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Archived questions from: July, 2010 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

How can you tell if a man is married for sure?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - how can you tell if a guy is married, because this guy keeps hitting on me and i want to tell his wife that he's a jerk. he actually asked me for sex i'm not just flattering my self. What should i look for?!?! he has no ring on... says he's div...

How loyal are we to the memory of an old love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - A generic question - you fall in love or develop a rather major crush on someone, and for whatever reason your feelings are never openly declared to the other person. How long do they hold a special place in your heart for? In my experience, and ...

I think I just maybe losing my mind in this whole situtaion please help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - What do you do in a situation when you have a boyfriend at home that is older than you and you started out as best friends, eventually moved into a deeper relationship, have a hansome child together and are still good friends, but due to past issues ...

Should I cut my mother out of my life for ever?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - I have a really hard life, including kids problems, health problems and all other aspects. Seemingly unrelated and I blamed it on bad fortune. As there is things I have done wrong, but nothing to deserve this outcome.... I cant get into details,...

Help!!! How do I tell my mom I'm gay???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - Hey, I really want to tell my mom about what I'm going through with my sexuality (I think I'm gay) but I need some advice on how to go about doing that. So any help would help a lot. Are there any teens out there who feel the same way? I'd love to ...

Sensitive subject and at a loss...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - I have a 5 year old who will be 6 in August and I recently noticed when putting her to bed that her hands smelt like they were near her "Daisy" or vagina. I asked her aboút it and she became stiff, so I told her that IF she was going to do that she ...

Help! My mum's boyfriend is molesting me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - ok, so ive asked a few questions on this topic before but i could really use your help on this one! until about 3 months ago my mom's boyfriend has been molesting me (this had been happening for about 3 years and no-one knws about this. i was also ...

Internship people are asking me quit my job! I need advice fast! Please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - Hi there, I have a bit of a big dilemma. This is more about a career thing, but i've came here for a lot of problems before and have received so much help. I'm not sure where else to go in such short notice. I hope you can help me! I am currently ...

Why is it mainly women posting on here and not men?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - Hello Aunts I have one general question on the forum. Why do only women post questions here ? why so less questions being raised here by Men?. what are the thoughts on this. I know it is complex question and not a single and easy answe...

How can I unleash her libido?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - Hi,i m sad and need your help.I just found a new girl friend who turns out to be a sex guru..She does lots of sexy things to me during a blow job wish gives me satisfaction.She hates using protections and i love her for that,i intend f****** the ...

I lost my virginity to a guy I'm not in a relationship with...how do I act with him now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - I guess you could say what i did the other night was pretty stupid. I lost my virginity to a guy im not in a relationship with, he claims he really likes me, and we have had abit of a thing goin on for a bit of time now. However, im realising it ...

Mum walks in on me having sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - Titled by Poster: What a mess i am in. Had a gathering the other night, well i would'nt even call it that, there was like five people and myself there and that's it. Things went well, wasnt anything crazy, nothing broke, i dont think. However, the...

I'm finding it hard to let myself go sexually...I am so shy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - I need some advice as I feel I am not normal, I have never felt attracted to anyone until now, I am with this amazing guy and we have been together for a long time and he has said he loves me and I love him in every way, he knows everythng about me ...

Is it a break if we are still talking...or should I take a total break...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5231 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - I recently made a post on here...and I received lots of great feedback and thank you all for that. I have one last question and situation to share with you all...I need help because I have been given advice from friends but I need unbiased or ...

Landing strips for men???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - Ok so i got bored this morning and when i was in the shower i gave myself a landing strip... I feel a little weird since its usually girls that get them. Is it ok for a guy to have one? Will people think I'm gay or something, will girls laugh at me ...

I want to say no nicely, and I want discretion....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - Hi I have a married male friend who recently asked me to have an affair with him, I too am married and love my husband dearly and would never cheat on him. How can I let this man know that as much as I like him I do not like him in that way and not ...

I want my children to finish College/ University and I want them to have a good upbringing too but how can I have these both without risking my work and children?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I am married with 3 children, ages 15, 10 and 5. Since 2007, I left my children and work abroad since my husband couldn't help me financially, I would rather say, he is very irresponsible and wouldn't like to work. He take...

