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Archived questions from: November, 2016 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

How do I get over my former friend's betrayal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2950 days ago

30 November 2016 (F) - Hi, How do I get my lying, cheating friend out of my head?? I was conned and lied to by a girl I thought was a friend of mine just so she could take my ex (we were on a temporary break)! I totally trusted her but she ended up ruining my life, wi...

Met a guy on Tinder. Was he just after a hook-up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2951 days ago

29 November 2016 (F) - So I matched with a man on tinder Who was visiting my city for a week... I was surprised that I even went out with him bc I want a real relationship but he seemed really interesting. he actually asked me to coffee so wasn't really a hook up sitch...

How do I accept compliments with confidence?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2949 days ago

27 November 2016 (M) - Dear cupids, This is a little embarrassing for me to admit. I head a team of three people at work and I am a bit of a shy and awkward kind of person. Whenever we mess up I know to behave like I'm sorry. I just take it on the chin, accept responsib...

My girlfriend said I was 'mushy'

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2951 days ago

27 November 2016 (M) - I have been with a new girl for a few months. Tonight we were drinking a little bit and I told her how much I enjoyed being with her. She asked me if I was getting mushy and I told her that I was and that she needed to cope with it. I did tel...

Food for Thought

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27 November 2016 (M) - Nothing is really written in stone is it, many things can change dramatically, some can change a little and a few are more or less stable. Dignity and a sense of worth seems so fragile and volatile in some people these days and for them it's always ...

Why did this very shy guy come over and touch me and talk to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2952 days ago

26 November 2016 (F) - ok this shy guy who flirts with me suddenly came right besides me and put his hands on my shoulder and said how are you to me. ..I was shocked because he is very shy guy and never touches any other female at all and also he gets nervous around me a ...

How can I stop this destructive behavior?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2950 days ago

26 November 2016 (F) - How can I get over the fear of being as ding up alone(not married with children) - this fear has lurked such insecurity that it had led me into the arms of men that are verbally abusive and self centered - I've had one bf since I was 19-25(self ...

I'm straight and not interested in my female friend, but I'd like to maintain our friendship. Can that still happen after she admitted romantic feelings for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2955 days ago

24 November 2016 (F) - I used to have a female best friend, who fell in love with me. Trouble was, I'm straight and had a boyfriend. She got very jealous, and I spilt up with my boyfriend because I felt our friendship was nore important, which made it worse, because I ...

How much should I be involved with friends' love life?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 2955 days ago

23 November 2016 (M) - As I grow older I recognise things that make me hurt and angry. One of those things that trigger me is when good friends stay friends with people I dont think are nice people and are mean, Another is friends dating people i dont like, also when ...

If you haven't kissed in a long time is it sort of weird to kiss?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2945 days ago

22 November 2016 (F) - HELP! Please. I 'm going on a second date with a guy, and I'm 22 and although I've kissed people in the past it's been a while since I've kissed someone - more than a year- ( let alone sex haha I think I'm a virgin again, no seriously, anything ...

I've taken him back 3 times despite him having broken my trust, now I'm pregnant after a miscarriage and I feel he's straying again

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2953 days ago

21 November 2016 (F) - I keep taking my boyfriend back time and time again after he cheats on me or hurts me, and I really don't know why. At first I took him back because I generally felt I was to blame. I'm saying it was my fault, but I did a few stupid things at the ...

The guy who meant nothing to her in her past got to live out his fantasy while I, despite being her boyfriend, don't get the same privilege. Isn't it unfair?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2959 days ago

20 November 2016 (M) - I guess the question I have is what do I do? About 3 years ago before my girlfriend met me she had sex with a girl while a guy she occasionally hooked up with watched. They were all out at the pub and the girl was interested in her and the guys ...

Hard to read the sjgnals

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2958 days ago

20 November 2016 (M) - Dear aunts and uncles, I have a lady fried with whom my relationship was completely platonic.I found her attractive when we first met and she is a good person. We hardly communicate and when we do it's about work related stuff. In the past week, o...

Making love vs having sex

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2955 days ago

20 November 2016 (M) - how do you know when your making love and not having sex,...

Why do men sexualize women this way?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2958 days ago

20 November 2016 (F) - Why are men so disgusting? I'm not trolling. From what I have seen of men, they are foul. They admit to looking at every woman as a sexual partner, imagining her naked... They think disgusting things. They use disgusting words when referrin...

How can I make co parenting work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2959 days ago

20 November 2016 (F) - Does anyone have experience in co-parenting? I recently split from my boyfriend, and we have 2 children. Things ended pretty badly, but I've accepted that we're through. I think he's taking it a bit harder than I am, but as a mother, you don't have ...

