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Archived questions from: October, 2014 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

When the bf looks at other woman and their pictures, is that what he really wants?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3711 days ago

31 October 2014 (F) - I understand that men sometimes can't help looking at another attractive woman or scrolling through their pictures of fb. I know that my boyfriend does both of these things (not on a regular basis, but occasionally). After reading about why men ...

Am I asking too much from him --- drinking and sexual abuse

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3711 days ago

30 October 2014 (F) - Sorry this is so long. I hope someone takes the time to read it. I've been recently dealing with some guilt involving my relationship with my fiance. We have an awesome relationship first of all. I know we are meant to be together and we talk abo...

Is 'heartache' a figurative term or does it really hurt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3712 days ago

30 October 2014 (F) - I've often heard of the term 'Heartache' but is it possible to feel real pain in the heart from missing someone, breaking up with someone, being hurt by someone emotionally, etc? Often times when I think of the possibility of breaking up with my ...

How can I tell him I'd rather have a piece of jewellery than chocolates as a present, and not sound ungrateful?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3712 days ago

29 October 2014 (F) - So, on my birthday my boyfriend (of about 9 months) bought me chocolates, along with taking me out for dinner and dessert. I enjoyed it, afterwards we spent some time together on the beach and I acknowledge he did spend a fair amount of money on...

My Boyfriend and his ex-sister in law! I am incandesant with anger over this. What could or should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3713 days ago

29 October 2014 (F) - My boyfriend slept with his ex sister in-law, so that now has a baby by his brother. I can't get over the past and I don't think I ever will. I hate that "BITCH" and she's part of their family which I can't stand!!!What should I do about this s...

Is it normal for a woman to be completely addicted to her man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3713 days ago

29 October 2014 (M) - Hey everyone, I have been lately observing 2 of my friends and how they behave in their relationships, and I have been wondering a lot about whether this is the right way for a couple to be. The 2 examples (especially the 2nd one) are rat...

I orgasm when alone, yet lose the orgasm when with my Bf. Yes he's caring with foreplay. What needs to change?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3713 days ago

29 October 2014 (F) - Hello ! So I'm having a issue with reaching an orgasm with my boyfriend . He's 5 years older then me and he's the best lover I have ever had ( I think it's because he's older ) but anyways I have never climaxed with anybody that I have been ...

I do miss him. But first I want him to miss me. So HOW do I ensure that he really misses me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3712 days ago

29 October 2014 (F) - Okay so there is this guy I like. recently we hung out and he told me how he thinks i'm beautiful and that he likes my personality. I like him a lot too hes really cool, and we seemed to have been getting a long just fine, but the problem is. ...

Should I go with girl A? But what can I do about Girl C's jealousy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3713 days ago

29 October 2014 (M) - Hello DC, it's been a little while. I need some help. Girl problems, as usual. Pretty wordy, this one. Sorry. There's a girl, let's call her Girl A. She's new to my life, but when I met her, I knew something good would happen. I had asked her ou...

Is my Boyfriend more likely to cheat because 4 of his friends are cheaters?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3713 days ago

28 October 2014 (F) - Four of my boyfriend's friends (both females and males) have cheated on their partner. Does that mean he is more likely to cheat?...

He was just being friendly, right?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3713 days ago

28 October 2014 (F) - A young guy has recently started at out workplace and was being introduced to everyone and he came into the room I was in, smiled and said hello but as he left and while I was talking to his manager he winked at me. I know I should probably ...

I resent her, and feel bad about not forgiving her, this time. Is it time to break up with her?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3707 days ago

28 October 2014 (M) - On Wednesday night I found out my girlfriend had been actively looking for someone on a dating site, after logging into the account I seen she was flirting/dirty talking with this other person, I confronted her the second I found it. We've been...

Seeking input on which is the better work option. Current employer or a change?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3714 days ago

28 October 2014 (F) - I am hoping someone can help me! I am currently a nanny and work 16 hours a week mainly working from 2.30 until 6.30 Monday to Thursday. I am also not on a contract. However, the family are moving abroad next August. They have asked me to work...

Is it normal for a boyfriend to mock his girlfriend for being pretty?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3714 days ago

28 October 2014 (F) - Is it normal for my own boyfriend to mock me for being pretty? I've always been insecure about my looks, especially when it comes to him. Although it's gotten much better now (been together for about 3 yrs), I always have doubts about how I look ...

Why are siblings so resistant to giving any support to our mother?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3714 days ago

28 October 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid,I am the second oldest child and I have four other siblings who just act as if they don't have a living parent.I can't get them to do a single thing for my for our mom everything has a price on it they won't go to the store without ...

How can the spark be returned to our relationship? What needs to change or improve?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3714 days ago

28 October 2014 (F) - Well, we've been together for 5 years and we lose that spark we had before. We almost argues and fight all the time and we broke up 3 months before and now getting back together again. But things has changed and so do our feelings. He said he ...

Since my parents divorced my mother has changed. Why does she continue to reject me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3713 days ago

28 October 2014 (F) - My parents are divorced. It was a messy, painful battle, and my mother is the one who initiated it. Since then, she has moved away and changed into a completely different person. Her social life is so busy she no longer has time for me. And when...

