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Is it bad to have a fantasy like this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - So ive had a fantasy of hooking up with a random guy, not for sex, but for oral and stuff, and like, meeting him in a club or somewhere and doing stuff like that somewhere risque. Is it bad to have a fantasy like this? Is it unhealthy or healthy to ...

What should I wear to a spa?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5266 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - Hi I am 20 years old and come frm a small town..I moved to new jersey recently to study in the city..all my friends are from the city with a modern outlook..anyways one of the girls asked me to come with her to a spa..I have never been to a spa!I ...

I feel so unwanted!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - can anyone help me i am too sexy but my husband lost his sex i dont know why? before we use to do sex a lot but now i feel im unwanted why is it? how to make myself wanted even by my family i feel i m unwanted? i want to be attractive and have good ...

My boyfriend's mood seems to be dependent on our finances! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - I've been living with my boyfriend for over 4 years. We have had our problems in the past, but we've both discussed them and moved past. Some days, he'll tell me he loves me, he wants to have children with me, and he wants to marry me and spend the ...

I love him but just don't want to be with him anymore...i need advice...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - Please help!! I am 23 years old and have been married for 2years. My husband is 16years older than and at first everything was rosey! He used to drink but lately it seems he has to have alchol every night, he has between 8 and 10 cans a nigh...

Guys: Was it hard for you to realize you were in love the first time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - Mod Note: Poster's Original Title Guys: The first time you fell in love when did you realize it? Was it hard for you to tell her? For me it seems that girls can realize it and decided when they are in love with some one easier then a guy can....

I think I'm in love with my female best friend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

29 July 2010 (M) - I seriously think that I'm in love with my female best friend, and it'd mean so much to me to have a chance at being with her. I miss her when we're not together, and feel elated when we are. I think I want her to know how I feel, but without ...

I want more than that but not sure show to play it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - I met this guy on a dating site about 3 months ago. We have met about 8 times and get on really well. After the first date he said that although he fancied me he would prefer to become good friends and see what happened. I was fine with that but we ...

Should I Continue to talk to him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - I'm talking to an army guy who has post tramatic stress should I continue to talk to him?...

Its been 18 years since I had sex and I don't know how to move this to the next step...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

29 July 2010 (M) - I am 47 and divorced. I have not had sex in 18 years and I'm thinking too hard. I'm dating but I can't figure out how to move us from a kiss in the living room to sex in the bedroom. (Sex in the living room would be even worse.) Is it as simple ...

Just my type

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5266 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - Mod Note: Poster's Original Title Is it possible to attain an online love without planning to meet them in real life? I'd be willing to share pictures(I'm a little short but not unattractive) and have things to discuss that sort of thing I'm also...

Its not her thing so why is she mad at me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - What did I Do Wrong? Ok so me and my guy best friend John, are planning a camping trip. He made up a list with, Some french girls (I live in a french english community), Some guys, me and my boyfriend. Well talking to me one friend about it, he went ...

Does this mean he really wants to see me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - I really like this guy and he has expressed an interest in me too. But, we stopped talking about 3 months ago because situations were too difficult. He travels a lot for his job so he's rarely in town and I had some things going on too. Anyway, ...

How do I open up to her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

29 July 2010 (M) - Hi, iv been with my girlfriend for nearly 4 months now. For the first 2 months it was great, we were both happy and got along really well. But as time went on, it seems that the relationship has just dwindled... its really frustrating for both me ...

I don't love him anymore but I'm worried about breaking up!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - OK, there are so many part to this story I don't really know where to start. Basically, I've been with my partner for nearly 5 years (I'm 20 years old), we have lived together for over 2 years and got engaged in 2008. I thought he was the perfect ...

Why does he keep changing his mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - I recently wrote to you about how my boyfriend liked me for two years then very quickly changed his mind about "us". Well, once again he seems to have changed his mind its, strange after he told me he didnt feel right being with me now that he has ...

Is it normal for my mom to be jealous of my mother in law?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - Hi all I'm wondering if anyone else experiences extreme jealousy from their mother's when it comes to the mother-in-law? Is it completely normal for your mother to get really upset at any inclination of you forming any type of bond with her? ...

Have I found my perfect partner too young?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

29 July 2010 (M) - I'm in a fantastic relationship at University. My girlfriend is as nice, attractive, good looking, healthy and trustworthy as I could hope for. There is no doubt in my mind that she is totally in love with me, she seems to be my number 1 fan, and ...

I cant wait until I am 25 to have sex! So how do I convince my girlfriend we will be together forever so having sex now is ok?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

29 July 2010 (M) - My name is Alex. I'm in this situation Where I want sex and she wants to wait until Marriage. It's hard for me to wait. I'm thinking I'm probably going to marry this girl one day, I Love her more than imaginable. We've never gotten into a serious f...

My colleagues keep sticking their noses in about me not being able to drive! How do I handle this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5267 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - Hi, I am getting increasingly irritated by some comments people-mostly colleagues keep making about me not having a drivers licence. Its not like I’m not trying-I’ve taken my test several times and failed on stupid things so I keep trying. ...

