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Archived questions from: March, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Help me, I love my girlfriend but I'm hurting inside...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - I need some answers please because I'm going crazy. I have been with my girlfriend for 5 years now. Take it back a little to 2003 I was with a girl who I dated in high school and she cheated on me so we broke up. Then in 2004 I met this girl at work ...

Am I completely incapable of a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5717 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I am 20 years old, turning 21 in a month and I have never been in a real relationship yet. I feel like a loser because of that and the closest thing I got to one was with a guy who I was starting to see but he was sleeping with another girl behind ...

I envy the males!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I envy the males, they can be good looking and charming without trying. Girls have to make themselves into sluts at all ages to get a boyfriend that's not fair. Opinions please....

If sex is good and beautiful, why is it called or referred to as the nasty?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - If sex is good and beautiful, why is it called or referred to as the nasty? What can be more beautiful than seeing another person, especially one you care about in the nude? What can be more enjoyable than being close to the one you care about??...

Risk my true feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - Hey guys, I've got an issue that’s eating me up inside, and I'd really appreciate some opinions on the situation. This is a long story but I'll try to keep it simple. I started going to university a few weeks ago, and I met the coolest girl....

More shaving tips needed please.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I need some shaving tips. I enjoy shaving the majority of my pubic hair off. I usually leave a tiny bit left just for fun. Anyways, I have difficulties getting everything. There is almost always stubble left and it drives me crazy. I would like ...

I just don't think I fit into society properly.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - I'm in my mid twenties and I have the insecurities of a young teenager. I have some very strange complexes that if I thought about enough I could probably analyse but even that makes me uncomfortable. It's mainly about the typical body appearance ...

Is our marriage legal in the UK?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5719 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I got married in Jamaica, now I want to get a divorce, we never registered it here in the UK, our marriage is valid in Jamaica but not legalised in UK, are we still married?...

Just answer the damned questions!!!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Hey!! Well I've just have some pretty simple questions that I want to ask. 1. Why do all the good things in life die? Why are they taken away from us when we need them so badly?! 2. Why can't true love be real?! Or is it really and I'm j...

Why does he want me to meet an ex friend that he'd been screwing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - When my boyfriend had been married, he had what he said was a brief affair. That is not the reason for divorce as his wife never found out. Anyway, I've been with my BF for about 10 months and we are going on vacation in April. He decided to ...

I need your advice! I feel as if my husband doesn't love me... and now I'm pregnant!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5719 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I am recently married. Ours is a love marriage. I love my husband very much, he is least bothered about me. He is more attached to his family side. When we go to his place, he does not care about me. I am the only daughter and no brothers and my ...

I'm alone in this universe

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Sometimes I feel like no one really gets me. I have a sincere appreciation for the friends that I have and new people I meet, but I feel like no one is really on the same wavelength that I am...does that make sense? I understand that all people are ...

My fiancee and his little brother passed away and I don't know how to express myself

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - hi everyone. my fiance and his little brother just passed away. me and my best friend are supposed to speak at his funeral. they are having two separate funerals, and i am supposed to speak at them both. i have no idea what to say. right now i cant ...

Why do relationships fall apart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - How can I spend five years with my boyfriend, and he not give two sh**s about me? My boyfriend, who I live with, just left me at a restaruant, 20 miles away from home. With no cell phone, no money, nothing. ...

Can long term drug use cause erectile dysfunction?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I have been dating this man for 5 months, everything is so great and perfect-except for the bedroom. He has a problem keeping it up. Sometimes it works and everything is wonderful, but there are a lot of times when it just dies before we even ...

Unemployment is really getting to me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - Going crazy waiting for unemployment. No work in meantime although I apply and apply..trying to stay postive...I am just absoluely miserable and hope I am not they only one on they edge of my seat ..jobless and feeling realy crappy like. Any ot...

How can you tell he likes you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5721 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - Hi everybody, I absolutely need to know this. I know this might sound really pathetic. If a boy doesn't tell you that he likes you, then how do you tell? Please be gentle because I am new to the whole boys-liking-me thing. Thanks. (Mod Note: Pl...