Should I go along to the Doctor with my fiance when she visits the Doctor to talk about contraception?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3700 days ago

28 October 2014 (M) - Hi everyone. I am engaged to get married next year in june. It is about my fiance going to be using birth control. She plans to go see the doctor and get all that figured out. But when would be a good time to go to the doctor and should i go alon...

He's controlling and abusive. What's the best way to handle this situation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3713 days ago

27 October 2014 (F) - Been with my partner almost five years, we have a four year old son together. For the last two years our relationship has been very rocky. It has been an unhappy relationship for me, since being with him he has stopped me seeing family and frien...

How do I rise above the bullying and develop confidence in me and deflect bullying?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3694 days ago

27 October 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid I feel unsupported in life. I experienced poor treatment from my dad from the beginning of my time and my mom has never really praised me that much; I felt that both my mom and my dad saw the worst in me, unknowingly. They didn't se...

My Gf is seeing her ex, but has not told me. What is the best way of dealing with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3714 days ago

27 October 2014 (F) - Hi, My girlfriend is still best friends with her ex boyfriend, which I aren't really okay by, but I know that if I confront her about it then she will just say don't make me choose, so therefore that means that she will chose him over me. I woul...

Am I overthinking this? My friend wants me to accomodate her friends at my home. I don't know them and feel uncomfortable about her request.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3714 days ago

27 October 2014 (F) - Friends question. I got a bit bewildered to day by friend's request. She is my very good friend, I know her for 15 years. They have this friends a couple from a different city who comes on vacation to our part for New Year's Eve and stay for ...

Heard rumors that she's a virgin. After dating for 5 months, how to bring up the topic of sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3714 days ago

27 October 2014 (M) - I have been dating this amazing girl for 5 months, I am 24 and she is 20. We get along great and connect very well, however in the time we have been dating the subject of sex (or anything remotely close to the subject) has not been brought up yet. I ...

My fiancè cheated on me with his ex! I am so angry at this woman, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3367 days ago

27 October 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid, I need to know what to do in my situation that I know im not the only one that is dealing. Ive been with a man for just over 2 years now. We are engaged. The problem is this: He has twin boys with his ex. Now I understand that ...

Met online. He's separated but still married. Did he break up due to me questioning him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3715 days ago

27 October 2014 (F) - I really need your advice here- I'm female (27) been dating this amazing man (35) who's separated but still married that I met online, -we went on four amazing dates (2 dinners, drinks and an art exhibition). We instantly clicked and we had amazing ...

Can a married man fall in long with his mistress? Or is the lover just used for sex on the side?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3713 days ago

27 October 2014 (F) - Do married men only use their lover on the side just for sex only? Can they actually fall in love with their mistress, despite being torn because of the children? ...

Can you help calculate the maths to perhaps arrive at which guy is the likely father?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3713 days ago

27 October 2014 (F) - This is kind of embarrassing but i just want an opinion im fairly sure i know the answer would like some opinions though. I am 6 mths pregnant. at the time of falling pregnant i slept with 2 guys. im fairly sure i know who the dad is but was w...

How do I get over these lingering feelings for J without losing him as a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3708 days ago

27 October 2014 (F) - It might be long, so please bear with me. I'll start off with some basics. I am currently 20 and my boyfriend is 21 years old (we'll call him K). We've been together for almost 3 and a half years, since my junior year in high school, and his...

Am I right to stay with him when there are so many issues in our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3716 days ago

26 October 2014 (F) - I'm so confused. I don't know if I want to be with my partner of 7 years any more?? The trouble is we have been together for all this time and I wouldn't know what to do or who I am without him. It has been getting clearer over the last year that we ...

Big difficulties ahead. Will this relationship last? What other options are open to me, to consider?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3716 days ago

26 October 2014 (F) - A year ago, I was ready to move to another city, transfer to finish school and leave sex work behind. I had been an escort for over 2 years, had a failed marriage and a child not living with me because of my unstable and crazy lifestyle (he lives ...

He's lied to me multiple times. And Cheated. Should I be 'over it' as he claims?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3710 days ago

26 October 2014 (F) - I have a question that I need both male and female point of views on: My fiancé in the beginning of our relationship went around my back and began to be unfaithful. He had a second phone to do all his "dirty work" on. I noticed a change in his pe...

Only ever had sex with my BF so how could my BF have given me HPV? Is his excuse plausible? Or has he been cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3715 days ago

26 October 2014 (F) - It seemed really strange I developed HPV from my boyfriend. I confronted my boyfriend after my doctor told me I had HPV. At this point I'm sure he was cheating, how else would he get it, how else would I get it. We lost our virginity together, so I ...

What should I do about my partner of 5 years who has recently become aggressive and has come close to fighting with my family?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3716 days ago

26 October 2014 (F) - I have been with my partner for 5 years now We live together but are not married nor do we have children Recently he has become very aggressive to the point where he has been nearly getting into fights with my family I feel lost and heart brok...

