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Archived questions from: March, 2013 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Is it a good idea to allow my boyfriend to sleep with other girls while I'm away at College?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm eighteen years old and about to go to college. The problem is that my boyfriend doesn't want me to go, because he hasn't finished high school yet. I think it will take him three years to finish, and I don't want to go to a communit...

My boyfriend enjoys sleeping with other women and swinging and I'm tired of some creep touching me because my B/f wants to sleep with his wife

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - My boyfriend enjoys sleeping with other women and swinging. Rather it be me and another girl with him or a full couple swap. At first I was alright with it, didn't put up much of a fight and probably even enjoyed it. But now it's like he's obsessed ...

I just want a boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - Alright so I'm almost sixteen, the only serious relationships I've been in have had to be secrets cuz the guys were older than me. I've done everything but have sex. Now I seriously want a real boyfriend! Problem is is that I can't find anyone I...

I don't love him now. He never takes me out. He lies to me. I feel he's dangerous too. How can I safely get him out of my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - Hi all I just need an advice on how to get rid of a very dangerous boyfriend in my life. My problem is I don’t love him anymore and when I tell him the true he fights with and ask me question like am I dating someone. I’ve tried to be honest wit...

Is this guy not hugging me yet another sign he is interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4258 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - Ok, myself and this guy are very close. We speak everyday, either face to face or text. We tend to have dinner a lot. I like him and think he feels the same way, but obviously unless he actually does something about it, I continue to guess. We have ...

How should we handle this rude and nosy neighbour?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - Can anyone please off me any advice on how to deal with my competitive and rude neighbour? Basically my husband and i moved to our house about 2 years ago and we get on with all our neighbours but we have 1 particular neighbour who is very ...

How do I approach my girlfriend about losing weight?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

30 March 2013 (M) - In the 3 years we have been together my GF has been slowly letting herself go physically to the point where I no longer find her attractive. When we met in college, she was more physically active on a daily basis but now she has an office job wh...

Despite my boyfriend's assurances, I'm afraid he will leave me and the baby

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - Hi everyone, I would like some advice pls. I've been dating a wonderful guy for 15months whom im due to have a baby with. Hes 18 and me - 19. We began dating in our last year of secondary school.. had our ups and downs but I do feel like hes the ...

I don't know what to do! If I do break up, with the girl I love, how do I do it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

30 March 2013 (M) - ok so my fiance and I have been dating nearly a year and we've been friends almost like 2 years. We've had ups and downs but for the most part it's been great She's my better half and I love her. Hell she's my fiancé! Anyways she shows me and tel...

Why do women treat nice guys badly?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

27 March 2013 (M) - hi, to all you women who say you want to meet a nice guy, but when you do, you treat him like sh.t, but a bad guy comes around you fall madly in love, you all say thats not true, but think about it,a nice guy you know what hes going to say, what hes ...

My BF was still hung up on his ex when we got together and I feel resentful. How can I get over it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

27 March 2013 (F) - Are breaks in a relationship ever a good idea? Just to give some background: my bf and I have been together ten months. We love each other, we've been honest with each other, we trust each other, and we want to make this relationship wor...

I can't keep a job because of day care problems. Can anyone give me some advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

27 March 2013 (F) - I am 23 years old, I'll be 24 in July. I have two children a 4 year old boy and a 2 year old girl. I am very unhappy with my life. I'm always stressed. I live in low income, my sons biological father is dead, no social security for him and my daugh...

How can I ask my customers politely to leave tip?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

27 March 2013 (F) - I've been waitressing at a restaurant for a few months. I've noticed that certain regulars don't leave tip regardless of service. And of course there are occasional customers that don't tip at all. How can I ask my customers politely to leave tip? ...

Dating 2 guys at the same time and I don't want to hurt either of them! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

26 March 2013 (F) - Well am 19 stil with my 1st boyfriend (from 16 and he was 19) we had our ups and down..he was cheating on me while i was loyal to him...we broke up after a year then i met another guy we fell in love ......then my ex came back to me and we dated ...

Crush on a Friend. What Do I Do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4262 days ago

26 March 2013 (M) - Recently I've randomly developed a crush on my good friend. Now I want to see if she likes me too, but I don't know how to tell her I like her that way without making a fool of myself and ending our friendship altogether. What do I do?...

Do I study something I love or do I study something more pragmatic?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

25 March 2013 (M) - Hey, I have a question. I have been a bar manager for years and right now I am studying by correspondence for two qualifications in management, one of them is a BTS (French qualification equivalent to the first two years of a bachelor's degree) and ...

I told him this was just for fun but he has fallen in love with me, how do I end the relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

25 March 2013 (F) - I have been with this guy for the past 5 months, (please do not judge me), I have always been upfront with him and told him that I do not love him but cared about him. I have told him about my childhood abuse and previous bad relationships fa...

