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Archived questions from: June, 2012 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Why is it that the only type of guys I'm interested in are guys I have previousy been with but are now in other relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I've recently discovered that the only type of guys I'm interested in are ones that I have previousy been with and are now in other relationships and I don't know what to do about it. I've been talking lately to my ex who is now living in London b...

What is wrong with me? I’ve had two boyfriends and both have left me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I am a 27 years old woman who had had two boyfriends: my first boyfriend cheated on me, we were children (15 at the time) but it still hurt so bad I didn’t get a boyfriend for 3 years after that. The second one is a little more complicated. Two ...

What's the best way to deal with these people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I feel like I owe no one an explanation of who I am and what I prefer. A female came into the building tonight at work and she was wearing a short tight dress and I looked her over as I do anyone male or female that catches my interest. However ...

I kissed a female friend and am now questioning the future I thought I had

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - My bf and I have been together for 8 years. We just got engage last year; however our relationship have always been a roller coaster. We have a lot of problems; mainly trust issues. I have found condom with him on several occasions, and his ...

It felt like things were getting back to normal ... but they weren't!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

30 June 2012 (M) - Hello Everybody, Don't know if this is the right place for this, but here goes... I am now 33 years of age and I was with my long term partner for 9 years. Our relationship, I thought, was good. It had its ups and downs like any relation...

I have a fear of people being sexually better than me, in my boyfriend's eyes in terms of attractiveness and performance

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - Hi everyone, I have an odd fear. I wonder if anyone else has it. I have a fear of people being sexually better than me, in my boyfriend's eyes in terms of attractiveness and performance. I found out my boyfriend had been using porn and it played on ...

My younger brother is getting married while I have yet to have ANY woman be romantically or sexually interested in me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

30 June 2012 (M) - I'm 29, my brother is 26 and he recently proposed to his girlfriend. I am very happy for them both, but also jealous. I have yet to have ANY woman be romantically or sexually interested in me and I don't have the guts to put myself out there...

Is there a such thing as a monogamous loyal man or is that a rare animal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - A male older friend of mine and I had a conversation about infedility and marriage etc...My question to all you men and or women is do you agree with my male friend that ALL men if given the opportunity for SEX will take it married or not because ...

How can this work? He is two places above me at work. He says we can make it work

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - My future boss and I met around work and he was always nice, friendly. We joked around bur never really had a serious conversation so I interviewed for his department recently and got it. One night, I was getting a ride from a male co-worker and ...

I'm being ignored by all my friends. So how and why has she turned everyone I used to be close with against me? She's besties with them now.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - I used to be friends with this girl called X but then we kind of drifted apart but now it seems like every race she has to beat me at, and every guy I like she has to flirt with and make them like her. Everyone I used to be close with she's be...

This hurts me. My best friend of 6 years has turned on me. Why would a friend do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - Hi everyone So i have been bestfriends with a girl for six years. Long story short she stabbed me in the back by turning my other friends on me. Some reasons included: i am immature, i make too many jokes , im too positive, everything you say anno...

She took the only thing my Dad left me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - Hey everyone I know this is not a relationship question but I need serious help from you guys. Ok 2 months ago my dad passed away and he had a car he was paying for but he didn't finish the payment, my dad's friend took custody of me and she fini...

How can I understand that my boyfriend doesn't use porn because I'm unattractive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - How can I understand that my boyfriend's interest in using porn is not a reflection on me? Everybody keeps telling me it is their problem but I think it is to do with my attractiveness aswell. ...

How can a single mom get a boyfriend?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - How can a single mom get a boyfriend? Im pretty active, I go to school and work 24 hours a week. I have a beautiful 16 month old son. The dad and me are still ok but he lives 4 hours away. It seems like the only guys I can attract now are guys who...

The perfect partner that does one thing you cannot forgive....has anyone else experienced this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - Does anybody ever think someone would of been perfect for you if they just hadn't done that one thing you can't forgive? I wanted to marry my ex-boyfriend but he damaged my pride and made me feel unattractive. He didn't do it on purpose, buf it cuts ...

My husband had an affair while he was working in a different country. Should I stay or leave?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4520 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - we've been married for 17 years with 2 kids, we are happy family, but one day i just found out that my husbandhad an affair to the other while he was working in a different country. He lied to me he said he never had anothet girl while he was away ...

I'm starting to question my friendship with my gay best friend... What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - So my gay best friend hung out with me today, since he's in town (he lives in AZ, I'm in cali). We used to date, but we only kissed once, and it was one of those preschool kisses that were just us smashing our face together. It didn't last long, and ...

Can I endure my hellish future in-laws? Is it worth it? Could he do more to protect me from their malice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - Hi there, hoping someone can help me... Got engaged about a year ago to X...love him to bits, I've never felt so comfortable or happy with someone. However,his family... is a different story. I'll start off mentioning that his parents spli...