Will my Bf care that I lack close friends? Been studying and establishing a career.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3716 days ago

26 October 2014 (F) - I've always been an independent person but I'm wondering if my boyfriend would be concerned that I have no close friends. I graduated this spring and have been working since. I enjoy my job which mainly involves communicating with customers an...

I'm a compulsive cheater and I suffer depressed. What help do I need to stop this cheating? I do love my older Bf

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3715 days ago

25 October 2014 (F) - I'm a 30 year old woman in a committed, loving relationship with a man who is nearly 50. I'm a compulsive cheater. I can't help myself and I hate myself so very much. I've had numerous one-night stands with various men. It is hard for anyone to ...

Is it common for CrossDressers to have multiple personalities that don't always communicate

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3717 days ago

25 October 2014 (F) - My boyfriend is a crossdresser as time hit gone on he has become more and more into dressing up for atleast the last 6-9 months he has been doing things like wearing my favorit lingerie while Im not home usually hes on Craigslist looking for other ...

Problems with neighborhood kids. Should we call the cops?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3717 days ago

25 October 2014 (F) - We just bought a new house in a great neighborhood after a week the house right across from us was rented out. Now we regret buying our house cause the their kids put a baseball goal on the road almost everyday and now there's ALOT of kids running ...

Why would the owners of the business tell me such confidential information?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3718 days ago

24 October 2014 (F) - My boss just quit recently. Now the owners called me to tell me that they are getting ready to fire her boss. They said they want me to stick around and hang in there. They are planning to tell him in Monday. Since my boss quit it is just me as an ...

I turned down their job offer -- how do I ask them to consider me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3718 days ago

23 October 2014 (F) - I am an overseas contract worker that has been placed in an assignment with a work environment/living that is stressful/hazardous to my health. Recently, I broke out in in hives. I would like to find another assignment however, this is not hiring ...

Should I come clean to my boss, who is my father-in-law?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3714 days ago

23 October 2014 (M) - Hello everyone, I need your advice on this. I have been working with my father in-law's company for close to three years and ever since I joined, I have turned a few things around. The company is now doing great and I have been complimented on a job ...

What is the best way to handle a Bf who keeps on looking up Ex Gfs ? He makes me feel as if I am not good enough for him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3719 days ago

22 October 2014 (F) - Hello, I am seeking for some help and advice on a situation that has totally damaged me.. I have a boyfriend that I have been dating for 2 years but we have dated before this two year relationship as well. This 2 year relationship has came ac...

Confused about getting married

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3718 days ago

22 October 2014 (F) - Hi! I am a 31 years old woman single and a virgin. I live in Pakistan where you can only have a relationship when you are married. SO arrange marriages are usually the case here. I married six years ago to a guy but we ended up divorced. Now I am...

Can interracial relationships really work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3720 days ago

22 October 2014 (F) - I hear stories that Korean guys treat you VERY differently after marriage. They may be awesome boyfriends but after the wedding, they turn 180degrees. They focus only on working, they expect you to do all the chores, they listen to their parents ...

No one will rent an apartment to me because of my children! Advice?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3716 days ago

22 October 2014 (F) - I've been apartment searching for 3yrs and I have been rejected hundreds of times. I have no criminal back, my credit is decent because I never had credit cards. Its not great but not bad its almost 700. People have been discriminating against me ...

Can soul mates find each other at such a young age?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3719 days ago

21 October 2014 (F) - Hi there people, I was just wondering is it possible to meet your soul mate in school. I have been with my boyfriend 7 years (since we were 15). We have an amazing relationship i really couldnt complain. We both have good career paths hes a proje...

Should I accept a fixed term contract if I'm offered it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3719 days ago

21 October 2014 (F) - Hi, I am trying to stand on my own two feet financially after a very bad break up with an abusive ex partner. I have worked at a university on 2 temporary contracts with different departments (yearly contracts, but limited hours/not enough...

After enduring so many personal difficulties I now discover the man I've started seeing is HIV positive

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3722 days ago

20 October 2014 (F) - Hi everybody. Please don't judge me, I feel horrible enough. I just want some advice and opinions please. I have had a difficult last ten years probably. My father had an affair and as a result of that my mother and father divorced. They a...

My wife's libido is low after having our baby

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3722 days ago

20 October 2014 (M) - I am sorry if this is an old issue - I have looked over previous thread but everyone is unique eh? Two years ago I married my wife who is considered by all who meet her, male and female, to be a particularly attractive and 'sexy' woman. Las...

I can't forgive my boyfriend's spinelessness

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3722 days ago

20 October 2014 (F) - I am not normally one for holding grudges, but I just can't seem to see a way past this. Last year my boyfriend whom I've had a long distance relationship with for four years, took me to his hometown to meet his closest friends. They were all ok, ...

Strict parents and I'm nearly 16. How can I convince them to allow me to be more independent?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3722 days ago

20 October 2014 (?) - Hi everyone :) I need some advice on how I could convince my parents to let me be more independent when I hang out with my friends. This is what I mean by independent: I am almost 16 (in 3 months), whenever I go out like to hangout with my ...