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female
age
41-50,
*oxy Roxie
writes:How true can it be for a woman to have sex with another woman, but not call herself lesbian or bi? For 7 years now I been lovers with a very hot and sexual woman. I give her oral sex all the time and we have hot make-out sesions. I lust after her, I always try to cut communication with her and move out of her house, but we always end up back as lovers. My problem is that she dates men a lot of them I may add. Black men, because she says they have a bigger dick! I can't seem to get away from her. She has a hold on me. She claims I've been her only woman lover. I believe her. I don't know, can it be true that she loves me, but is straight?
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (24 March 2009):
She's clearly Bi.
She just says she's straight so you'll know she's never going to be with you and it gives her an excuse to go out and cheat on you.
I know you've tried but the only way you will be happy in life is if you get away from her.
She's using you and keeping you as a housepet. She will do as long as you go to her and do these things.
Bi people can be in monogamous loving relationships. But this woman is just not interested in that. She has you right where she wants you.
Get out and stay out.
Good Luck!! xx
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female
reader, Foxy Roxie +, writes (24 March 2009):
Foxy Roxie is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you...
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2009): i can't really be sure about that all i can say is that it's evident you love her and seven years is a very long time for you to remain in this on-off relationship.bi or gay or straight,if she loves you then she should be with only you.you shouldn't have to share her with so many people.i think you should have an open,honest conversation with her,tell her how you feel and ask her how she feels about you.tell her that you don't want to have to share her with anyone.honey you're still very young and it's not worth throwing your life away for someone who doesn't love you back.if she loves you,then she will choose to be with you and stop seeing men.if not,then maybe you should move on and try to forget about her.
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