I need advice about sex...How to be safe, and satisfying

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - i want to make a safe sex with my girl friend. We are realy sincere with each other therefore we want to make sexual relation between us. . ! Please give me tips by which we make our sex long at night and i don't want her pregnant. Help me s0on. . ! ...

Blowjobs...What's my problem and what do I do about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - Ok, so I have been married for over 13 years, and have only gotten off by a blowjob once in my life and it wasn't my wife. I love when my wife goes down on me, it's truly amazing to watch her as she engulfs me, but for some reason I just can't cum. ...

All I've done for weeks now is chase after him and try different tactics to get him back. I desperately need advice on how to get him back...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - Well mines a long story. Really hope you can help. This is th second split from my boyfriend of 7 years. The first split was in 2008 at christmas and alsmost killed me, i went completely mad and was totally heartbroken. I ended up moving miles away ...

Do you think i"ve made a mistake?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - Mod Note:Posters Title was not available I just broke up with my boyfriend of four years and I already feel horrible. I've been waiting for him to get his act together for years; he was a high achiever when he was younger and now he's stuck in a rut....

Sometimes I feel like I'm tired off him and immediately I think I can't live without him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5205 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - We've been in a relationship for a bit now. I chased him around a bit and he's very shy but after a couple of months of being really good friends we started going out and he's madly in love with me (like I am with him) Now that he's equally in ...

How to help a shy man...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - i've been trying to find a girlfriend for my very shy friend. But they won't go out with him just because he is shy. He thinks women don't like shy men that they want confident men. He thinks he wasting his time trying because he is shy....

This is just a rant but I really need your thoughts and suggestions...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - this is just a rant, but suggestions and thoughts are appreciated. My gf has trouble letting go of her ex, no matter how nasty he is to us and our friends. She dosent see that he's pushing my friend base away from her....they dont want to speak to...

Should I fake an affair to teach my cheating husband a lesson?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - should i fake an affair to teach my cheating husband a lesson? my husband for last years has been constantly cheating on me. i have caught me several times and everytime he begs for my forgiveness telling me that he has really changed this time. i ...

Can anyone answer my questions about what to expect...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - hello, im a virgin and my boyfriend isnt and we want 2 have sex with each other its just that im scared and he doesnt pressure me in2 it he says he can wait! Well he suggested fingering me 1st and i was just wondering since im a virgin will it ...

I am shy with a speech impediment, need suggestions on asking a girl out??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - I was wandering what are the best ways to ask girls out? I am 25 years old with a speech impediment. I have always been to shy to ask girls out due to my speech impediment. I decided it about time that I get over me being shy. So I was wanderi...

Had sex twice, but did not feel anything physically, why??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - Hi. Well this is pretty embarrassing to talk about but I'd like to know if this is an issue so here goes... I had never had sex until I was with a prostitute a year ago. The second time was with a prostitue also, earlier this year. I guess I ...

We talked, he made promises, then stopped calling, now he's back, what do I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - okay well i'm not really sure what to do. theres this boy and he and me meet through another guy friend of mine. hes 17 almost 18 im 15. we had a really big thing but i would always have to sneak him in because I live with and abusive/strict father. ...

I broke up with this strange girl, now she's stalking me, what can I do ??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - Hi ,i have a issue almost a 1 year now, i had a relationship with 2 year younger girl when i was 16 and we were together for 1 and a half week , i was not attracted to her at all ,but it impressed me that she asked me out and i said she seemed nice ...

My husband has cheated in the past, being dishonest now, what should I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, My husband is 27, I am 47, I am told that we look the same age, I weigh 142, smooth skin and nice looking. My husband had cheated on me several times in the past. I asked him about his cell phone last night, he had hid it. I check his ...

Ugly curse... or beautiful blessing?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - How do I even begin? Well, I just feel the need to express my thoughts and get things off my chest because I am in a complicated situation that is leading me to lack of sleep because my brain won't stop thinking and debating. I am sixteen years ol...

Confused, hurt, angry, worried all at the same time!!! What now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. We bought a house almost 2 years ago. It's in his name as my credit wasn't good enough to be used though my income was for th loan. Anyway, recently, I had an atv accident that he has been blaming himself ...

