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writes: my boyfriend came round last week and very suddenly he started acting very strange, very off with me and refused to tell me what was wrong. In fact, he claimed that there wasnt anyhting wrong. When he went home and rang me later that night he apologised for being an 'ar****le' and said that he hadnt felt very well. If he hadnt felt very well he would have told me at the time but i just left it and went along with him. Since then my mum has been saying things to me about not worrying if he breaks up with me and telling me not to chase him as much becasue he'll get bored of me and a relationship is a two way thing. We've been going out for 5 months so we're very close and ive been upset recently about an upset relative, so im worried that the only reason he's carrying on the relationship is because he's a decent guy and doesnt want to hurt me even more. What do you suggest i do? Talk to him about it and worry him? Leave it and see what happens? Take my mums advide and dont do all the chasing? Please help! Reply to this Question
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Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, Clare, writes (29 January 2005): Hi, i think your boyfriend WAS just feeling unwell at the time. If he wanted to brek up with u he would have. I dont think any guy just stays with you because he is decent and doesn't wanna hurt you. Your mum is right though, let him chase u for a bit, no guy likes anyone who comes across as needy and guys sometimes just like a bit of space, so give it to him (space i mean here) and he will soon see what a catch u r and tings will carry on as good as always!Good Luck and sorry about the relative x
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