How can I be ok with the result of my exam, whether I pass or fail?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - i please need some big advice that will convince my self that everything will be ok. i am a student. and yesterday we have this exam. i study a lot for a past few 7 months.its actually give me a big pressure, depression and hard migraine. i was ...

Why do the nice, smart girls always have to wait years before someone finally takes an interest in them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - my best friend is the nicest girl you will ever meet! shes cute and sweet and everyone she meets likes her. lately shes been upset because shes never been asked out. my question is why do dumb b****y girls always have a bf but nice smart girls have ...

I'm jealous of my best friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - What do you do if you're jealous of your best friend. I know I'm not ugly..or horrible looking but I've always had low self esteem, no matter how much make-up, extensions..whatever I put on. She has a perfect relationship, nice body and gets ...

I can't get an erection around women any more, am I gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

29 July 2010 (M) - hi, im a 20 year old male and in the past two years have become concerned that i may be becoming bi sexual or even gay! it started when i used to smoke canabis alot and resulting in me giving up wich is a good thing i guess, but then the thoughts...

Why does he want to take a break?

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29 July 2010 (F) - Why does my bf want to take a break? We've been dating for almost a year and I have to admit that things aren't that great between us right now. And I think it's mostly on his side, he doesn't seem as receptive and into the relationship right now. ...

Will we ever get back together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - I have been "seeing" this guy i met online for a while, things were going good until he lost his job and moved in with his parents he became really depressed and i was there for him through the whole thing, well a couple days before my birthday he ...

We've had sex and he gave me a key to his apartment, but I'm not sure where our relationship stands!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - Hey everyone, I'm nineteen dating a thirty-four year old guy. We started seeing each other thinking that we would just hang out and be good friends but, things changed. He drove six hours to come "rescue" me from a bad situation once and after that, ...

Friends have hurt me badly, I have great trouble forgiving them, how do I change??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

29 July 2010 (?) - I have trouble forgiving people. Old friends have tried to hang out and I don't want anything to do with them because they were so mean to me. I also had an ex-crush who rejected me try to talk to me online, but I just blocked him. I don't want ...

I told her boyfriend she was cheating, things got crazy, what do I do now??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

29 July 2010 (M) - I told my friend her boyfriend that she is cheating, right now everyone is affected, her family and some friends. what do i need to do? she is so mad. but his boyfriend wants to know everything she did. ...

No comfort or serious communication from my friends, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

29 July 2010 (?) - I feel drained and used by my friends. When they have problems, I listen to them and am there for them. However when I talk to them, they don't repay me in the same way. They'll instead reply with "Well, at least this didn't happen" or they try to ...

Neither of us have moved on, should I travel to see her??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

29 July 2010 (M) - should i visit my ex girlfriend who now lives in another country. We dated for one year, then she left due to her visa expiring. We’ve stayed in touch and have been talking more recently. I don’t see how a long term relationship could work, bu...

If it's true love, will it happen on it's own?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - I recently just moved away from my old town and have trouble deciding what I want to do with my life. I live in NYC and would love to have a successful career in the media. However, something is holding me back. I am in love with a man back home, ...

Because he did this, do you think he really loves me??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - after my x bf acuse me of lieying to him for not being a virgin i found myself a good man he lier for me by telling my parent that he his the one that took my verginity i was so chock when he said that so do u gys think he really loves me....

My best girlfriend and I made out a little, am I bisexual?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - I have a best friend. She was the first person I met when I moved to my new neighborhood and I met her at church. We have been close for years. One night at a sleepover we were talking about horny we were. We were laying on her bed and then we ...

I think I might still have feelings for my ex, even though I'm engaged to his best friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - About a year in a half ago I started dating a co worker. It ended because he went back to his ex. I was heart broken but eventually moved on myself, with his roommate/best friend. I don't know exactly how it happneded. But now we are engaged and ...

Boyfriend wont move out with me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - hi aunts and uncles, I have a problem, something thats caused lots of arguments and some ill feelings about the topic, he thinks im being unreasonable, so iv come here to get a second opinion. My bf will not move out with me, i want to move...

Any tips on diet and exercise?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

29 July 2010 (M) - Ok, i am 18 years old, male, about 5'10". I am trying to plan a workout/weightloss/muscle gain or what ever you would like to call it so that i can try and gain muscle and lose fat. Would a detox THEN workout work best or just workout? Al...

I'm scared to find out the outcome if I tell him I cheated...what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - i've been dating this guy for a little more than 4 months now, but yet i had a boyfriend (long distance) for more than a year at the same time. I told the long distance one that i was seeing another guy and this was the second time i cheated on him. ...

Fear of hurting people is stopping me going with my heart.....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

29 July 2010 (M) - I am completely torn between my fiancee with whom i have two young children and another woman who i met by chance and am now deeply in love with. I care for my partner and don't wish to hurt her or be a part time dad to my children and because ...