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41-50,
*ostinlove42211
writes:So there's this girl who once before looked me in the eye for a long period of time, like we were the only ones in the room and seemed so into me, in deep meaningful way, for a prolonged time (5 or 6 secs) but she cant seem to look at me any other time in the eye and never for a more than a second - she looks away when i catch her or when she looks and sees I'm looking quickly looks away. once this year she saw me and panicked and ran into the toilet... kinda shy way. One occasion she went to push rubbish in the bin and turned round facing straight ahead, then glanced at me, saw i was looking and quickly looked away and sat back down. the whole time her friends would look round a quite a few times but she wouldn't. When i see her she can't look round at me or look at me when facing me at all, but her mates do and they don't seem shy about it or give a toss. One of them had their back to me, then she turned her body round and just looked at me... not laughing or mocking me, but a serious way... seems like shes hinting something to methis year I gave her a Xmas card and she text me, so even though we had an argument in July she kept my number all this time, although I'm yet to text her back cause I'm worried she may be nasty to me. oh and finally last year she would talk to me until almost 2am and she started the flirting with me. Her mate even looked at her in the canteen, then me and smiled at me. again last year her mates would look but she couldn't. she even got really jealous and mad when I said I was getting to know some other girl
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2011): Wow this girl sounds just like me. Im really really shy. There is a guy I have strong feelings for and used to stare admiringly into his eyes when we first met and i was falling for him, but its became awkward as i couldn't spend much time with him and he seemed to make new friends most of them girls who i also talk to. I feel really jealous of his friendship with them and so I cant look him in the eye, as i feel if i do he will be able to read my mind and see how i feel about him. Im really shy around him when there are others around and sometimes avoid his gaze so that others don't pick up my interest in him and use it against me. From my experience I would say this girl is shy and doesn't know how to express herself around you, but that she wants to stay in touch with you and for you to be in her life, why else keep someones number.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2011): For goodness sake ask her out. Why are you waiting? You will then know how the land lies. Ask her if she's like to go out for a drink, by text if you can not pluck up the courage to ring her. Sometimes you just have to grab life by the scruff of the neck. Do it.
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