Was this a spiked drink? And why did it not bother my husband that I behaved as I did ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - Me and my husband are marries for 5 yrs now. We have a friend with whom he used to booze during week ends. either we go to his house or he visit us on week end. It's not my habit to drink but some times I join them or when the friend is not availabl...

I'm the listening post the girls come to for advice. Why do they forget all about me after I'm kind to them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4456 days ago

27 June 2012 (M) - I am the guy that girls go to when they are starting to like a guy and they tell me and ask me for advice. When they get that all figured out and start going with the guy, they forget me and leave me in the dust and act like i don't exist. after ...

I know I care too much about what others think of me. How do I stop caring about other people's opinions of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

27 June 2012 (F) - Hello people :) this will be a slightly odd question to ask, but how do I stop caring about other people's opinions of me? I have become a much more confident person since leaving home and in the main am comfortable with who I am, who my friends are ...

Five months? Is it too soon to say to her, 'i love you'?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

27 June 2012 (F) - I have been with my girlfriend for 5 months now and i want to tell her i'm in love with her but i'm afraid it may be too soon as 5 months isn't a huge amount of time. I have had feelings for her for a couple of years now as we have been close flir...

Manipulative, not being real? What are the signs that a woman is just using a guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

27 June 2012 (M) - What are the signs to look out for that a woman does not really love you but using you? ie for sex, boredem, rebound etc ...

Why would he go away so far, with a woman 24 years younger? And leave his devoted loving wife?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

26 June 2012 (F) - so i know this is out there a lot but my husband left me for a younger girl 24 years younger. they are living together oh and she has a 2 year old. Anyway just wanted to know if anyone could shed light on why he would leave a good wife that woul...

Still searching for answers....why is my wife like this now we have moved to Australia?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

26 June 2012 (M) - I have never met this kind of person in my life. Neither have any of my friends and family. In China, my wife wasn't as abusive as she has become here. A brief history of me: I left Australia to be with her for two years over there and we wen...

Asian men and White women.......

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

26 June 2012 (M) - Well as an Asian i have got a very important question to all the white girls and I am pretty sure other Asian men need the answer.So here's my question do white women like Asian men? and if the answer is yes please let me know the things that mak...

How do I know my online guy is for real?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

26 June 2012 (F) - I have meet a guy in on a dating site , we only send mails with each other within a month and he tells me he loves me and wants to be his wife,i am confuse as of now if i'll believe him or not ,what will i dont know if his for real...

My boyfriend? Or my best male friend? Which one? How do I choose? Don't want to lose either man.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4535 days ago

26 June 2012 (F) - Hello. So I’m completely confused. So I’m 18 and starting college this fall. And I’ve been dating my boyfriend for a year and one month. Well our relationship has been really rocky at times, but we always fix it. Well just last month he couldn’t...

I'm being stalked at work by a customer.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

25 June 2012 (F) - I work in a convenience store on the same three days every week, and have to deal with a lot of bullshit from our clientele on a regular basis. Getting harassed, talked down to and hit on by men is a regular occurrence. While this is experienced by ...

The Art of Being Happy!

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25 June 2012 (F) - The Art of Being Happy The key we have been given in this life which sets us apart from any creature living on this planet, is that as humans, we have free will to do good or bad. To ourselves or to others. Simply We have a choice. W...

Marriage makes sense because of my military situation, but my parents won't approve

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4515 days ago

25 June 2012 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have a somewhat unique problem. We have been going out for roughly 8 months now, and dated a few years ago for about a month. We were good friends in between those years. I am in the military and we have been dealing with the ...

Should I follow my dream?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

25 June 2012 (F) - Hi all, this is not a relationship question, rather a life question. I have just graduated uni with an accounting degree (I did extremely well and was accepted into a big 4 accounting firm). The thing is, I love film. I figured it out in my last ...

My fiance cheated on me, and is still talking to the guy and others.....but I cant leave because of my daughter and living arrangements! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

25 June 2012 (M) - so my fiance cheated on me with a guy she went to high school with. she says i wasnt giving her enough attention and that i would never listen to her when she tried to talk to me(when she never did in the first place) we talked about it and cried a ...

My husband left me because he thinks I cheated, but I found texts from a man to my husband saying 'I love you' and suspicious receipts for restaurants.....what is going on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

25 June 2012 (F) - My marine husband of 4 years who by the way was abusive verbally and accused me of cheating when he got back from Iraq. was always paranoid. He said we had orders back home where i grew up. 1 day after closing he said he got orders changed to go to ...

How can a guy tell if his girlfriend is over her last long term relationship? What are the signs to look out for to see if she has fully moved on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

25 June 2012 (M) - how to tel if a woman is over her last long term relo? Got involved with new girl, we been togather 8 months now , previous to me she was in 4 year relationship. but just wondering what are the signs to see if she has fully moved on (without secr...