Why are so many men scared of the real world ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2961 days ago

18 November 2016 (F) - Why are men scared of life ? ive given so many men chances after they claim so many excuses . they get given 'gold' to say they darent do things and no joke it could be smal things such as meeting up in a pub for a meal theyd rather end things ...

I'm losing my mind over my finances! This is worse than rock bottom. What do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2961 days ago

17 November 2016 (F) - I know this isn't exactly a relationship question but this is killing me. I'm in debt after helping out financially. I haven't been able to pay credit cards, haven't been able to find a second job and now, I'm in danger of losing my car. My ...

What is wrong with me I want a relationship but I don't want sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2960 days ago

17 November 2016 (F) - Hey Cupids,I'm still a young woman who is truly in to sex with men but I have been single for years and now I want to get into the dating world but not ready to have sex with anymore.I'm ready to travel and just do me but I do feel lonely at times ...

Do women like men with deep voices?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2963 days ago

16 November 2016 (M) - This girl at work, she's a sweetheart, always looks so positive and full of energy. I've been feeling like she avoids me a lot, so one day I talked to her about it and though she was really friendly, she said that i was a bit intimidating, my voice ...

Can two people who have been in bad relationships with others find love again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2963 days ago

16 November 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid, I was wondering can two people who have been in bad relationships not together but with other people turn out to be the best couple knowing their backgrounds of relationships and will they need therapy.My friend and I are going to give ...

Facebook jealousy is making me resentful and bitter

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2965 days ago

14 November 2016 (F) - I saw a question posted a while back similar to this, as I seem to have the same problem. I recently had to deactivate my Facebook account because everyone posting constantly about their wonderful lives is making me really jealous and resentful of ...

Boyfriend's family is refusing to let me stay with them.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2965 days ago

14 November 2016 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for 18 months now. He is Indian and his family is Muslim. We intend to get married in the next year (not engaged yet) and they know we are serious, but because I am a white blonde girl they treat me completely ...

Why do I feel uncomfortable when people say my name out loud?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2966 days ago

14 November 2016 (F) - I've always been this way since I was little. I get very very uncomfortable when someone says my name or if I hear my name. I have a very unique name in the sense that I've never heard it or seen it before and I still haven't encountered it ...

What does it mean when someone describes a man as "sharp"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2967 days ago

14 November 2016 (F) - Dear Aunts, OK, so I hear this word get thrown around a lot to describe men. 1. One time my coworker said to be aware of my manager because he was sharp. He used to eye me a lot. Whaa? 2. A male friend told me that my crush was sharpe...

I read my sister's old life planning journals and I am shocked at what I found!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2966 days ago

13 November 2016 (F) - My sister graduated university last june and as a result had a whole box of old stationary/notepads in her room at home which my mum said I could borrow since she left them behind when she moved out (she's currently renting a flat for a year as ...

Should men in committed relationships be following bikini models on Instagram?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2965 days ago

13 November 2016 (F) - I wanted to know if it's right for a man in a relationship to have Instagram followers ( him following women that are models on Instagram) lately I noticed that a lot of my male friends who are married or in relationships are always folling these ...

Six years and no proposal; we've lived together for two. Is he stringing me along?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2962 days ago

13 November 2016 (F) - I love my partner of 6 years. A few years into the relationship he suggested we bought a house together (at the time he had just finished his service in the military, and I was finishing University - he had saved up a house deposit during his time ...

How do I make my husband notice me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2966 days ago

13 November 2016 (F) - My husband and I have been married for just over a year and together for 4 and I need help trying to figure out what I'm doing wrong. My husband spends all his spare time with his friends. He hangs out with them every single day. I hang out with my ...

My boyfriend is gaslighting me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2966 days ago

13 November 2016 (F) - Can anyone give me some advice on "gaslighting" please?its a technique used by narcissists etc to make people doubt their sanity!I'm having a lot of problems with my boyfriend of 2 years...the main problem is that hes not had sex with me for 6 ...

Boyfriend said "love ya" instead of "I love you". Is there a difference?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2968 days ago

12 November 2016 (F) - So my boyfriend has told me the L word. But he said "Love ya" instead of "I love you." Is there a difference?...

If you miss someone could it make you realize that you love them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2968 days ago

11 November 2016 (F) - Could missing someone make you realize that you love them, even if you might not have realized it before? The reason I ask is that my boyfriend is overseas and he's been gone for 4 weeks. He's back in 2. But for the very first time he told me ...

Am I confusing love with sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2970 days ago

9 November 2016 (F) - I'm in love with my best friend. We have been friends for years and have slept together on and off for a while. Am I confusing sex with love. Should I tell him?...

I'd like a gap year, is that so bad?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2972 days ago

6 November 2016 (F) - Hi. So I know this question isn't really about relationships and sex but this sites by far my favourite and I figured you guys would be helpful. Im 17 and supposed to be starting university next September - I say supposed to because I'm completely ...

