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writes:i have "friends" but lately i feel really isolated from them and i feel like they're all closer to each other than i am to any of them. whenever i become good friends with someone, i for some reason start to push them away. i dont know why, i just get annoyed by them. i feel like something is wrong with me and i don't know what to do. i always feel so lonely and sad.. what can i do to change this?any help or advice will be appreciated x Reply to this Question
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reader, Fionnlagh  +, writes (4 January 2011):
 It's a new year. Maybe all you need is a positive outlook.
I use to lie to my friends whenever they invited me out to hang, because I knew there were people I didn't know that were going to be there too. In my case, it was an anxiety problem. I was way too shy to try.
You should take more risks and say yes more and not turn down an opportunity to do something with your friends. Even if you think it's not your thing. Go with the flow anyway. 'You never know what you have until it's gone', which is what you are experiencing now.
You'll only find out about yourself in the company of others. Trust me, what you are experiencing is a common thing, and never continues into adulthood. Learn to be happy with your individuality and be happy ok :D
Happy New Year
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2011): It's good to know that i am not the only 1 behaving such way. . . Your description completely fits with me. . .
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