My Mother seems obsessed about trying to break up my brother's relationship with his Gf. What can I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

25 June 2012 (F) - ok my question is in regards to my brother and my mom. My brother A has always been a mamas boy and she has ALWAYS been obsessed with him and in his business. A is the dream kid, has always just let her be her over bearing self and smiled and s...

Why have the other girls not invited me to their Birthday celebration? Why would people do that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4536 days ago

25 June 2012 (F) - I live in an area where no one wishes any good luck or fortune on their neighbours. My family in particular is not liked because there is quiet a few of us and we all have our own vehicles and a thriving family business due to the fact that we work...

After all this time, and after so many starts, could he be my soulmate? I can't stop thinking of him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

25 June 2012 (F) - I'm not sure what you ar egoing too think. Well long story short i met this guy when I was 19 we clicked straight away and stayed with each other till the end of the night and exchanged numbers he called straight away next day and we dated for ove...

Afraid that sex too soon will undermine the chance of the relationship lasting

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4537 days ago

24 June 2012 (M) - I am a gay male and have just started seeing another guy. We are both in our early 20s. How long should we wait to have sex to increase chances of it lasting into something long term? I don't want to go into full blown sex straight away, bu...

Any tips to help me? I lack experience with gay relationships. Scared about going down on her. Help !

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4537 days ago

24 June 2012 (F) - Well let me put it this way, I'm a gay girl who hasn't had much experience with a girl, crap! I know :/, but anyway I've recently just got in a relationship and I'm petrified to go down on her in case like I throw up or something. Guys used to m...

Should I worry about what my coworker(s) hint to me about being slow?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4537 days ago

24 June 2012 (F) - I've been a cashier at a very popular beverage place for about a month now. We're extremely busy and the line goes out the door. One of my coworkers whom I get along great with genuinely let me know that some coworkers have been complaining that I'm ...

Could my partner be having an affair or even be gay????

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

24 June 2012 (F) - Hi, i'm 31 and my partner of 12 years is 30 and quite frankly we just dont have a normal sex life anymore. Currently we havent had sex in probably over 4 months (maybe longer!!) and i'm starting to think he maybe having an affair. His line of ...

How can I trust him when this has happened before? he received a text from a woman calling him 'babe'. He got defensive.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4537 days ago

24 June 2012 (F) - Dear all. I was visiting my boyfriend today. We were having a good time until cell phone rang. The first time it rang he ignored it saying it was his friend who want him to go to a party so he's not interested. The phone rang again an there was a ...

What is hot?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

23 June 2012 (M) - By watching TV and looking at magazines, you can tell what is attractive about attractive women (if you are a man anyway). Does this mean you can tell what is attractive about attractive men by watching TV and looking at magazines? Or is...

Was it right to leave like that? Did I react right? or was I too harsh on her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4537 days ago

23 June 2012 (M) - First off I'd like to say I really, really appreciate that you are reading this lengthy story/question. *question at end I promise!* Me and this girl had a thing together and I told her how I felt and she said she couldn't date me because I w...

I'm worried about my friend's drinking and sleeping around

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

23 June 2012 (F) - I'm really to starting to worry about my friend as I think she is losing control. She has started to be in an open relationship with her boyfriend where she can go to bed with anyone but he's not allowed which he is ok with as he gets off from ...

Over-protective Mum cut me off from my friends now I'm too scared to talk to girls. Can Someone help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4537 days ago

23 June 2012 (M) - Ok, so here's my problem. I'm a guy and the part of Ireland that I'm from, there's a whole lot of pressure about kissing someone or as they call it here 'meeting' someone where you baiscally go out and snog someone then the two people decide whether ...

I'm embarrassed to tell my mom and my G/f that I have trichotilomania, which is an impulse control disorder. How do I bring it up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

23 June 2012 (M) - I HAVE TRICHOTILOMANIA sorry for the caps, ive just never said it before. "Trich" is repeated urges to pull hair out. It's a form of OCD. I've been pulling my eyebrows,eyelashes, chest and facial hair out for about 10yrs now, and I've always...

I find it it weird and disgusting that my mom posted an old pic on Facebook, of her breastfeeding me while I was a toddler!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

23 June 2012 (F) - My mom posted an old pic of her breastfeeding me while I was a toddler on facebook. What should i do? I logged in on facebook today and saw on my home page that my mom had uploaded that pic. The pic was not in her album but on some facebook pa...

I feel great while masturbating but as soon as I have an orgasm, the first thought in my head is, what would my family think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

23 June 2012 (F) - Is masturbating wrong? Some people may say morally yes or no, I am a 23 year old female who loves sex but loves to masturbate. I feel great while doing so but as soon as I have an orgasm, the first thought in my head is what would my family think?...