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Archived questions from: November, 2012 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Maybe I shouldn't have gone looking for proof. Should I now ask my Mom if it's true about her former job in pornography?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

30 November 2012 (M) - I just found out that my mom is or used to be a porn star. Although, I've heard about this from my cousins who I meet once a year on thanksgiving. Naturally, I thought that was lies, and figured that they were just trying to mess with my head. The...

The guy I'm just starting to date may have given me strep throat. Should I tell him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

30 November 2012 (F) - I have this crush on a guy who I think gave me strep throat about a month ago when we hung out. How do I tell him? What if I'm wrong? I met this guy this past summer at an event. He body painted me and we became friends on facebook and I finally got ...

We were getting along fantastically until I told her how taken I was with her, now I don't hear from her.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

30 November 2012 (M) - You guys have prevented me from making some monumental blunders in the past..see some of my past posts..But I've NEVER needed your help more than I do now! Scenario: I live in Wash, DC. I'm cycling back from tennis practice when I hear, from acr...

My boyfriend is respectful and caring but indifferent about love, what's the story?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

30 November 2012 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years. Whilst he behaves is respectful and caring, he never tells me he loves me, in fact he tells me he doesn't. Should I accept this at face value and leave, or I should be a little patient with him? He ...

Do I need to stop flirting with female friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

30 November 2012 (M) - Hello, i am feeling guilty because i talk to a girl online through facebook, skype and sometimes over xbox live and i think she likes me where as i just flirt because i like it. i do not mean to sound bad here but i do not find her at all physically ...

Why are married men attracted to me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

30 November 2012 (F) - Well I am going to start off saying this I don't understand why married men seem to be attracted to me I don't flirt with them under no circumstances they seem to aim my way.I am not the one to break no ones home up I don't believe in doing this ...

He keeps me hidden from all aspects of his life but I still love him, should I stay or go?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

30 November 2012 (F) - I have been with my bf for 1 and 1/2 years. He keeps me hidden from all aspects of his life. He doesnt want me to be around his friends, co-workers or his family. I have only met 3 of his friends and recently met some of his co-workers only because ...

Intensity? Making the relationship last? I've never managed both.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

30 November 2012 (M) - how do you know when you're meant to be with someone? i ask this question because all my life, i've based my relationships on that intense "spark" or connection, which inevitably wears off and we wind up realizing that we have absolutely nothing in ...

I don't want to be with him but I don't like the thought of him with anyone else

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

29 November 2012 (F) - I've been with someone for a year and a little bit now, and we broke up and its been about two months, we still see each other and things and try and act normal, but we still do things with other people which may be weird. I don't want to be with ...

When I ask him to move in with me, all I get are excuses. What's wrong with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

29 November 2012 (F) - hi there, I have been with my boyfreind for three years, we moved in together last december and a few months later he said he needed space to figure things out, so to give him what he needed i moved back home with family. (he had more money so he...

Why can't he ever address me by my name?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

29 November 2012 (F) - There is a man who I think is attracted to me (flirts, smiles, let's off so much positive energy and shows interest in me etc), but he NEVER has once said my name. He even has written to someone else about me to discuss a detail and referred to me ...

I'm pretty sure he cheated on me but he wont admit it, what do I do now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

29 November 2012 (F) - I am married 24 years, and recently found out that my husband cheated on me, but he won't admit it. I have been going through treatments because I have cancer and he started a new job. Because of the chemo I was very sick and not thinking clearly so ...

I just flunked out of college and am worried about my future.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

29 November 2012 (M) - I just flunked out of college and now it means I am going to finish a full 4 years after the people i finished high school with. I am afraid that I will never amount to anything or make a success of myself and will always be on the fringes of ...

Got caught speeding by a traffic camera. Need advice from people who live in the UK!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

29 November 2012 (F) - I know this has nothing to do with love or relationships but everyone on here who answers always seems very insightful and knowledgeable so I figure maybe you can help me. I live in the UK and I went to a concert last night in Glasgow, which is...

Unemployment and relationship finances...who buys dinner?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

29 November 2012 (F) - My bf and I have been dating about 8 months and this is the first serious relationship for both of us. When we met we both had good jobs, he still has one but I'm a contractor and so once my last contract ended about 4 months ago I have been ...

Has he crossed boundaries, should I make something of his behavior?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

29 November 2012 (F) - I was at a meeting last night and the usual innuendo was going on. After the meeting I went down the pub with two of the men one of which I know quite well being my partner's friend. The other guy had gone outside for a cigarette so when we sat d...

My new husband is emailing a stranger pictures of him, and personal information for him and his family. HELP!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

29 November 2012 (F) - Hello, there. I got a trouble, I dont know how to explain but I will write all the details down and I do wish I could get some advice and help because at the moment I do really really need it. Me and my husband just got married 4 weeks ago and we...

