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Is it a "cop out" to cheat on someone and then not tell them what you did?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - Posters Own Title: I've heard so often "I can't tell them I cheated on them b/c it would really hurt them." That seems so hypocritical to me. If this person was so concerned about "hurting" their partner, they probably wouldn't have cheated in the ...

Has any one here had breast implants?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - I was just wondering if any women here have had breast implants, and if so, do you have any regrets? I've been thinking of getting breast implants for a long time now, I've never been happy with mine. I am aged 24 and a small 32b cup, I would like ...

I have just seen a picture of a naked girl on his email....i don't know what to do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

26 July 2010 (?) - hey guys im so angry right now with my sweetheart, my love and only one boyfriend. i just seen a naked pic of a girl on his email address (deleted) and i dont know what action to take. plz help...

Afraid to french kiss...! Help

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - well my bf tried asked me if he could kiss me and i said yes, i thought that was a normal kiss, not french, or tongue, when i went to kiss him i unexpectedly got some tongue, and i backed away immediately, it was really awkward, but i dont really ...

I don't want to regret having his baby when he can't support us now.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - Hi i just turned 28. i have two children that i love dearly an i been with the father of my kids for seven years. im the only one workin an has been for the last two years. my boy frend is a great father to his childrn, witch he has three, my 2 and ...

For the guys... what differentiates between a one-night-stand girl and a keeper?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - This ones for the guys... what makes a girl decent for a one night stand? what makes a woman ideal for a relationship? What kind of girls would you consider only good for one night? i'm talking looks and personality. And why do you think that if...

Can anyone tell me my legal consumer rights please?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - I ordered a phone from T Mobile to upgrade my handset. I was told over the phone that I could try if for 7 days, if I dont like it that there was no obligation and I could just return it. I received the mobile and didnt like it so I called them to ...

Jealous boyfriend...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - im in a weird position right now my ex still loves me, and is telling my boyfriend to break up with me cause he is dead jealous... he said if he doesent his gonna hurt my boyfriend.. and me and my boyfriend LOVE eatch other.. i dnt know what to do.. ...

I don't know what to do about staying with the cousin that I barely know...we were both abused by his late father...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

26 July 2010 (M) - Ok guys heres my problem . earlia on in the year i was sexually abused by my uncle . this led to months of depression and even a spell in hospital - as i couldnt deal with the aftermath of what he had done . well it turns out there have been ...

How do I deal with my crazy neighbor?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

26 July 2010 (M) - why is he (my neighbour) a complete psycho ok guys heres my story . i have a nasty neighbour who shouts abuse and like intimidates , bad mouths me and my family . it all began before i was born . basically he was rascist towards are ind...

Help Me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - I like this guy. And to my knolledge we are dating. He is 17 and a virgin. im 16 and i am not. Ive dated him befor in middle school then he moved to Rome. He is back and i think we are together. Everytime we hang out its like he is the one. but when ...

Should I revamp his ex-fiance's engagement ring?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been talking about getting engaged for the past few months and he has a simply gorgeous ring that his ex fiancee wore about 5 years ago. He says he wants to sell it and buy me a new ring but I really do love this ring. I'm ...

I don't want to hurt my boyfriend or put a strain on our relationship, but I just wish he would understand that my grandmother does need me too

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - My grandfather recently died, and now my handicapped, 88 year old grandmother is home by herself. She is of sound mind, and can take care of herself, but she does have a number of health problems that are managed by medicine. Both my grandp...

Do you ever really forget your first love..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - I met mine almost 3 years ago, we were together for a year and a half, and yeah things went quite badly towards the end, he changed and what not. But it's been almost 2 years since we broke up and I still think about him every single day, I st...

I want to know how to ask her about how she feels about this guy and not ruin the great friendship we have

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

26 July 2010 (M) - Ok so here's the story I about 1 or two months ago I met this girl at church. We started talking and we have become really goood friends. She knows about my life and I know about hers. I really like her nd I'm starting to have fellings for her but ...

Wife's weight is becoming an issue...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

26 July 2010 (M) - I'm having a hard time figuring out what, if anything, to do or say about the situation with my wife and her weight. We're in our mid to late 30s. When we met about 5 years ago, we were well-matched. Both around the same height (I'm 5'9", she's...

Is this married man attracted to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - Hello everybody. There's the thing. I have recently started going to this new Café/Restaurant near my house and the male owner who is higly attractive started paying me some attention. He is married and has a kid, and I live with my boyfriend.The ...

Do I just sound malcontent in general? What's wrong with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5236 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - I'm wondering whether any of you are in my current situation? I don't really discuss this with anyone in my life, because I'm quite embarrassed by it. I'm in my late twenties and for the past nine years, I have worked in offices. I've worked ...

I'm still married to the man that molested my daughter!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - I am married now for 33 years. I thought i was the luckiest woman alive! Happy family 3 sons and a daughter and a wonderful husband. A year ago i found out that my husband molested my daughter since she was 3 years old. She is now 25. S...

