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Archived questions from: 12 July, 2010 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

How do I tell my girl how much this frustrates me? which it does... immensely without sounding like an ass?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

12 July 2010 (M) - Hey, I have been in this relationship with my girl for several months now (long distance) it isn't often that we get to see each other (month or 2 ) I took a week of leave off of where I am to go see her, so we can see each other, have fun...et...

I don't know if it's worth working this out...he slept with my "best friend" and she is pregnant with "his" child....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - Okay. So i've been with my boyfriend for 11 months now, and have recently found out he was sleeping with my ex best friend for a good six months of our relationship, on and off. The whole reason me and the girl fell out was because she was sleeping ...

I feel so.. not normal because I'm pretty sure most girls my age don't masturbate..

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - This is kind of embarrassing, but I want to feel better about it. So i'm 16 years old and I masturbate about 3-4 times a week. I'm still a virgin, i've never gone further with a guy than a guy putting his hand down there (over my clothes) and maki...

How can I sort this out? Or rather can I sort this out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - Hey... hope it's okay to post this here. I am in a horrible situation with the guy I am dating and I just wanted to hear what you guys thought of it. It's making me so sad and I just want to sort it out, but I don't know how. I met J about a mo...

I don't want to carry on like this so do I tell him how I feel or just ignore any contact that he makes in future.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - I met a guy 5 months ago in a bar we got on really well and i ended up taking him back to my place and having sex with him. We then saw each other again 2 days later and had a great time together. But when he went back home he sent me a text saying ...

I'm back to living at home and I'm worried my mum and me will drive eachother insane! How do I deal with this transition?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5072 days ago

12 July 2010 (M) - Hi, I've just finished university and I'm now living at home again. But I'm a little worried about living under my parents roof after living the care-free life of a student. My dad works away during the week, my sister is starting university in Se...

Holiday romance or real love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - i went to turkey for the first time on holiday with my mum and dad. we went to this family bar, and i knew that one of the staff fancied me. he made me a paper rose, and then asked to slow dance with me. the next night he bought me a rose and on my ...

A question of condoms...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - hey i had a question and i was hoping you could help if a guy has a condom on and it doesnt break could she still get pregnant. ...

How do I find my true love...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

12 July 2010 (M) - Hello i am 21 years old and i live in Saudi Arabia and i don't really feel that i belong to the culture or the society that is around me:( for the last few years i been trying to have sex with a girl [teenage] but couldn't find any to the point ...

Dead love, continued agony... it doesn't make sense...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - BACKGROUND: I met him in fall, 2008 - both in our early 30s, professionals in DC. For about a month, we had a mutual new love with hope, excitement and passion. I fell hard - he was charming, handsome, confident, fun. THE PENDING MOVE: H...

Ladies: how do you like your sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

12 July 2010 (M) - A poll for you ladies: How do you normally like your sex... hard and intense, soft and loving, deep, shallow, lots of positions, just favorite positions (tried and true), short in duration or as long as possible? I realize a combination is pro...

How should I make my move?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5073 days ago

12 July 2010 (M) - Okay Guys and Gals, bit of advice please. A girl i like has just come out of a relationship, and i want to make my move. The past god knows how many times, I've tried to give her time, but everytime, some other guy jumps in. I've told her i want ...

I wonder, how long does it take a man to fall in love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - I've only been in one serious relationship which lasted three years and my ex and I told each other "I love you" within a few weeks and meant it. We went through a lot during our time together and were always there for each other...we only ended ...

He hits me when he is drunk....how long should I ignore him for this time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - my bf hit me once drunk...because i went out with a "slut" for a party..he was scared i'll turn into her pretty insecure bf there..but the fact that he hit me wasnt good.i stopped talking for a week and he came back begging for me..so i got back ...

Should I ask her these questions I have about the future or is it too soon?

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12 July 2010 (M) - Hi All, I am 30 years old, its been 8 months that i got out of a unhappy marriage, about 5 months ago i met this girl that i now totaly adore and love, initially when we started getting serious she did tell me that she at one point was lesbia...

Where does sexual desire come from?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - I am wondering about low libido! Some people say that the desire can be somewhat controlled in the brain. What do you think??? Where does that lust come from? ...

Should I divorce this man who does not seem to love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - My problem is this: I am married to a kind, caring man. He is respectful and wants to take care of me and our child (materialistically that is). The main problem is that he shows no affection, does not say he loves me unless I say it first, doesn't ...

Why have I got baby fever now I am with my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5073 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - Hey there me and my bf have been dating for almost 7 months... And since we went over 4 months, I started to getting the baby bug... I was very scared for babies before I met my bf... And now I really really like to know...why do I have baby fever ...

Why are her parents so strict on when she can have sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

12 July 2010 (M) - Well, as usual, I am one of those teenages boys outside who is in doubt about sex and want to know more and discuss about it. What I what to ask is, should parents intervene their children when to have sex or having a sexual relationship (ge...

They are divorced, she is re-marrying, so why is he still so involved with his ex wife?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - My bloke got divorced after 25 years because he was very unhappy and we got together again having been childhood sweethearts. He didn’t allow himself the time to recover from his marriage but rather jumped straight from one thing to the other. As ...

He hasn't said he loves me yet, am I just a fool?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5073 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - he hasn't said he loves me am I a fool? I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months going strong. Before that we met in January and went out 6-7 times and broke up for a month cos he was unsure if he wanted to commit to our relationship. He...

My heart is broken, how can I get over this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

12 July 2010 (?) - How do you get over a broken heart? 'Cause right now... mine is shattered! The guy i loved, just wanted me to give him oral sex... again... i admit i did it only once though, but then all he wanted to do was get me in the sheets. He said we were ...

My brother is only 15 but his crazy girlfriend wants to get pregnant and then get married, what can I do to stop this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - my bro and his girlfriend were together for 1 yr. they texts more than 24hrs although they just came back from date, thanks to that my bro sleeps every 2am. yesterday they posted a photo of them kissing together on fb, i was really shocked..i mean ...

Why the double standard?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

12 July 2010 (?) - Why do guys become 'the man', and girls become 'the slut' after sex too soon? i slept with a guy that chased me like crazy and yeah I know...I shouldnt have. if he stopped contact because he thought I was easy, then how is this not a double ...

Was something ever there?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4953 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - we both come from Indian-Pakistani cultures where guys party and then find a "good girl". I look like the party type bc I have those friends and have training in makeup. Yet the truth is, while in college I lived at home, am quite a nerd and...

How do you find out what you're passionate about?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - Hey guys, I'm kind of in a bind. I just graduated from college in May with a BBA in accounting. I'm currently interning this summer and it turns out, I HATE accounting. I thought that I would love in while I was in school so I never really con...