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writes: I have recently got back together with an ex girlfried. We were together on and off for four years. She moved away when we split up 8 months ago and moved back to where I live to be with me. I kind of always thought in the back of my mind things weren't right but we papered over the cracks and kept going. The last two weeks we were arguing like cat and dog as she was having a go at me for everything I did and it got to me.It came to a head on Saturday night when we were drunk and decided to call it a day with another row. Last night I went round to chat to her to see if we could work things out while we were sober and agreed we would try again and start dating to inject some excitement. I asked her where she went after we argued and eventually got out of her that she slept with some guy I know who is supposed to be my friend. I left straight away and did not sleep a wink last night thinking about them together.This type of thing has happened before when she lived away she lied about seeing this guy where she lived as we were seeing each other still.She broke my heart once and has now done it again but I do love her still. The town I live in is very small and people talk and I dont think I can survive this again so told her it was the end today.Have I done the right thing?
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Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, lisa ferraro, writes (28 February 2005): Yes you have done the right thing, this girl you were with has been cheating, who knows who else she has been with and lied to you about.What you need to do is get her to sit down and confess everything, get her to look you in the eye and see if she feels for you what you feel for her or are you wasting your feelings on a cheater?
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