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writes:Hello all!I am 23 years old and I recently started talking more to a college classmate who is 22. We never really talked, but now that we're in holidays we've been frequenting the same parties and people and we have gotten to talk more. In one of the parties he said he really liked me and soon afterwards he asked me out on a coffee date. I refused since I was busy but we still got to see each other at social gatherings. Four days ago, he asked me on a coffee date again and this time I accepted and so we met for a couple of hours. He seemed really nervous but all in all we had a good time. Yesterday evening we attended the same new years party, where everyone got quite drunk and where he asked if he could kiss me. We kissed a little, but then when he took me home the kissing got more passionate and he seemed to be really into it. Today we went to the cinema and then for a drink. I greeted him with a normal peck on the cheek and we didn't hold hands during the movie or anything, since it was pretty awkward. Then after having a drink and talking, the place was closing and we kissed again. Needless to say, when he took me home we kissed and it was passionate again. What is making me a bit uneasy is the way he kisses me... like, yesterday we were both drunk and the passionate kissing was fun, but today I expected it to be more calm since we were not drunk. However, he got passionate quite quickly and started grabbing my hair, breathing heavily, etc. Yesterday when we kissed he would say things like "you're so sexy", "oh X" (X being my name), and today he said "you're such a good kisser" in between our kisses. I'm confused, since he's let me know that there are many things he likes about me, and he's also a really nice guy, plus he was really nervous on our first date and the rest of the times I saw him he was attentive and around me. Is it normal that he's kissing me that way??? today I would have expected more like peck kissing, certainly not passionate. Does that mean he is trying to sleep with me asap and that he's only seeing me for that? or do guys usually act that way?? oh by the way, he didn't touch me anywhere other than my face and hair so that was good, I guess. And yesterday we held hands and he was kind of romantic. Today we didn't hold hands and only kissed by the end of the date, since it was awkward.So confused!!!!! please help!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks a lot for your answers!!!After 3 days we had another date and this time it went so much better than the last! his kisses were more gentle and he implied in various opportunities that he really likes me. Thanks again!!! xx
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reader, i give up  +, writes (3 January 2011):
he wants sex and you turn him on. when I met my girlfriend who is 51 and I'm 56. she goes to church regularly and told me she didn't want sex til marriage, so we kissed passionately and touched each other's bums and we both liked it very much. we did this for several weeks...well she finally caved in one night and started stripping, we had sex. she said I was too irresistible. Your boyfriend wants sex but is afraid to do anything more than kiss, maybe he's waiting for you to give him the go ahead. You really turn him on...your right he wants sex.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (2 January 2011):
 It doesnt sound to me like he is just after sex with you. To me it seems like he really likes you, and plenty of people kiss passionately without trying to have sex. He hasnt tried to have sex therefore that is a good sign. However if you dont feel comfortable him kissing you so passionately tell him you want to slow it down as you feel quite awkward. Goodluck.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (2 January 2011):
It doesnt sound to me like he is just after sex with you. To me it seems like he really likes you, and plenty of people kiss passionately without trying to have sex. He hasnt tried to have sex therefore that is a good sign. However if you dont feel comfortable him kissing you so passionately tell him you want to slow it down as you feel quite awkward. Goodluck.
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