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writes: Is it ok for a 15 year old male (me) to go out with a 26 year old women and have sex??Any advice? Reply to this Question
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reader, lilgirly  +, writes (9 September 2008):
 just don't do it:) cause you will regret it all of your life:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2008): Just to say a big NO. A similar case happened in my neighbourhood in India where a 14 year boy from a very rich family had sex with a 23 year old lady and she became pregnant and delivered a baby girl. The child is two years and still the case is going on in the High court. We know the agony behind this incident. Please do not have sex with elderly woman.
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reader, FETSEA  +, writes (8 September 2008):
MY DEAR FRIEND, you are asking for a load of problems, and is going to hurt you the rest of your life. (1) It is not ok to have sex with a 26 year old. (2) What would youdo, ifshe mae up to your parents, and said that she's pregnant with your child? (3) She may be a pervert; or insane; or on a "trip to ruin young boys your age", because someone had ditched her; (4) she may be a carrier of sexual disease; (5)You may get hauled up into a "reform home", (6)she may be having selfish motives (inheritance etc).
"THINK, MY FRIEND". Stay away from her with all kinds of excuses.If she persists, get your parents to intervene. Stay aaway from idle chats, wrong friends, or phonography. Look for activities, charitable groups, where you become
THE BEST VOLUNTEER, THEY EVER HAD.You will be glad.
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reader, Bubblegum-Pink  +, writes (7 September 2008):
 Trust me, this is not OK. If anyone found out and reported to the police, she will then be charged with underage sex which will give her a criminal record and perhaps even a place on the sex offender's register. What's more, you'll be made to give evidence against her.I understand that this is all very new and exciting to you but please trust me on this, it's not worth it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2008): She can get in trouble if someone finds out and tell you family and or police. Or latter you can use this relationship as revenge out of the break up, or time, what its SURE its that she is mentally damaged, she'd probably done it with other young "guys" like you, and probably with STD!! If I were in your situation at your age I'll do it no doubt ...
But its up to you specially if you continuing with this for a long run.
Houston TX
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2008): This woman is a predator, she is blackmailing you. If anyone says they will throw you away unless you do something, the advice is to step back, and question yourself real hard. She's 26, why can't she get a man of her own age. She wants sex with you and if you don't give it, then she'll run off. This doesn't sound like love, love is patient and kind. This woman is nasty, dump her before she's messes with your heart and mind....
Sorry babes, but it looks like she likes sex with young boys. By the time you turn 16, she won't be interested and she will dump you because your too old. Never, ever, ever, give into blackmail... She wants to find somebody else, well let her, find some courage and tell her to piss off because you have respect for yourself.
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reader, nellynelly1305 +, writes (6 September 2008):
 reading your comment, i'm sorry to say but she doesn't love you, and you should report her to the police before she gets her hands on some other young kid.
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reader, nellynelly1305 +, writes (6 September 2008):
You should stay away from her and never see her again, as she is definately mentaly ill. It's not healthy and not right what she's doing, legaly she'd be in a lot of trouble.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2008): hi there sorry to say this but if she loved u she would not say that the sex would just be for fun and two... if she loved u she would not say that she would find someone else if u never had sex with her......... sorry to say this but i dont think she loves u if she did then she would know that dating a minor is very wrong... xxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2008): hi there sorry to say this but if she loved u she would not say that the sex would just be for fun and two... if she loved u she would not say that she would find someone else if u never had sex with her......... sorry to say this but i dont think she loves u if she did then she would know that dating a minor is very wrong... xxxxx
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reader, x..BabyGirl..x +, writes (6 September 2008):
 She's only saying it will be fun because you've got no prior experience. She isn't getting any from men with experience and so that's where you come in (no pun intended.)
You just can't do this. Mmm it would be good to brag to your mates, but then you'll be seen as a granny shagger, more than likely. It's not worth it.
Get laid by someone your own age, and leave her alone to do EXACTLY the same. x
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reader, PsyCookie  +, writes (6 September 2008):
 She doesn't love you. She's asking too much from a kid and if she really loved you, she wouldn't have said that she will look for sex somewhere else if you didn't put out.
You love this lady, right? Then just don't have sex with her because if you do, she will be in TERRIBLE trouble.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwe arnt sleepign together yet but she says she wants to cause it be fun and she said she would go to someone else if i do not preform. i really love her to and she loves me to i think
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2008): Date? Yes.