Does he have an ulterior motive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - Cutting to the chase, me and this guy were casually seeing each other between October till about mid January. After the middle of January things dwindled off. He called me the day before Valentine's, I didn't pick up so he left a voicemail casually ...

Red bumps on my vagina after trimming! How do I get rid of it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - Okay I have a HUGE problem here. My boyfriend told me to leave the pubic hair I have but I trimmed the pubic hair just about a half hour ago while I was in the shower and now I have red bumps on my bikini line and just above the lips of my vagina! ...

Will my boyfriend leave me because I don't want children?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - I don't want kids. I have never wanted kids. I just don't like them, have no motherly instinct, plus childbirth = ow. My boyfriend does want kids. He's said he used to think about being a father a lot. He knows I don't want them, and knew that whe...

Is he interested in me or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5718 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - I've been seeing my ex again for around six weeks. We broke up around 3 years ago because he had to train for two years for his job and it would be hard to keep in contact. Then I decided to contact him in September of last year on the net. We ...

Could all of them be cheaters?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - First of all, I mean this question with all respect, and I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings, but I really need to know something and would like to hear other people's opinions. I'm so afraid I will offend someone but I swear I don't mean to. ...

Does my apparently flirty teacher like me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - my teacher is sort of freaking me out. i posted a question like this today but no one really answered it so i am going 2 try again:) any ways my teacher in my school is really confusing me. i don't like him other then a teacher and that is it. but ...

Need suggestions for extremely difficult work situation

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - Ok I desperately need as many opinions and thoughts as possible as this is quite an important decision I need to make with in the next few hours - the more help I get the better. The economy in the UK right now is extremely bad - the value of our...

I want to tell him my feelings, but don't know how

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5724 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - Hello! I met this boy, Brad, a couple of years ago and over the past several months we've become really great friends. We talk on instant messenger for at least 2 hours a day, some times as much as 7 hours. A good amount of the time our convers...

Being hit on is flattering and disgusting at the same time

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - I'm almost 21 and I've never had a boyfriend. I'm not socially awkward, I actually have a lot of friends. I just keep my male friends at a safe distance. The way I was raised, combined with some bad experiences in the past, taught me that men are ...

Am I gay because I watch lesbian porn?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - Hi. So I posted a question before, but I am still feeling very uncomfortable and frustrated with myself. Here's the whole story. I am 18 years old and go to an all women's college. I chose to come here because I knew I would never have to worry ab...

What kind of girl blows your mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - Hi guys what's up ii just have a quick for all of the guys!! What are you looking for in a girl? What kind of girl blows your mind?...

Why do women in abusive relationship return to the guy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - Why do women in abusive relationship return to the guy? i've been with my boyfriend for 2 years, which im 15 and hes 18, and even though i break up with him when he leaves brozes on me, i ALWAYS go back. my mom was in a domestic violence relation...

Having kittens here!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - My cat has just had a kitten about 4 hours ago. Now I'm new at this and dont quite know what's all going on. Will she have more kittens? or since she had one 4 hours ago that will be it? ...

I'm an alcoholic and I fight it everyday!. Please..I need some help to cope!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

25 March 2009 (M) - A few years ago i was told by doctors that i was an Alcoholic. I recieved treatment and for a period of a year i never drank at all. I did start drinking again but only at social events and nothing to heavy. Last october i completely fell of the ...

Write a poem for me...that I can give to my bf?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - Ok, as some of you may know I ran into problems with my boyfriend. Well ive been startled when he gave me a reason as to why he was not talking to me....he was writing me a poem. Now since I love the poem I think I should write one back. But i ...

My dad doesn't really know how to treat me like a young woman..treats me like little girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - I guess I really do not have a question but I want to discuss and tell about myself. I recently registered after posting questions ananomonously. I feel like we are friends already. I am 14 and my Mom died five years ago so now I live alone with my ...

