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Archived questions from: 2 July, 2010 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Depression deja vu?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

2 July 2010 (M) - [Mod note: OP title] Hi, me and my girlfriend have been together for nerly 18 months and have just finished off our A-level exams. we are still young and she is very much my first love. with all the confidence i have left, i can say that for larg...

Looking for a hextrosexual relationship, am I being niave??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

2 July 2010 (M) - Hello this is a question that I have to ask, me and a guy i know were talking the other day (this guy hastnt been the first person to say this) he came up with the theory 'all females are bisexual' and it got me thinking... I am a 22 year old male...

How do I improve my self-esteem, I hate my looks??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

2 July 2010 (F) - I hate myself, because I feel ugly and disgusting. I'm not fat and people say I look ok, but average is not enough for me. I don't know what to do. Everytime I see a beautiful woman, I get depressed. So yes, I'm constantly depressed, every day, ...

My ex is possessive and it is troubling, why is he like this??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

2 July 2010 (F) - I don't know why my ex boyfriend still keeps an eye on me. It's been almost a year since he cheated on me and dumped me. But still he keeps an eye on me and finds out everything I'm upto. And whenever he gets the news that there's a new guy in my ...

Is it safe to use Nair to remove pubic or armpit hair??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

2 July 2010 (?) - Can you use hair removal cream like nair for your pubic hair?? Armpit hair??? Anyone know!!...

How can I stop my rush to connect emotionally??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

2 July 2010 (M) - A few months ago my gf and I split up. I posted a question about my situation dealing with it on here already http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-want-to-forget-her-but-ive-done.html The short, short version is that she started dating one of her ...

Dizzy over this much older man, how do I stop this??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

2 July 2010 (?) - Help needed!! I'm in highschool in England and I'm over the age of consent. I have a problem because I am madly in love with someone who is much older and sees me as a nice interesting kid. I know nothing will ever happen because he's not a pervert ...

He left us for a younger woman, do you think he'll be back??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

2 July 2010 (F) - My husband of 23 years recently walked out on me and our children (10 and 15)after behaving really badly towards us, and our extended family and friends, for a couple of months. He packed and left and moved straight in with a 24 year old he met at ...

I asked her for sex, she is shy and said no, what can I do??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

2 July 2010 (M) - i m very much attracted to my cousin sister she was really close to me so i asked for sex but she refused and we both are not talking to each other now but we meet daliy eveen she is feeling shy to talk to me now so plz tell me wat should i do now ...

Never got together, married now but still care, any hope for us??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

2 July 2010 (?) - Sorry this is so long but please bear with me. Some of the back story is very important for the question. Ok. My problem is I still have a thing for this guy after 7 years! I met him when we were both in the Army. We weren't close friends but we h...

Got a big crush on him, now what??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5086 days ago

2 July 2010 (F) - i am 18 years old and i have beeen crushing on this guy i known since i was little . But my feelings for him have got strong for him over this last year. i dont know what to do ? ut i dont know if he feels the same ...

I want to tell my mother that I'm going to start transitioning to being a male.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

2 July 2010 (M) - for a good part of my life i have felt like i was really a guy but never told anyone. now i want to start going to therapy and maybe transitioning from "female" to male. the main problem is my mother, who i know wont understand or approve of this. ...

Sexually inexperienced male in desperate search of answers and ideas!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

2 July 2010 (M) - I am extremely inexperienced at having sex. It has been a long time since I have and that was very few. I am very small down there anyway and that doesn't help my self esteem. The few times that I have found myself in a situation for an opportunity ...

She's very homophobic, can she really have feelings for me or am I imagining it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5250 days ago

2 July 2010 (?) - I'm an openly bisexual girl and have a crush on a girl at work... and I could do with some advice. I'm not really looking for a relationship at the moment anyway as i've been going through a pretty tough time so the most I want is a bit of fun ...

I think it's a mans duty to be the breadwinner!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

2 July 2010 (F) - I don't only date men who have a good bank account, personality is what matters most to me. I don't depend on men to buy me things, I work and make my own money. BUT is it wrong for me to think that it's a mans duty to look after his women. I want ...