Is my behavior my fault, or the fault of the person who caused me to behave this way?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

29 November 2012 (M) - SIMPLE QUESTION: if i tell someone (in this case a family member) not to do or say a certain thing b/c it'll get me really angry, and then they go ahead and say or do what gets me angry anyways, and i blow up and get mad, am i at fault, or ...

I've been having passionate dreams about a man I know from school.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

29 November 2012 (F) - Hi all, for the past month or so I have been having dreams about this man I see at school. It has been 6 months since we met, and I do not know a whole lot about him. Sometimes we make small talk in between classes, but that's it. I have noticed ...

What is going on with this guy, and why am I wasting time on him when there are other guys who put out more effort?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

28 November 2012 (F) - Back in June this guy I knew vaguely from high school started talking to me. We ended up going out now and then over the summer and eventually hooked up. Everyone warned me he was kind of weird, that he wasn't the type to want to have a girlfriend ...

What's with the stupid games these women I work with are playing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4408 days ago

28 November 2012 (F) - Hey, basically at work this I am sure this man "D" fancies me. However today this happened. I saw A- who told me K had told her we were going shopping tomorrow. But she was going to have a beer with D. She invited me, i said no. I went to...

I have so many questions and so many concerns about whether or not I can trust him.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

28 November 2012 (F) - part of my boyfriends job is to drag women into traps. he makes them think he loves them so they fall in his love and then he tests their real emotions towards some stuff. he promised to stop this job in a week, after the last file he is deali...

I think my boyfriend has been fantasizing about a co-worker for some time.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

28 November 2012 (F) - Hi, just wondering can anyone give me some advice or input into something I an dealing with. I think my boyfriend has been fantasizing about a co-worker for some time. I think when he was in bed with me he was also fantasizing about her. I am now ...

Which one do I choose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

28 November 2012 (F) - I have a question.. Ok so there this guy. He says he's completely in love with me and I'm his soul mate etc. *D* Then there's my ex, *A* he also says the same stuff as *D* but. I think *A* actually means it. Because me and *A* have dated for 5...

I'm 14, am I ready for sex?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

28 November 2012 (F) - I am a 14 year old girl...i am from india...the question i want to ask is that am i ready for sex?...i know this guy since 8 months..we are pretty much good friends...we share everything with eachother..no secrets...he wants to have sex with me...so ...

Am I rushing the wedding bells?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

28 November 2012 (F) - I have been in a serious relationship for 10 months with a wonderful man. We see each other every day and spend weekends together. Our families have intertwined and everything is going great. When should I be expecting a marriage proposal? I'm 43 ...

Is she interested, or am I just too lonely?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

28 November 2012 (M) - Is she interested, or am I just too lonely? Ok, let me lay down the ground work. I must be twice her age. and yes I do have problems finding women of my age or any other for that matter. She must be about 25, 6 foot 3, very skinny with a tiny voi...

Why is there such a double standard regarding men's and women's sexuality?

This question has 41 answers - newest was posted 4394 days ago

28 November 2012 (F) - Hi, I am openly dating. And my brother seems to think that I am a potential hoe even though I do not have sex with these men. He's young and is influenced heavily by society and the media and the defintion of what a woman is "supposed" to normally ...

All my life I've felt like something was wrong with me,

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4400 days ago

28 November 2012 (M) - This isn't really about relationships, but it kind of does. All my life i've felt like something was wrong with me, and the more I think about it, the more i realize that I'm a loser, I'm a pathetic loser and nothing I do seems right, I know th...

Will I ever have children?? :(

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

28 November 2012 (F) - I had been on the depo injection for 5 years until may 6 months ago. There's still no sign of a period. Myself and my husband are trying for a child but to no avail. My doctor never warned me of any dangers involving depo. I have recently read of ...

My boyfriend is living with his baby mama...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

28 November 2012 (F) - My boyfriend is living with his baby mama... So my boyfriend recently (4 months ago) had a baby with his last girlfriend. We have been dating for seven months and I really like him. He is so sweet and really goes out of his way to make sure that I k...

Trying to Impress everyone? Find ways to make yourself happy first. You can't impress everyone.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4394 days ago

27 November 2012 (F) - Not really sure why I'm writing this but it is in hopes of expressing myself because I feel if I keep trying to impress everyone, I let myself down. Because I know I can’t always get everyone to like me, not everyone is going to and that’s complete...

I'm not a fast learner which hurts my employability! Advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

27 November 2012 (M) - Hope you can give me some advice. I'm feeling really sad and down for the past weeks. Since I graduated university in 2007 I'm having difficulty finding jobs and keeping them. I keep getting fired because I can't internalize information quick ...

