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Archived questions from: June, 2014 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Job interview coming up soon. Feeling stressed, worried and overwhelmed. How do I deal with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3800 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - I feel that I need some advice re. my stress. I have a job interview in a few hours and I feel overwhelmed with stress and worry, that I'm in tears and feeling nauseous . I don't have time to go and see a doctor at the moment. But I don't know how...

Younger cousins coming for visit. How to keep them occupied and happy for a sleepover? From 4 year old girl, plus three more girls, then the eldest who is an 11 year old boy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3801 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - Okay I need some ideas for family activities. This Thursday I'm having a sleepover with my younger cousins. Their dad, my first cousin, passed away a year ago. This is the first time all 5 of his children (all half-siblings) have all been togethe...

How can I best cope with my insomnia? Is it that my kindle addictive?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3801 days ago

30 June 2014 (M) - Basic problem. Im staying up late, until about 1:00 am on my kindle. It's ruining my sleep schedule. Why can't I get off of this device and go to sleep? Help? Such a small issue, and I'm too tired to figure it out on my own. I know it's ...

Why would my father suggest he could accompany this girl and I to the movies? Her reply confused me too

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3801 days ago

30 June 2014 (M) - i have two questions to ask.so i like this girl right and one day i had no one to go to the movies with and my dad suggested that i ask her to go with me. what i don't get is that she freaked out. so my dad says that he could come if it wasn't too ...

How can I overcome my jealousy and my fears that he might cheat and my insecurities?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3783 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - Please help guys. I need to stop being so insecure all the time with my boyfriend, I'm so scared im going push him away. I just get so scared he's going to cheat on me or whatever do something. He hasn't really given me a reason to doubt him he t...

I think I'm falling out of love. What can be done to improve the situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3764 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost a year now but it doesn't feel like we're dating anymore. we dont go out much, we never really did, but we would always go to each others houses and hang out have sex and chill. i keep urging him to do ...

Was I right to throw the creep out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3785 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - When your kids hate the guy you are dating....watch out. No telling what they will do. I had been seeing a fellow for about 6 months or so, and my two girls could not stand him. He was trying to play the concerned parent part. He never lived in...

LDR issues. Do I confront her over her Ex issues ? Do I insist on seeing her to work things out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3799 days ago

29 June 2014 (F) - LDR issues.Do I confront the issues? Do I insist on seeing her next weekend? To try to work things out with her? For years I ignored the feeling in the back of my mind that I may be gay. However about 3 months ago a friend signed me up to a gay dati...

Four months of dating and he's giving me mixed signals

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3801 days ago

29 June 2014 (F) - Hello uncle and auntie's, I have posted a concern before regarding my four-month relationship with this guy. This guy and I have been together for four months and everything was going well it's just that he has and ask me to be his girlfriend. ...

Why don't I feel anything when bad events occur? is it a mental issue, or am I just scarred?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3802 days ago

29 June 2014 (M) - Hello everybody! Just before I start this too much, I'd like to say that I don't really appreciate mean replies and answers, but if you feel like you absolutely HAVE to tell me, then go ahead. So, I can't seem to understand why, but my emotions ...

If he wants nothing to do with me why won't he just decline and block me on social media? Is he playing games leaving me hanging?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2842 days ago

28 June 2014 (F) - My question is about a guy who appears to be "leading me on". About 9 months ago we had a terrible falling out. We were supposed to be just friends but I found out he was in love with me. He was very distraught that I discovered how he truly felt ...

How do I fake it and carry on for our baby, when I'm bored and feel we're incompatible?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3801 days ago

28 June 2014 (F) - Looking for advice on how to try and make my relationship work even though I am so bored! Met 4 years ago, at the time I was happily single, living alone and enjoying my own space. We used to meet 3-4 tines per week and were very happy together...

Why am I so scared of someone loving me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3801 days ago

28 June 2014 (F) - Hey everyone....I don't know the best way to explain this..I really want to be in a serious relationship with a guy. but whenever I meet someone I get scared and change my about starting something with them. It usually happens after I find out that ...

Online dating guide - with really good advice for you

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3803 days ago

28 June 2014 (M) - So why use Internet Dating? Over the last few years Internet Datings popularity has soared! There are now millions of us looking for love, romance and friendship online. Like so many aspects of life - shopping, banking, communicating with frie...

How do I deal with breaking up with someone this mentally unwell?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3803 days ago

28 June 2014 (F) - I need some reassurance and general advice. I've been with my fiancée for nearly four years and then last weekend we broke up. It was the next step in what has been a month of hell. Through out our relationship, she has battled with depression. ...

My Gf never initiates sex. Makes me feel I'm the only one who wants it. How can I encourage her to initiate sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3803 days ago

28 June 2014 (M) - For the ladies, Ive been with my babe for 4 going on 5 years and we had sex about 2 months ago and both lost our virginity to each other. Awesome! But the whole time we have been together I always (if not mostly) initiate our intimacy and as her ...

What are your opinions on this close friendship my BF has with this long term friend who's a girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3803 days ago

28 June 2014 (F) - Dear cupid, Ok so am new to this however I will appreciate the advice you guys give me. I am currently with a guy i am in love with. We celebrated our 3yrs anniversary of knowing each other earlier in June. He and I are very happy together now b...

