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writes:hi everyone i currently go to college in the uk and there's this girl in my class. i liked her from the moment i saw her but i then found out that she had a boyfriend. So i tried to not look at her, in that way.Before christmas she was telling everyone that he wasn't a good boyfriend because she mentioned that he hadn't spoken to her for five days. she eventually broke up with him before christmas. I have started to like her again. she gave me a christmas card and put a x on it but i didn't read too much into it as she gave everyone a card. We have been talking a little on facebook and i have noticed that after almost every comment she puts one x at the end. i'm not saying that she likes me, because i know that one x can just be a friendly kiss but should i take notice about this?also i would love to ask her out and my friend is having a birthday party soon and i have figured that i could ask her out there, but i need help with on what should i say to her to make her want to be my girlfriend? please helpthank you and Happy new year
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2011): Whoaaa!! Hahahah hang on there fella! =D This girl has just broken up with her boyfriend! You don't want to ask her out too soon - believe me...I know. I broke up with my boyfriend just before christmas too. I've been flirting with guys recently and even put one kiss at the end of conversations..but really I don't want another relationship right now. The guys that I put kisses at the end of convo's are guys I probably will want to date in the near future, but definitely not now.
You just need to carry on being friendly with her! Don't let your friendship fade otherwise you may not get another chance. Talk online, talk at college - talk whenever! Go out to the cinema together as friends, anything really.
Even if she didn't like her boyfriend that much, there is only one reason she went out wth him: she LIKED him. It's almost exactly the same situation with my ex boyfriend. I liked him a lot at first...but he was abusive and mean and even though I wanted to make it work and for him to see the error of his ways, i knew it wasn't going to happen. So we broke up.
I also told people that we weren't doing very well. It was hard...and I don't want anyone at the moment to ask me out.
This doesn't apply to every girl, but hopefully I'm right, and I give the best of luck to you! Give her at least another month I'd say..I feel I need at least another month.
Ciao! =D Hope this helps! x
P.S. haha 'x' how ironic. =P
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