Is jealousy a way of showing that you care?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - Is jealousy a way of showing that you care? I'm just wondering if acting jealous is really someones way of showing you that they care about you, and your well being. My bf is not jealous at all, he doesn't mind who I am friends with, who I talk...

How do I shut off my feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4264 days ago

24 March 2013 (M) - I find myself getting attached to a girl. I've never felt this way, literally. She is so unique and different from any other girl or person I've ever met. She is so kind and makes me curious to know more about her. She is the most wonderful person ...

Are women put off by skinny guys?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4264 days ago

24 March 2013 (M) - I'm a skinny lad and I was wondering is this a turn-off? I mean I know some girls like guys to be teddy bears but is there really any market for us skinny guys? I'm 5'11"/180 cm and 143 pounds/64 kg and feel as though I'm not bulky enough for women ...

He's a virgin and I am not. Seems I only want sex from him and it's only been two weeks. He wants cute dates. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4264 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - Why do I seem to only want sex from my boyfriend of two weeks? He's really shy and he's a virgin but I'm not - and I feel terrible! He keeps asking me out on walks and cute little dates, and then there's me; just trying to initiate more. How ca...

I am his Gf yet he treats me like the other woman. Should I end this relationship? Worse, he's also started being mean to me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - I need some sort of advice, i been driving myself crazy going over and over this issue in my head. I am single no kids never been married. I been dating this man for 3 years things were great as any relationship it has its up and downs. Some of h...

Two questions: Why is my ex still messaging me? And why is my current Bf so controlling about me going to Hen's nights and clubbing with my Bfs? Should I put up with this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4264 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - First: I started dating my now fiancé in 2011, I cheated first two weeks of our relationship, which I am not proud of, we have gotten through all this though, got engaged in 2012. I haven't cheated since 2011. I love him, he loves me (almost 2 ye...

I want a healthy relationship, so why am I attracted to unattainable or unavailable older or married men? How can I stop doing this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - I have a major problem and I have no idea how to fix this. I am only attracted to older men I can't have. For example, people in authority or married men. I don't express this to them and I end up beating myself up about it. I haven't been in a re...

Will you let go of your cat you love if your mate has a terrifying phobia?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4264 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - I am interested in pursuing a relationship with a good friend of mine. We were once in a romantic relationship that ended because of the distance but now we realize we can't do without each other. He is planning to move down here with me so we ca...

Is a 17 month relationship too early to be thinking about babies?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

23 March 2013 (F) - Hey everyone, So this basically is a question to ask your view on the situation I am in right now, I am a 23 year old woman and my partner of 17 months is a 26 year old man, the past few weeks we have discussed having a child, please do not think th...

Can a single mom with 2 kids consider a military job?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4265 days ago

23 March 2013 (F) - I apologize that this question isn't about dating. I'm not currently dating, as I'm focused more so on my future. Here's my situation: I'm 31, divorced, two kids... and contemplating joining the military. Is that crazy??? The job market is rough and ...

Why would my man choose to have fake Facebook pages? He gets angry with me. I'm troubled by why he does this

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4265 days ago

23 March 2013 (F) - My husband and I just got married last year but we had a long relationship before that. We are expecting our first child and everything seems to be great. The only thing I just can’t understand about him is that he keeps having fake Facebook acc...

This is my story of our relationship with NO love, only hate but no divorce/separation ? WHAT can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4265 days ago

23 March 2013 (M) - She doesn't love her husband anymore. She has two children in their early teens. Children at that age, sense that something is wrong. Their mother knows that and won't agree to separation and/or divorce as it may affect the children, emotionally,...

I'm happy with my boyfriend, but tired of being the 'man' in this relationship

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4264 days ago

23 March 2013 (F) - Hi, I'm 24 and have been with my bf for 1.5 years. Throughout the time we are together, I'm honestly very happy, so happy that I cannot explain. Whenever I see him, I cannot stop smiling. However, when I think of future or marriage, I don't se...

Should I leave him? I can't get the bad memories out of my head!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4265 days ago

22 March 2013 (F) - I don't know if I should leave my boyfriend of almost 4 years over this... (This is going to be long but please bear with me!!!) When we first started dating I was struggling very much with a deep depression and self-esteem issues brought on by my...

He keeps saying he'll come see me, but it hasn't happened. He only works 2 days a week, couldn't he find time?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4264 days ago

22 March 2013 (F) - So, I've been talking to this guy for 3 months now via text/couple of phone calls. We met during Christmas break, in person and started talking in a friendly/flirty way, by the end of January/beginning of February, things got a little bit more ...

Should I call off my engagement? He is possesive but my family need his money....

