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writes:My bestfriends boyfriend is always flirting with me and trying to touch me and i hate when we hang out together and he is right there staring at me and one day we went to the movies together for her birthday i sat next to them and he sat in the middle of us and he kept trying to put his hands up my skirt and in my shirt and when i kept knocking his hand away he would put his arm around my chair and pull on my hair and at her party later that day i went in to help out her mom with the drinks and when i went back in to wash my hands he came in behind me and started grabbing me and putting his hands around my waist and kissing my neck and he put his hand in my shirt and started grabbing my chest and i told him to stop he smacked me and pushed me against the wall and her mother and dad walked in on it and he pulled him off me she tried to see if i was ok and i cursed at her and ran off i didn't mean to do that but i didn't know what to do and now she hates me because he told her i wanted it and that i had wanted him over my house and he told everyone that and his school is only a block away what he told his friends everyone believes and because he is 6 years older than me I'm scared and he's bigger than me and now my life is a reck and now everyone thinks that I'm a slut and i don't know what to do and it's to much stress and i don't know what to do. Please help me because no one else will.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIt was hard when this happened and i was very scared but eventually i got tired of being a victim and decided to find my voice i did what i thought was right and now that this is all over and done with i feel much better now.... I may have not taken legal action like going to the police but i am better now the boys name was Richard King he died earlier this year from gang violence even after what he did i still show that i am a forgiving human being for it is the word of god even with this i pray ugat his restless soal rests in a heavenly peace... ALL IS FORGIVEN RICHARD......
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2008): First, tell your parents about this punk. Then call the school and the police and file the report. This kid needs his ass kicked! He has got some serious issues and sounds like he may hurt you or someone else.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2008): 1. Talk to your bestfriend.. You owe her explaination.. how else would she understands and believe you.
2. Talk to parents. hers & yours..
3. File report.. just in case he comes after you again & try to harass you. you have a report to back up.
4. Move on with your life.. What others think or say would fade if YOU DON'T MAKE IT A BIG DEAL anymore and move on.. but be alert..
5. Learn the lesson. Next time anyone try to grab you.. Make a scene.. Shout or make a scene.. if you are loud.. its too hassle to come on you and take advantage.. plus.. its fair to let others know what he really is..
6. Don't feel guilty. Don't blame yourself or anyone.. Don't let him spoil your life.. He is not worth it.. so girl.. be strong & move on.. You can do it! :)
Good Luck!
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (5 September 2008):
Go and talk to your friends mother and father, they saw everything. Apologise for freaking out and explain you didn't know what to do. Tell them that this guy keep grabbing you. They will not want their daughter going out with someone like this. He's probably forcing her to do far more things.
This guy is wrong and needs to be dealt with. Once you talk to an adult then they will be able to help. Either they can threaten to call the police and have him locked up (you have witnesses that he was attacking you) or if I was her father I would threaten to cut his balls off.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, starismine1 +, writes (5 September 2008):
 You need to go to your parents and have them consider filing charges against him. He must be formally charged for sexually harassing you. He may eventually rape you. You have to protect yourself.
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