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Archived questions from: June, 2008 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

How can I stay strong through these hard times?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5992 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - I'm 16 and i'm having a bit of trouble. Well my best friend(lets call her A) was diagnosed with a brain tumor a few months ago and this news hit me really badly, i stopped eating started failing in some of my subjects at school etc. And i have ...

My brother and his girlfriend had a baby. I want one so much...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5992 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - ok my brother and his girl just had a baby and i love her dearly and i want one but you see im only 13 and they live far away so i dont get to see her that much and i really want one what should i do ...

Do men these days really want LOVE or do they just want pure SEX?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5991 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - I am a woman in her fifties. Do men really want LOVE these days or just pure sex. It seems to be love has flown out of the window. Obviously sex is part of any relationship but it seems the men of today ONLY want sex. Is this true? it would be ...

He saw me naked yet did not step over the limit with me! He says he did not want to rush things but I'm worried he finds me unattractive?!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5968 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - A guy i've been seeing occasionally came to visit me this weekend. He drove 1.5-2hrs to get here. This would've been our 4th "date". During our first two we had just cuddled but on our last date we made out a lot. I wasn't sure what was going to ...

Is a kiss just a kiss? Was THIS kiss just a kiss?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5992 days ago

30 June 2008 (M) - My girlfriend of four years kissed a work colleague. We were going through a rough time and it was during this that the kiss occured. A few weeks before the kiss she had told me she wasnt in love with me anymore......... i had threatened to end it a ...

Can anyone understand the relationship I have with a married man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5992 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - I know nobody would understand the relationship i have.I`m having an affair with a married man.I`ve tried to stop my feelings towards him,but he`s persistent in courting me.He did the best and the sweetest things to win my heart.I know that married ...

Does anyone have any hints for shaving?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5992 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - Shaving pube's is a nightmare.. Trying to get into all those little awkward places, anyone got any hints on how to get the best shave, and get to those awkward bits? Lol thanx xox...

Are there many who are "saving themselves for marriage"?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - How many Christians who go to church on a regular basis do you think are saving themselves for marriage these days?...

He told me to stop kissing him. I don't understand.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5992 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of one year (we have our first aniversary this week) told me last night .. in the middle of kissing, to stop! I didnt understand what he ment .. he said He is tired of kissing me for this long. It was not like we were kissing for no r...

I want to join a Christian group but I feel ashamed of myself. I feel like an outcast.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5992 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - .I'm 19 years old and I feel like an 'outcast' in society. I feel like everyone wants me to change and be someone who I'm not comfortable with. Most of my values and beleifs are based on Christianity, and although I believe in God, I dont know...

I can't stop thinking of what this woman said, what do I do?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5992 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - A mysterious woman saw me on the road a week ago and told me that i will be married to an already married man. to my culture, its ok but to me, i hate to share. i was so scared that i went praying heavily. i started working at a company not long ago ...

How do I hint to my boyfriend I need more affection?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5979 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - hi all! :) maybe i'm just sounding silly...but how do i hint at my boyfriend that i need more affection.? you see he works a lot and ive gotten the vibe that hes not making an effort to see me...we hardly saw eachother last week only monday ...

I don't want my ex girlfriend to see my son. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5992 days ago

30 June 2008 (M) - please help with advice i have a 9 yr old son from a previous marriage of which i am divorced i ended a 5 yr relationship with ex girl friend 12 months ago of which we lived together for 4 and a half years also with my son he lived with us su...

Any feedback please from anyone with experience of inter-racial dating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5992 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - HI! I was just wondering what your guys' thoughts are about interracial dating. I'm black, and yes I AM attracted to guys within my race, but I'm more into white guys. Sometimes I find it hard, because I don't really know what a guy is thinking ...

I want to accept Mike, but I fear he will reject me once I tell him that a while ago I slept with his brother!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5993 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - I have a huge crush on this guy Mike that I have been friends with for 16 years and I'm extremely close with his family.Even in high school I had a crush on him. I never once thought he looked at me the same. And a little over a year ago I had ...