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4249 days ago

22 March 2013 (F) - Hello all, I would really be grateful if anyone can guide me through this problem I'm facing. Iv met my current fiance 1 year ago, we've started talking and we directly clicked, he's a really really well off business man who is much older than me,...

How do I confess to my wife and my children that I have had countless affairs and 3 children came from these affairs?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

22 March 2013 (M) - im not in the best of health and im trying to find the lord and confess my sins. just not sure how to tell my wife who im separated from that i wasnt as innocent as she thought. we got married in the military had a son and daughter and i let her ...

Does anyone else share my fantasy for men that are much older than me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

22 March 2013 (F) - I am a 21 year old female, and I find myself fantasizing about much, much older men. They are normally well over 60, and usually the older or uglier they look, the more the fantasy turns me on. I'm not saying elderly men are ugly by default, but ...

I'm pregnant and just found out my boyfriend cheated. What should I do now? I'm lost and just need to talk.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4265 days ago

22 March 2013 (F) - Today has been a bad day for me. I found out that my boyfriend is in jail again. I looked up his record because I was wondering why I have not heard from him in 2 days and that's how I found out. Its not like him to not talk to me for two days.Then ...

I am possessive of my friends to a point of doing bad things to ruin a friendship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4267 days ago

21 March 2013 (F) - I have a problem, at first I thought its just a 'phase' that I would get over eventually but sadly no! I'm very possesive of my friends(girlfriends), I don't mind them being friends with others but the minute I feel they are getting close and mayb...

Good relationship advice from Mark Gungor. Link included.

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21 March 2013 (F) - This isn't a question but hopefully it will get posted anyways. I found this guy on YouTube that has really good advice for relationships and sex. He talks about how to have good sex, how to have good relationships and much more. The thing I found ...

I'm just not interested in guys or sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4267 days ago

21 March 2013 (F) - Why am I not interested in guys or sex? I've been single for 2years now and I don't feel like being with anyone. I signed up on a dating site cause I felt like I wanted to meet a nice guy and fall in love and hold hands and so all the...

How would you react to a $20 engagement ring from a well-off guy?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4265 days ago

21 March 2013 (F) - Hello everyone, My boyfriend proposed with a ring that he paid 20 dollars. If he was earning a low income, I would not be asking for advice. However, he drives an expensive car, has about 50 pairs of shoes, good job, etc. should I be upset? Am I ...

She worshipped me and I treated her like dirt. I want to contact her. Should I try to do that?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4265 days ago

21 March 2013 (F) - Some time ago I met a girl on a dating site and ended up hurting real bad and now she hates me. I can't very much blame her because she was always sincere with me and went out of her way to show a concern for me and interest in me. I was the exac...

How can I speak to somebody who wants nothing to do with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

21 March 2013 (F) - I had a "girl crush" on a former lecturer of mine, it has almost been 2 years and the feelings do not subside. I honestly do not know what to do, she has not spoken to me once I confessed my feelings(I do not blame her) but I cannot for the life of ...

"The one"???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4267 days ago

20 March 2013 (F) - How do you know if someone is "the One"? Just generally....

How do I deal with my mother's anxiety about money, she'll essentially throw away money yet say spending it on my education is a problem, help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4267 days ago

20 March 2013 (F) - This isn't a relationship question, but I hope someone on here can give me some advice. My mom works like 24/7, no joke. She's always put work ahead of everything else in life. When she'd come home she'd spend hours paying bills, and saying how expe...

Should I try to reconnect with my mother in law or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4269 days ago

19 March 2013 (F) - I am having a hard time reconnecting with my mother in law and don't know if I should. My mother in law has always been pretty nice to me, even though she said something very offensive about me before we even met. She did not want her son (my now-...

What is the difference between loving and being in love?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4269 days ago

18 March 2013 (F) - I am curious to have others view on this. What is the difference between loving someone and being IN love with someone? ...

How many things should you have in common?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4268 days ago

18 March 2013 (F) - Hey guys, I'm just wondering but in a relationship, how much things should you have I'm common with? Should you "think" the same way and have every interest or hobbies the same to make it work...

Will I ever meet the right man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4270 days ago

18 March 2013 (F) - I have been single for a year now. My ex boyfriend of five years left me for someone else. Since the break up I have not dated anyone. I'm starting to feel their is no one out there for me. I've waited patiently for the right man to appear seems he ...

How do we motivate the crowd when we rap?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4270 days ago

17 March 2013 (M) - How do I go with this?? Well am a rapper and me and my friend rap a lot, single I rap in my school with my school friends and peeps scream he also does that in his school too. Well lately we have both been rapping together and we got crowd in a ...

How to deal with being completely alone...?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4271 days ago

17 March 2013 (M) - That's basically my situation. I feel like I pretty much have nobody. I'm sure it's partly my fault, but there are other factors that make it difficult for me to really get out there and socialize. For one, I don't even have a car right now (and ...