I am primarily attracted to men who don't seem to find me attractive and it hurts. I'm well educated, articulate and curvy. What do I need to consider or do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3800 days ago

28 June 2014 (F) - Hi everyone, I'd really value your thoughts and advice on my situation. First I'll give a bit of background to give you a better picture. I'm a 24 year old black girl from London and I am primarily (but not exclusively) attracted to white ...

How do I handle this situation? My mother in law and sister in law chose to get my son's hair cut without our permission. Am I over-reacting? It will grow. It's the disrespect that irritates me

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3801 days ago

28 June 2014 (F) - Hello Agony aunts, I have a major issue that I need advice on. My husband and I have a 2yr old son. He is currently in our hometown visiting family. My mother n law and sister n law decided to get my son hair cut( this was his 2nd cut) without...

If we break up will he give up on our daughter too? I am tired of his abuse and his behaviour

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3803 days ago

28 June 2014 (F) - I know he treats me bad but sometimes some people re abusive because they love you too much, this is my baby daddy and he is emotionally abusing me. He left me pregnant and came back when baby was 3 months blaming me for making him leave. We ...

What's a 32 year old Virgin to do if he feels like a Nerd in his own community - if he wants to get girls?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3803 days ago

28 June 2014 (M) - Modnote: I allowed 2 of the videos as I feel that they contributed important understanding. I did not allow the Fleshlight video. I watched all 3 videos before I allowed the 2 in. The rest below is from the Original Poster - - - - - --- Well..I n...

He's lost his job and now I feel like we're over. He's cold and distant. Is this relationship over?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3802 days ago

27 June 2014 (F) - He's lost his job and now I feel like we're over? My bf was the sweetest, caring and very attentive when he had a job. But he's lost his job 6 months now and he's just so distant and cold. He hardly calls or texts me. We argue every time w...

Is this the right course for me? Disabled wife, no sex for years. Now I have a platonic female friend

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3799 days ago

27 June 2014 (M) - I am a married man with a disabled wife, and I suffer from extreme caretaker's depression because of it. Recently I ran into a divorced lady of about my age, who used to be friend of my wife's (they turned out to be very non-compatible a...

Serious relationship for 2 years. Yet he flirts. He says he doesn't want to be mean or hurt their feelings. But what about my feelings?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3803 days ago

27 June 2014 (F) - As much as I love my boyfriend I seem to have a problem with something - the way he acts with other woman. My boyfriend is what most people would call a 'natural flirt' and honestly it bothers me a lot. We live in a small town and he knows a lot ...

He's 18. It feels right but wrong. How should I handle this considering that I live in a very closed community?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3801 days ago

27 June 2014 (F) - Hi i really need advice on this,i feel so confused.. I recently met my best friend's cousin and i knew the minute i saw him that i liked him,i feel so attracted to him It's like nothing i have ever experienced.. The problem is he is 18!! A Also i...

The people who find me attractive aren't the ones I'm interested in

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3804 days ago

27 June 2014 (F) - Hi this one is mainly for the women out there. Do you tend to get alot of unwanted attention but never any wanted attention? Will my luck change? I can't figure it out I'm fairly good looking from what people say. The people who find me ...

He wants a baby but doesn't want to get married

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3800 days ago

27 June 2014 (F) - I've been with my bf for two and half years. I'm 23 and he is 40. He was married and it ended with a nasty divorce (before we met). I honestly see him as the guy I want to spend the rest of my life with but there is a huge problem. He doesn't want ...

I called off the wedding. But how do I get past the guilt if I leave him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3804 days ago

26 June 2014 (F) - I was until recently, engaged to be married. I called off the wedding because my fiancé yells a lot, is very stressed (life choices, poor planning, disorganization, plus regular stresses of job, kids, etc.), blames me and others for everything, ...

I want to help my ex through his gambling addiction

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3806 days ago

25 June 2014 (F) - Hello everybody, I don't usually do this sort of thing but I am currently in despair over a break up with my ex. Me and my ex broke up in February and I have been in upset since. We were together for 5 years and although we had our upsets we were ...

Should I try to change career?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3807 days ago

23 June 2014 (F) - I'm a 22 year old female, i have a son who is four years old. I have been in and out of jobs since he was born but i never stick to a job. I am now studying towards a law degree but i feel like giving up already, i thought it would be for me but i ...

What can I do about this persistent kind of creepy guy who wants to see me? I am not interested.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3808 days ago

23 June 2014 (F) - I have been out of high school for four years studying at university. This year I moved to a new city to be with my boyfriend. I have been trying to keep my presence in this city on the down low because there is a guy here I really did not want to k...

My sister is attractive. I have low self esteem problems. How can I overcome these issues?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3808 days ago

23 June 2014 (F) - Hello I have suffered with low self esteem for years and need to get over it really! I have a sister who is beautiful, tall, slim and popular. My family always used to comment how she looked like a model and their faces would light up when sh...