24 (almost 25) and has never had a boyfriend!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - ok,I'm a 24 year old female almost 25. I've never had a boyfriend, and I've never had sex. Lately I've been depressed because I feel I have a good personality, and should have found some one by now. I have always been a tom boy. I am obese, but ...

I am 17 going on 18 and still haven't had a girlfriend! I am feeling bad, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5236 days ago

26 July 2010 (M) - I am 17 year old guy and i am going to be 18 in 10 months and when i look back i never had a real girlfriend actually first one i had when i was 8 and our relationship lasted just 2 weeks long. Since then i just had dates which were just happening ...

Does anyone have any knowledge or experiences with depression, OCD or anxiety disorders?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5236 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - Hi, I was recently diagnosed to have Anxiety and Depression disorder. Because of my great extent of Depression I was referred to a psychiatrist where she also mentioned something about OCD, which I believe falls under an anxiety disorder. I am ...

How can I show him my good side?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - How can you convince someone you're not as they think ? Well i have a problem the father of my baby thinks im dull, boring, that im a bitch that always asks stupid questions and that i never know what to say. Yes im not perfect but im sure im not ...

She waits for Marriage...And me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

26 July 2010 (M) - Ok. Here's the deal. What I like to think is, "I don't wait for marriage to lose my virginity, I wait for love" I've been dating this girl for a year now. And I brought up sex. She says she wants to wait til marriage and insists on that. It's a goo...

Interracial couples. Black man, white female. What do you think about that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - How many people are really against Interracial couples, especially those of which consist of a white female, and a black male. I (hear) many white males became completely unattractive to the woman, or would never want to have anything to do w...

Ladies, can you shed some light on what a "special friend" is?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5205 days ago

26 July 2010 (M) - Throughout my life, at any given time, I have my guy friends who I hang out with, friends who are girls who I have casual conversations/flirt/hang out with, and then there is one special girl who I am open with and want a relationship with. The ...

Can I get into trouble for dating a 17 year old even if we have no intention of any sex whatsoever?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

26 July 2010 (M) - Hello everyone. I'm 20, my gf is 17 and lives in California. I know the age of consent in California is 18, and this is no issue for either of us. We have talked about sex and neither of us want to go there yet, we both understand and respect both ...

The situation has escalated with my ex so much that it has ended up in court! I never wanted it to be like this.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5236 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - Ok so my ex boyfriend and I of 12 months broke up in march because some girl answered his phone acting like she was having sex with him when I was states away. We stopped talking and I was upset so I ignored him when he tried getting back with me. I ...

I need hope for my date on Tuesday

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

26 July 2010 (M) - Listening to my sister and mom go on about relationships makes any prospect of a fufiling relationship sounds hopeless. I'm feeling down. I hear this soundtrack all the time and it seems everyone is in a bad relationship and it would be foolish to ...

When men say “do what makes you happy” do they really mean it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - When men say “do what makes you happy” do they really mean it? For a example - I asked my boyfriends opinion about dying my hair… ‘cos he said he loves my hair, and I wanted to be sure he’d be okay with it. I wasn’t asking his permission, just...

Why did she stare at my penis area for so long??

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

26 July 2010 (M) - Hey guys and girls, has anybody ever seen a girl completely stare at the location of your penis buldge before?(for at least 10 seconds) What does this mean? Is the girl trying to see the size of my penis through my pants(is that possible?) Its ...

My marriage and my husband are boring me to pieces, what can I do, give up??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - My God. The boredom I am feeling these days is unrelenting. Well - I have been married to my husband for 2.5 years and we dated for 10 months before that. We were BEST OF FRIENDS and we got along famously. I've had better bedbuddies - but I ...

I suspect something happened between her and her stepfather, she denies it, what now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

26 July 2010 (M) - well i have been dating my girlfriend for about a year and 4 months. but i have an issue! i was on the phone with her yesterday and she lives with her grandparents. but she has to go up to her moms house to take care of the dog. and she was taking ...

Can women determine genital size just by looking at a guy??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

26 July 2010 (M) - Can women tell if you are well endowed just by looking at you or a part of you? Or what are some things women look at on a guy to try and guess what size a guy is?...

We are friends, had sexual encounter, don't want to lose him, suggestions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - Hello Dearcupids, I hope you can help me out on this situation! Last night I went on a night out with a very good male friend of mine. We don't see each other very often but chat online daily - I would actually consider him to be one of my best f...

I had a dream about this married man, who I love, need help with understanding the dream??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - This question is going to be a short one. I had a dream last night and I dont really understand quite what it means. I was dreaming about this guy that I'm in love with, he is married,in my dream he got divorced. He left his wife after a year of ...

I need help with my marriage, too many changes. any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - I am experiencing some extremely ridiculous conflict with my husband, and am deeply confused by this, perhaps because it is a very odd argument. So, I would appreciate some insight. Thanks in advance. My husband and I have always had a roller coa...

He's bisexual, but I love him, how do I get over this love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - I am absolutely in love with my best guy friend, but I really can't be. I've had strong feelings for him for about 3 years now and at the beginning of the year I told him how I felt. The problem comes in because I told him that I wanted to lose my ...