is your "soul mate". It could just be that you made a mistake, plain and simple. Make a choice and commit to your decision. Whatever you do, do it for YOU.

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