A
female
age
30-35,
*itChy13
writes:I have a question.. Ok so there this guy. He says he's completely in love with me and I'm his soul mate etc. *D*Then there's my ex, *A* he also says the same stuff as *D* but. I think *A* actually means it. Because me and *A* have dated for 5months and he didn't cheat on me. Not even once. But then there's *D* he promised me we'd sleep together and be each others first time. But then on his birth day he slept with a girl. But he keeps telling me he loves me and I'm the only one for him etc. *A* makes me so mad. And I can't even sEe myself making out with him/doing anything sexual (in the 5 months we were together we only hugged, kissed and held hands). But with *D* I can do anything with him and be comfortable. So which one do I choose? *A* I can't do anything but kiss. *D* I can do anything with.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (29 November 2012):
 I vote for NONE of the above
A is not your heart and soul he's a friend.
D clearly is a liar.
be by yourself.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (28 November 2012):
 I suggest that you get a can of "Alphabet Soup" ... heat it up, and pour it in a bowl for lunch.....
Whilest indulging in it..... look to see WHICH of the letters "A" or "D" shows up first. Then, pick that guy.
THAT will be at least as valid as any advice you are going to get here, otherwise....
Is this a SERIOUS submittal?????
Good luck.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2012): How about another suggestion, *Mine*
-Choose neither of them. Find another guy who you are completely comfortable with and you trust.
The ex, I'm going to guess there's not as good a connection with as you have with the other guy, so you might never feel 100% comfortable and content with him.
The other guy, he slept with another girl and lost his virginity to her after telling you a bunch of sweet nothings, so in the back of your mind you will always have a doubt as to whether or not you can believe a word he tells you, and that he may just be a playboy.
Someone else might have a better suggestion, but that's mine! :D
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