My The dilemma - I want to get married soonish; he doesn't. He wants to study. What compromises could be considered? Any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3808 days ago

23 June 2014 (F) - Hello. My boyfriend and I are in our mid 20's and this month we have been dating for five years. Our first two years of dating we lived in different towns which were 250 miles apart. The next two years we lived together. And for the next four ...

He knew religion was important to me, but now he says he won't convert

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3807 days ago

23 June 2014 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend and I have known each other for a year and have been dating for about 6 months. We absolutely love each other and we have a very strong relationship. I am Muslim and he is Christian. We used to be close friends before we started ...

His knowing my secret keeps me in this abusive relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3801 days ago

22 June 2014 (F) - When i was 14 i lost my virginity to my cousin who was 15 2years ago. . .i moved on and it never bothered me, 6months later i met this guy who i thought meant the world to me and i really enjoyed being with him, i trusted him too, when it came that ...

Am I too ugly for guys to like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3808 days ago

22 June 2014 (F) - I'm 20 years old and college has definitely helped me put on the pounds, so I'm huge everywhere except for my boobs. They look the same as they did when I was a scrawny 7th grader. I also have really short hair because I think I look better with it ...

How do I learn to get by on my own?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3787 days ago

22 June 2014 (F) - I'm feeling really lonely at the moment and although I know there are good reasons for it, it's a reoccurring feeling for me and always has been. I'm a pretty independent person, been single mostly apart from 1 long term relationship of ...

My boyfriend always leaves me behind for one of his particular friends enemy though he knows it hurts me that I'm never invited? Is it me or him that should back off on this yearly trip.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3806 days ago

22 June 2014 (F) - My boyfriend is much older than me and we have been together about 10 years. A couple years ago I went back to school with his encouragement so that I can make decent money when he's no longer here. He's the most generous person and treats me and my ...

Unwanted attention from an old guy at the restaurant

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3808 days ago

21 June 2014 (F) - Hello, This isn't really a relationship question but I need advice. I have 30 minute lunch breaks every time I work more than a 6 hour shift, which is about 4 days a week. Around my work, there's no where to really eat. We have a Dunkin Don...

Why do people suddenly seem to find me appealing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3812 days ago

20 June 2014 (?) - Ok so im 14 and this year I went to a school with like fifty kids . Because there were so little kids, it was natural that nobody had a crush on me. I went to a huge school in seventh grade and nobody not guys or girls thought i was even a little ...

What are your thoughts on the Mrs. America Pagaent?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3812 days ago

19 June 2014 (F) - I was wondering what people actually thought about the MRS America contest. Do people think it is a good thing for married women to try out for or do they feel sorry for these women trying out or that they may have self esteem issues and need ...

How do I accept that my appearance is ordinary?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3799 days ago

19 June 2014 (F) - I've been recently watching porn videos (not masturbating just missing sex) and I'm surprised at how flawless some of the actors are. How can people look like that? This was amateur and she didn't have a blemish on her! How can I accept that I h...

Was the choice I made cowardly or sensible?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3812 days ago

18 June 2014 (M) - A few nights ago, I took my girlfriend out to eat. It was about 1:30 in the morning when we left home, and yes there are restaurants open at that time. I've never personally been to the place but my friend recommend it with high praise. We were on ...

Shouldn't he be focusing on the time she has left, instea of planning her funeral?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3813 days ago

18 June 2014 (F) - My mum has terminal cancer and is under palliative care. Recently she's gone downhill and my dad is preparing for her death. He's organising the order of service, timings, list of people to tell, music, food etc ringing people up and having lengthy ...

Is my boyfriend bisexual and living a double life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3813 days ago

18 June 2014 (F) - Hello I'm really confused and I think my boyfriend might be bisexual or gay. My boyfriend has grown up in an abusive and dysfunctional home. He says he has a lot of family problems with his dad but that's as far as it goes. He gets angry when I ...

Wondering about the "swinging" lifestyle

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3813 days ago

17 June 2014 (M) - My wife told me one of her friends recently confided in her that she and her husband have been visiting swingers clubs over the past few months. It started off with her fantasies to have two men at once, but since then has escalated and both of them ...

Is there any way to convince my ex to give me a second chance?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3813 days ago

17 June 2014 (M) - Is there any way to convince my ex to give me a second chance? My gf and I met 18 months ago and we ended up in a relationship literally over night. Our relationship moved extremely fast with me moving in within the first month. She is 7 yrs you...

My boyfriend's ex is vindictive and wants him to sign over the rights to his child.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3814 days ago

17 June 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. Right after we got together he told me that his ex fling told him he had a son. They had a horrible relationship and before ending she told him she had already been with other people. Needless to ...

What is Appropriate/Inappropriate behavior for a relationship??

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3787 days ago

16 June 2014 (F) - I feel very confused about my current situation with my long term boyfriend, and am looking for some outside advice... We have been dating for a long time. Several years ago, I found out that that he was chatting with girls online, having c...

Sick and tired of the dating game

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3814 days ago

16 June 2014 (M) - I have had another disappointment in my "dating life" today and this was the last drop... I met this girl 10 days ago and we seemed to hit it off quite well. I asked for her number and 3 days later we met for lunch. There again, we had a good ti...