How to not get attached if I am the rebound

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

27 November 2012 (F) - My boyfriend (19) is on a rebound, I can tell. And I (19) am his rebound. I am moving away by next year August to another state for sure, so when this guy came up to me, I accepted to date him. Things have moved FAST. 2 weeks and we are already very ...

Do you think we will ever have a future together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

27 November 2012 (F) - I feel like ive made a huge mistake, i keep questioning my decision to end things with my bf of over 2 years, im heart broken.. Basically i ended things with my bf over many months of silly break ups and stupid arguments, we would text and pick it ...

Should I go out with my late husband's cousin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

27 November 2012 (F) - My husband passed away 14 months ago, we were never a big part of his family his choice...we were involved in family functions and always respected everyone....his mother stopped talking to him 6 yrs before he passed, her choice...I have been ...

Is our hight difference causing our problems with some sexual positions?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

27 November 2012 (F) - hi, im 5ft3 and my this guy im seeing is 5ft11, we havent reached the bf and gf step yet as we're both working non stop and meet only for 1hr or 2 sometimes. there's a substantial height different between us, we stuggle to have sex because of the h...

Is my boyfriend backing off even though he said he won't dump me?!?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4414 days ago

27 November 2012 (F) - help... My bf's form spread a rumour to the ENTIRE year that he was going to break up with me he told me it was'nt true but we still ended up arguing about it but he was adiment he wants to be with me still but I sent him a text and he said he r...

Do I need counseling or is this a passing phase?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

27 November 2012 (F) - i've recently broken up with my boyfriend who I was with for a few years. ever since the break up I feel as though i've lost all respect for myself and my trust in others. I've had sex with people since and i've just let them treat me like i'm ...

Do I tell my friends fiancee she's being cheated on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

27 November 2012 (F) - I've recently found out that my friend is cheating on his fiancee. It wasn't a drunken one night stand either. He's been meeting up with this girl for quite some time now behind her back. I don't know his fiancee, but since i've found out, should I ...

My boyfriend hates our living situation. How can I improve is mood while we look for our own place?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

27 November 2012 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend over a year and we have a 2month baby together his lived with me and my parents for 7 months but he is really unhappy living here and it puts him in a bad mood which he always takes out on me and it causes arguments and ...

How long should it take before relationship becomes exclusive?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

27 November 2012 (F) - We've been dating for the past 8 months. How long should it take before relationship becomes exclusive?...

My boyfriend has lent an ex-girlfriend £200 of our joint money and she hasn't paid a penny back

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

27 November 2012 (F) - My boyfrind of just over 2 years has just lent an ex-girlfriend £200 of our joint money. This was 6 weeks ago now and she hasn't paid a penny back. I reluctantly agreed to this because my boyfrind tells me's a good man and she is now just a friend ...

I cant face going into work, but this makes my anxiety worse. I feel at a complete loss with life, any ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

27 November 2012 (F) - Hi, I am currently having the most difficult year of my life and I am struggling so very much. Since April this year, my dad has died, I have moved house, got married, my uncle has died, my mum is constantly in and out of hospital with serious pro...

Did things change, where did I go wrong?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

26 November 2012 (F) - 'so i finally had a romantic moment with the person i have feelings for ages and everything was good, we laughed, he smiled, we kissed, we were just in that perfect moment when u feel like u want to stay like that forever. His 21, were friends for ...

I have an interview for a job. Any hint, tips or suggestions to help me succeed this time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

26 November 2012 (F) - Can anyone give me some advice on this ? . I have an interview for a Sales Suppport position with an Estate Agency on Wednesday. It's only part time, but i don't mind about that. I have been unemployed for three years, and i don't have much wor...

Would you say it's essential to have a fascinated crush on someone before 'falling in love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4415 days ago

25 November 2012 (F) - I'm so frustrated - I can fancy a man at face value, with lust in the equation, and much prefer sex with the male body, but when it comes to infatuation, fascination, awe and nervousness etc., it's only women who I can get this with. It would be ...

Does it mean something if a guy strokes your cheek?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

25 November 2012 (F) - this happend twice once 3months ago I was out for dinner with friends and a friend said: we are somehow like smurfs...and then she said to me that I am tha baby smurf (because I am the youngest) and a male friend was sitting next to me and he was l...

I ended up in bed with my friend's dad last week. Should I tell her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

25 November 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid, I ended up in bed with my friend's dad last Thursday night. Basically, I do some secretarial work for him at his office a few days a week, and last Thursday night we were working late and after I joined him and a few of his colleague...

How do I deal or forget her past sexual experience? Because I really love this girl and don't want to lose her

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

25 November 2012 (M) - Okay well I have been dating this girl for 2 months and i have really started to love her she is the first girl i have ever wanted to say i love you to but when i start to think about her past with all of the men she has slept with it really ...