I cannot forgive my boyfriend for what he did in the past, and now I have met a new man I am worried he will turn out to be a psycho too

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

2 July 2010 (?) - I have a live-in boyfriend whom used almost all of the first four years being verbally and emotionally abusive, drove two of my children away, lied constantly, and always carried on outside romances and crushes. He abused my credit to 100k, and ...

He got married to someone else due to pressure from his parents, will he divorce her and come back to me?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

2 July 2010 (F) - My BF got married under parents pressure but ran towards me in just a month.For 1yr, we are again dating.will he divorce and come permanently? We were in serious relationship for almost 5 yrs. But, he had to get married under parents pressure...

How can I help my family to cope with my cousin's cancer?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

2 July 2010 (F) - HI Aunts and Uncles I've just had a close cousin diagnosed with advanced liver cancer. He is only 46 and we are all pretty devastated about this diagnosis. His father (my uncle) died 3 years ago from complications with his lungs. His death hi...

What is your advice for me and my lover in this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

2 July 2010 (M) - iam 26 and my lady is 44. she is married and living with her family, but without any co operation or help from her husband in any thing except in bed..but she dont have her heart in sex with him as she have many negative feelings towards him due to ...

Our marriage has not been working for a long time, so would it be wrong for me to induldge in sex with another man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

2 July 2010 (F) - I am married for 21 years and have two sons aged 21 and 17.I was proposed by my husband 8 years older to me at the age of 16. It is like I grew up with his thoughts as a partner.I cldnt think out of him when considered about marrige, not because I ...

Should your boyfriend think you are pretty and sexy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

2 July 2010 (F) - Im not really sure if im being overly sensitive or what but i dont like the image my boyfriend has of me,we been together now almost 2 years, he is always saying he loves me cause pretty girls are bitches. Now thats basically telling me he doesnt ...

My 44-year-old boyfriend is unmotivated!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

2 July 2010 (F) - I am 34 abd my man is 44. We've been together for 3 1/2 years. He has not worked in two years and his mom pays for everything. Am I wasting my time? Can he change? He doesn't listen to anyone and sits around watching documentaries and complaining....

I am straight and attracted to women, but with this one guy it is different

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

2 July 2010 (M) - I'm 18 years old and I think I'm in love with my friend and he's a guy. His name is Max. But the thing is, I have been a straight guy and even now I'm turned on by women. I am not attracted to any other guy apart from Max and the thought of being ...

Feeling incredibly lonely and hopeless. Is it naive to hope for head over heels?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5260 days ago

2 July 2010 (F) - I was with a guy for six months. He pretty aggressively pursued me, sent me love poems via text for weeks after we met when I was living in a different town, and when I moved there in September for school he was at my door the very first night with ...

Trouble with cousins, need help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5260 days ago

2 July 2010 (M) - Yeah yeah, "Its wrong". Dont bother, but I think I love 3 of my cousins and want to get with them. 2 of them are sisters and arent related to me by blood but the other is. I know family relationships are wrong, but I dont think I can help myself. I ...

If there's nothing wrong with being a virgin why do I feel bad?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

2 July 2010 (M) - I'm a 22 year old virgin. People keep telling me there's nothing wrong with that, so why is it that I feel like a absolute worthless piece of crap shell of a man right now? :(...

My libido just died...does anyone have any answers?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

2 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for nearly 5 years now, and we have maintained a healthy sex life. We have yet to actually have intercourse, seeing as we want to wait until we get married (for contraceptive purposes), but we are still able to ...

We like the same guy...i said I would back down but I really like him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5250 days ago

2 July 2010 (F) - Ok me and my friend like the same guy and I really like him and she already snogged him ages ago. She says she fancies him so I said I,d back down and let her be. But i really really like him what should I do...

I'm 13, but seem to have a "Little Girl's Body"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

2 July 2010 (F) - Mod Note: Poster's Original Title Ok, so I'm over 13 1/2 years old. And I'm really short. I'm just under 5ft. My dad is very short for a guy. And my mom is average height for a girl. My mom has very large breasts, she has to order them specaily. She ...