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writes: my girlfriend of 7 months just out of the blue dropped the I want a break line. while I am still mad over her, I live two hours away and work fulltime, and she is still in grad school for a couple of years. this month she has had off from school and started going out with her friends alot, 4 nights a week, she says she misses that and needs time to have for herself, since i go down that almost everweekend, that doenst leave much time for going out when school starts up again. She says there is no one else, doenst want to date anyone, but i have heard that 2x before both datin within 2 weeks. i think this girl is damn near perfect and i believe that if I was still in town this would never be an issue because more days would be avaible to be with eachother. do girls ever really need time for themself or is this their way of saying im looking or have another man lined up and I want to see how it works with him first.....what do you think about it?
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reader, Angel Underneath +, writes (1 January 2006):
Only time will tell if she has someone else lined up but the sad fact remains that usually when someone tells you "they want a break" then in their mind they're already on their way out of the relationship.
Keep your dignity and keep your distance. If she really does just need time to herself and decided she wants to see you after a time apart then it is for her to come to you and ask you out.
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