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41-50,
*Jjetplane
writes:I am in love with two women. One my wife (about to be five years) that I have been seperated from for about a year and a few months. The other I have been with for the same amount of time. Yes, I lost touch with my wife and the goals I wanted in life and found an outlet that I care so much for. I still feel and love my wife but have never been loved back like I am now. One makes me feel needed and wanted. A feeling I have never felt. I am at a cross road and an emotionaly numb. (well at least depressed to the point of feeling nunb) Just asking for advise from life expeience. No there are no children involved.
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reader, nellynelly1305  +, writes (5 September 2008):
 Hi there, it sounds like you are lost in dispear and wasting you time. If you love your wife, then get in touch with her and tell her how you feel (it won't be easy but it will make you feel better). it's been over a year that you are separated but not divorced, if your wife wanted you out of her life for good she would of applied for it by now. At the moment it's your current girlfriend who is the victim in this triangle, as she's taken your wifes place and gave you the feelings that you've been wanting from your wife. i don't believe in being in love with two different people at the same time (meaning intimate, romantic love). It sound like you've confused the feeling of love (wife) with need+habit (girlfriend). Ask yourself if you realy are in love with your gf and if it is a healthy relationship. Dont compare the two women. Personaly I think you should start fresh and one day you'll bump in to your true love, and you'll love each other back unconditionaly instead of giving your love to one and being loved back by another.
PS: think of you, and be honest to your girlfriend.
Sorry if there was any misunderstanding.
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