Should I have a baby by this guy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months and he asked me recently do I want to have a baby with him. He already has 2 kids already and I told him if we do decide to kids and if we're still together maybe within the next 1-2 years. The mother ...

I think my boyfriend is ashamed of me, is he!? Please help.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend and I have been together a little over a year now. At the start of the relationship keeping me a secret didn’t bother me much, I really didn’t care. You see, I am 30 years old and I am also a trans-female or transsexual woman, ...

I want my best friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5725 days ago

25 March 2009 (M) - hi, basically the whole thing is: I'm fall in love with my best friend, but he moved out to another town, it's not that far, but, it's a metropolis, you know, it takes time and it haves a lot of " rush hour ". but let's talk more about it. first...

What's after the 'honey-moon' stage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - What is a relationship suppose to feel like after the initial "honeymoon" stage?...

Is she flirting or being really nice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5724 days ago

25 March 2009 (M) - My teacher is gorgeous. What she normally conceals in the way she might talk in private, she now reveals it to me. She is very open with me and jokes, comments and talks about things with me comfortably. I have a crush on her the moment I laid my ...

Should my baby have my last name?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - I have a baby with my boyfriend he doesn't plan on getting married to me. In fact he's already married to another woman. Their relationship is rocky and he wants a child to have his last name even though we're not married. Should my baby have my ...

I'm a young female adult who has become wary about my pubic mound!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - I'm a young female adult who has become wary about my pubic mound. I never thought about it too much but became paranoid once my mum pointed out that it sticks out, after that I've noticed that it's different to others and is noticable. Is it normal ...

My beautiful baby was born dead and I'm finding it very difficult to cope... Please help me...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - On the 27th of February my baby was born dead... I'm finding it very hard to grieve and do anything. I have an 18 month old baby and I can't seem to hold her... I don't know how to go on. Please I need some help. ...

Opinions please... How true can it be for a woman to have sex with another woman, but not call herself lesbian or bi?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - How true can it be for a woman to have sex with another woman, but not call herself lesbian or bi? For 7 years now I been lovers with a very hot and sexual woman. I give her oral sex all the time and we have hot make-out sesions. I lust after her, I ...

My life is full of tragedies, sadness and crises. Do we all suffer or do some of us suffer more?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - My life is full of tragedies, sadness and crises. Not caused by me. It's the kind of things what just happens to you, without you causing it... One bad luck, after the other. I'm not even trying to complain on this any more, but I'm just really ...

Yesterday I was working and my boss had sex with me, he's 70.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - I just need to let this all out, it feels like a huge burden to carry and I feel so upset, dirty and alone. Okay, I am 17 and at collage, I have a Saturday job in a small family run shop nearby. Yesterday I was working and my boss had sex with me, ...

Torn between my lover and the dream of traveling. What to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

23 March 2009 (M) - I need some help on this. i am 22years old and i live in ireland...ive always wanted to go and work abroad and lately ive been thinking alot about it. i have a girlfriend ive been with for 3years and i am completly torn between what to do...i d...

My girlfriend was beaten and raped 8 months ago. Now can can't bear me to come near her...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

22 March 2009 (M) - I have been dating my curent girlfriend for just over 2 years. 8 months ago she was beaten and raped. I have stood by her and tried to help any way I could. I love this girl and can honestly see her as the one. But after 8 months she still isn't ...

I was raped by my brothers best friend

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - i need help I'm 12 i was raped by my brothers best friend now I'm pregnant please any advice ...

Could someone help me interpret a recurring dream?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - I'm really curious about a recurring dream that I have and I was wondering if there is anyone on this site who knows how to analyze dreams? It involves me and a friend from college (whom I'll call Fulano) This is a strange dream, I know. I k...

Ranting about my life

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - Just stressed out. Need no advice just a matter of waiting. I am one of they unemployed Rhode Islanders awaiting my unemployment benefits. Going back to school in the meantime..to finish. I am at my width end. I feel like since I got divorced...

How do you become a 'posh totty"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - Ive al ways wanted to have a love life like a posh totty... weird i know. Does anyone have any idea how to become one?...