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writes: I need some help, I have been with this girl for about two years, and I screwed it up. I got drunk one night at a college bar and this girl gave me a hicky and my girlfriend saw it. She has always had trust issues with me and that was the last straw. She constantly said I was a player. This was about four months ago, and the first week after she found out, I went over to her house two nights and she saw me and we had a great time. It was looking up the whole time that week. But, after that week, we got distant. Since then, I have done all that I could to get her back, but she won't let her guard down. Along with several other things that are bigger, I call her almost everyday trying to talk to her, but if she doesn't answer, I don't call back that day. I got Dierks Bentley to dedicate a song to her before thanksgiving and it was almost perfect, but we didn't get to see each other much after the concert. But, when I came home for thanksgiving we had a great talk beside the water, and we had this enchanting kiss. We met once again, and it went well, but no kiss, which was fine with me. Since then, everything went back down hill. Now I am back for christmas and we had one talk Monday and it went okay, although I did get a little emotional. But, since the talk, we have not talked again. She says she needs time, and I am more than willing to give that to her, but do you think that she is going to give me another chance, or is it really over. Please help me. I love this girl so much, do you think she can forgive and love me again?
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Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, Wise Worm, writes (6 January 2005): YOU CAN'T SHIFT THE BLAME BUDDY!!!First you blame alchohol and then the girl that gave you the hicky....Everything that happened that night was your fault! You must take resposibility for your own actions, you allowed that girl to suck on your neck for at least 6 seconds... IF THE COLLEGE JOCK SUCKED YOUR GIRLFRIENDS NECK................................Forgiveness is easy, even forgetting is OKYou see you build trust on fragile grounds, if it breaks once, it is nearly impossible to lay another foundation...Its up to her, if she finds someone that makes her feel safe and special, your gone....unless you can prove to her that you are the only one for her.
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