If a man's intentions are sex, will holding off make him like you more?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2973 days ago

6 November 2016 (F) - I had read an article on the Evan Marc Katz website and it mentioned that holding off on sex weeds out the guys who are only interested in getting into your pants and not really wanting to get to know you/don't like you. I also heard from a dif...

I don't match his ideal. Should I worry?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2974 days ago

5 November 2016 (F) - Hiya I've been with my boyfriend now for 4 years when we first met he told me he likes women that have long blonde hair and pale blue eyes it never bothered me when we met as I thought nothing of it but lately these last few months any blonde haired ...

Would it be rude to not get back to a co-worker? She wants to sell me insurance!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2962 days ago

5 November 2016 (F) - 2 weeks ago,one of my co-workers that I’m cool with ,approched me and asked when I’m free.I said I was not sure and ask why she was asking.She proceeded to tell me that she needs help with something she is starting but she doesn’t want to discuss ...

My landlady still hasn't given me a lease to sign but is charging me extra rent for each time my boyfriend stays over. How do I handle this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2974 days ago

4 November 2016 (F) - Hey guys. Never been in this situation before and could really use a second opinion or two. I moved into a houseshare with a live-in landlady at the beginning of last month. I started off renting a single room, for which my landlady had sti...

Should I accept the new job?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2974 days ago

4 November 2016 (F) - Hello there, I work as a preschool teacher making 15/hr. Recently I graduated with a Bachelor's in my field of choice and began job hunting. The basic living wage (enough to afford a one bedroom) is 25/hr. But I applied for a job (working with au...

Married for 15 years, wife confessed to cheating on me early on. I'm mad at her but also very sexually excited by the dirty details! What's going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2976 days ago

3 November 2016 (M) - My wife and I have been married for 15 years and we have 2 young boys. We are happily married and are of Indian origin but we were both born in the UK where we have both lived all our life. The first 2-4 years of our marriage was blighted by my wi...

Should I ask him the questions I have and perhaps finally get closure?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2975 days ago

3 November 2016 (F) - I would like to seek an advice about an incident that happened way back 1990 when I was 19 yrs old. At age 15, I never had any boyfriend because my parents were very strict especially my father. I am not much exposed to society reason my parent...

Have a child with my unhelpful ex, my parents are supporting me and I'm pregnant again by the same guy! How do I tell my parents?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2976 days ago

3 November 2016 (F) - When I was 17 I got pregnant and had my son, shortly after he was born my bf and I broke up. He isn't s bad guy we were both just young. My parents blamed him for me pregnancy because he was older they put more blame on him (he was 29 when I got ...

Three boys to choose from!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2977 days ago

3 November 2016 (F) - Hello im a freshman in high school and I am having some problems with 3 guys... I know it seems like a lot but I really need help because it is taking over my head every single day. (Ill use Boy A, B, and C for their names). Boy A is a sophomore...

Should I give up on the guy I've been seeing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2976 days ago

2 November 2016 (F) - Hello I will start from the beginning. While at college I got very close to one guy in my year, we will call him Harry (he's not really called Harry). We had a 'bit of a thing' for 2 years, he would stay at my house, we would disappear at hou...

My boyfriend's parents don't approve of us marrying

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2978 days ago

2 November 2016 (F) - Hi , So i have been dating this guy for 2 years now and initially when i told him that i would like to marry in the future and if he can marry me then i will be ok to go out with him , he was fine with it . I am facing tremendous pressure to get m...

I heard talk that my FWB beat up his ex girlfriend

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2975 days ago

2 November 2016 (F) - Is past abuse a deal breaker or red flag for sex buddies? I left my boyfriend because he beat me up. I do still love him and been trying to deny the really tight tramua bond I have with him. And now I guess I have a new sex buddy.He has been hel...

If you find yourself having messed up badly, how can you stop beating yourself up? and will God or the universe send the right person(s) your way without you being prepared?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2976 days ago

2 November 2016 (F) - I met a great guy over a month or so ago and I blew it from the very beginning. I made a mistake by not respecting myself enough and made myself look like a low-value woman in his eyes by my actions and choices. I guess I didn't even realize my ...

Does my mom really love me or am I just a pawn for her? And why is she so materialistic when it comes to the question of my marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2979 days ago

1 November 2016 (F) - I don't know how to put this. Some background: I left my bf on my parents advise because he's not a good guy. I realised that I'm in a bad relationship and broke up. Now, my parents talk about arranged marriage on and off. I'm okay with meetin...

How do I force myself to want to care?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2976 days ago

1 November 2016 (M) - Hey all, I wanna know more about how to be more sociable. I am tired of being the quiet, minding his own business guy. I was a very quiet kid and am a quiet adult today. The problem is not fear or lack of confidence. Infact, in my head, I'm the smar...