We've just had this big fight and I haven't heard from him... what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5232 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - I need help and advice because lately my relationship hasnt been so good. Today my boyfriend and i got into a nasty fight. Yes we've had these alot but this time things were said that really shouldnt have been said. I really need help because ...

Problems finding a mate!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - Dear Cupid, I have been quite alone for over 12 years now. My last (and only) marriage was a disaster- all I got out of it was three great kids, who are now grown. However, I am willing and able to start over again; I have a real desire to be a ...

How to diffuse a wife who screams and yells when she is mad???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

30 July 2010 (M) - What is the best way to deal with a wife who starts yelling, slamming doors, saying nasty mean things every time we argue? My wife never used to be this way, but in the last couple of years her temper is just escalating. I guess she feels it is ...

My boyfriend hits me I need help and advice please!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I'm 20 years old, Basically i have been with my bf for a year and 4 months into the relationship he started getting violent. it began by him punching things around his like a wall or the car dashboard, then when he got more angry he started to ...

I'm thinking of becoming an "escort". Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - hi im 16 years old and i have no qualifications as i got kicked out of school, i am considering becoming a protitute or joining a escort agency but i was just wondering can i even become an escort if i am only 16 nearly 17, i have no other income ...

No matter what I do to make myself look better it backfires... help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5231 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Okay, I guess I don't where to start here. I guess I can start by saying that I'm in a relationship with a man who I love. This is also the first "serious" relationship I've had(that is where I feel like the love is requited and the man treats me ...

Wife was mad at her father, then he died, now she is mad at me

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30 July 2010 (M) - My wife's father died 2 months ago. She didn't really get along too well with him and in fact was mad at him about something at the time, although she did take care of him toward the end. She used to like me well enough but now she seems mad all the ...

What can I do to believe and trust him again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5232 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Ok I am lost and in a daze right now. I found out my husband has been cheating on me for the past year. The one girl had a baby recently and said its my husbands but its possible its someone elses. I also found out he was seeing her and talking on ...

Do I tell him... or keep my loyalty with the club?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - We have a social club that hires a gentleman to entertain weekly. I am currently involved romantically with him. Unfortunately, I just found out that the club is going to discontinue him next year. Do I tell him or keep my loyalty to the club. I ...

Can I move out at 15? I don't have a good relationship with my always ill mother.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5232 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Hey, this isn't a relationship question but I don't know where else to turn. My mum has been ill for over 10 years and from a young age I have looked after her. I left school at 13 and developed depression. My brother's left home and my dads alwa...

I want my wife to hookup with a guy at a bar!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

30 July 2010 (M) - Do any of you have the fantasy of watching your wife or girlfriend get picked up in a bar by another man, and then watching them do stuff short, but close to, sex? Have any of you indulged this fantasy? For some reason the thought of this ...

What did Bambi do????

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I am breaking the cardinal rule – I know it. I can’t help it. I’ve worked with this guy for a few months now. And initially we came to a mutual decision that relationships with the people you work with just don’t work out. And all was well in...

I feel I just can't say no...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

30 July 2010 (M) - I'm a male and after a divorce I didn't want to have sex with a woman again. I didn't believe I was gay but was followed home when leaving a rest area. The guy followed me home and right into my apartment without an invitation. I had heard stories ...

Guilt about cheating...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

30 July 2010 (M) - Can a relationship survive one partner's guilt over being unfaithful, and keeping it a secret? Will our relationship be able to grow and survive if I don't tell my partner that I cheated on her and vow to myself to keep it a secret forever and never ...

I had an abortion over 2 months ago and its killing me!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Hey, i made the silly mistake of having unprotected sex with my boyfriend and as a result became pregnant. I never found out i was pregnant until i was over 7 weeks gone like the feeling sick and tiredness etc. I had missed my period so decided to ...

I don't feel valued by my family...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5231 days ago

30 July 2010 (M) - Is it any wonder that im angry with my family? ok heres my problem. i have a host of 'supposed problems' - including ADHD. well i have two sisters Maira and Sarah, both of them fight like cat and dog and mum often favors Sarah. Sarahs ha...

I dreamt I don't love my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Hey, I am reallyreally worried. Because me and my boyfriend separated up about 3 months ago, but recently got back together. Last night i dreamt about him, but in the dream i didn't love him and was worried about how to end things. Now i feel so ...