Sleep with? No.
And I;m as liberal as they come... but the 16 year odl age of consent is more than fair.
Bloody hell, its not that hard to wait until you're 16 to do a Daniel Radcliffe.
Be thankful you aren't in America, where you can't legally even look at a naked woman until you turn 18 (not that this ever stopped anyone over there).
So by all means fool about and make out. But keep lil' man in the pants for a year. It will be your birthday before you know it and hey... what a better way to celebrate the coming of age then to shag a hot older woman.
Flynn 24
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2008): God, law, and morality aside, this woman probably has serious issues and you are putting yourself at risk for some real pain in your life. There's a reason she cannot have a satisfactory relationship with someone her own age. There's a strong chance she will violate your trust and the whole thing will be exposed to your family or friends. She could end up giving you some serious nightmares once you start up with her or afterward, when you decide to stop with her. Do yourself a favor and stay far away from her. You will be proven wise to associate with healthy, normal women your own age. You will have a great time and be much happier in the long run. The fact that you need to ask the question shows that your instincts are telling you it is wrong for you. It's not a sound choice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2008): Hell no a 15 year old is not developed mentally, even though they "know everything". I did until 19 years. No matter what they are rocking as mature. If they cannot legally support or care for their own self they have no place playing the game of reproduction. The 15 year old may be mentally effected in ways they are not seeing that could effect their entire life possibly for the negative. They don't know themself enough to gaurd self from mental damage. The 28 year old should know this and if not is still 15 in their mind. A very poor choice to get attached to women stick quick emotionally regarding sex, this person can't roll like the age he's at thats yucky not income or future treat for 15 year old, could be crazy, dangerous, lazy perverted or just, I don't know. Not love with respect or he'd wait for 15 year old to chose him with a mind able to see all things. Like starting smoking, getting hooked and then realizing what it does and not able to frre self Gooc luck decide "wiseley". Plus it's illegal what other illegal things will he do, not according to bible, does he fear God. Lies to law, probably parents do you think he won't lie to you. If you have to ask, you should not.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2008): The issue is not your age. It is that you are not married. Wait until you're 16 and get married. Then you can fuck like rabbits all you want.
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reader, PsyCookie +, writes (5 September 2008):
Morally, legally, and socially, it's very wrong.
Advice? Stop having sex with this lady. If someone ever finds out, she will be in a heap of trouble, and if she has a husband, watch out for your health.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2008): You Present aged 15 (underage) and currently living in the UK. You want to know if you can sleep with a 26year old woman (overage) Sex between adults and children is forbidden in the UK. It doesn't matter if you are a boy and you partner is the older one. She could still go to jail for having sex with a minor, she could still go on the "sex offender's register" for having illegal sex with you. You can also be punished, you could be classed as out of parental control and then the social services will come in. Of course because you are not a girl there is no risk of pregnancy, but if your partner gets pregnant, you will become a teenage dad. If this woman has asked you to have sex with her, she is very stupid. You will be 16 in under a year, why the hell can't she wait. Blessings, I hope this answers you question...
PS: If you have sex with her before 16, then the law provides some further protections. She can now be jailed under the new law of "grooming a child" if she sees you naked, encourages you to talk about sex, or makes sexual comments to you. She will then be at danger of going to jail if she has sex with you before the age of 17.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2008): hi there.... the answer to that question is no... the older woman should know that that aint rite... what i would like to know is how u got to this stage....
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reader, x..BabyGirl..x +, writes (5 September 2008):
Seriously, what's wrong with girls your own age. She could be put into jail for statutory rape. Just don't. Date someone your own age and be safe with it.
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reader, teen000 +, writes (5 September 2008):
 Defintely no
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (5 September 2008):
 Not in the Uk its not ok im afraid hun.
C xxxx
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reader, superbunny +, writes (5 September 2008):
 No. It would legally be classed as sex with a minor as you are under sixteen, the legal age for consent.
The woman could get in a lot of trouble for this.
Our of curiosity, why do you want to sleep with her?
xx
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reader, Belle De Jour +, writes (5 September 2008):
 No not really yopu are leaving yourself in loads of danger and trouble , why are you thinkin of having sex with a 26 year old ?
i wouldnt advise it .. xx
Belle x
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reader, Sandman +, writes (5 September 2008):
 No.
I'm quite sure this breaks some laws. She could be jailed.
Hope this helps.
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