Is this normal and if not is there better out there?...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5992 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - In my relationship - i have to ask for affection - hugs and kisses. I have never had a meaningful conversation - we talk about trivial stuff only, We never do anything together or go anywhere together, we have nothing in common and cannot find a ...

My dad would touch me while I was sleeping as a child, I only started remembering this last year. Please help me.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - Hi. I am 30 years old with 3 beautiful children. I have had horrible relationships in the past, abusive, and now I am a single mother. My dad is an alcoholic, and as a child he was very touchy feely with me all the time. I hated it but didn't ...

How can I gain her trust back and get a second chance with her? Please help I need some good advice....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5990 days ago

30 June 2008 (M) - Please help! Me and my ex girlfriend broke up about 2 months ago now after being together for a year. I love her so much and I want us to get back together, but I dont know how to convince her to give me another chance. The reason for us breaking ...

Can something that just sort of happens be so wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5993 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - I have been talking to a married guy for months on the internet, it was always general chit chat nothing flirty or sexy until Friday. I don't know how it happened but we got chatting and then flirting and then pictures were swapped, sexy pictures. ...

I have problems making friends and girlfriends, can you help, please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5993 days ago

30 June 2008 (M) - Hey, I hope im doing this right ! I have problems making friends and girlfriends.(2 questions) 1. Friends: Im 19 turning 20, and by now I figured i'd have a list of friends as long as my arm and a girl in my life. However the complete opposit...

When I come close to her I'm reminded of my ex, and become overwhelmed with hatred and destructive thoughts.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5993 days ago

30 June 2008 (M) - hey, i got a bit of an issue. I've checked google and things but i dont think anything but human experience can help me with this. i broke up with my G/F about 2 months ago, and shes now saying shes pregnant, but the only time we had sex was abou...

He misses the excitement, and wants that 'lifestyle' back. I don't know what to do.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5992 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, Where do I start? We have been together for almost 20 years, married for 6 years. We have been together 24/7 for most of those 20 years. We worked together, lived together. When we got together, we did not live together or work togethe...

I just want my husband to show some affection, he thinks by cleaning the house it shows he cares...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - i have been with my husband for 12 yrs. he never show`s me he cares, he says he can`t show his feeling`s. i have tried to except it but i can`t. i don`t feel loved, wanted, i just feel i have no one. he is never there for me. i have to cope with thin...

Am I too nice for my own good?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5993 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - I bumped into an ex boyfriend last night. We dated for a few months in 2004, and we stayed in contact throughout 2005, and we met up a few times in 2006, and have stayed in contact sometimes since then. He is a year younger than me. All the time...

I need some ideas for my anniversary book, please.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5992 days ago

29 June 2008 (?) - I'm gonna do a coupon book for our anniversary and all i have in it is a message. Any ideas of what to put in there? Thanks....

Is he not lucky to have me also??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5993 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - Hi all, I have a wonderful boyfriend who i have been with for 3 years now and my family and friends adore him as do i.However whats started to annoy me is that everyone (his family and friends and my family)keep telling me how lucky i am to ha...

Have I wasted the last 5 years?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5993 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - I've been with my guy for nearly 5 years and we have lived together now for over a year. I'm 23 and he's 27. I've known i want to marry him, have kids with him and spend the rest of my life with him probably for the last 4 and half years. But I ...

If she doesn't want me, why does she get back in touch with me every time she tells me that she doesn't want me to contact her again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

29 June 2008 (M) - My girlfriend has broken up with me after five years and is so angry at me that she won't even let me show her the changes I'm willing to make to get her back. Here is some background - She is the same age as me but her culture is different to min...

Ladies, how do you want us to kiss you?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5993 days ago

29 June 2008 (M) - I have seen many many articles bashing guys on how to kiss. Well ladies exactly how do you like to be kissed? exactly what is it that makes your toes curl and your hair stand on end? i would like to know so that i can be the best i can....

My husband has severe anger and control issues, will this ever change?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5993 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - Help, my husband of only 1 1/2 years is very controlling, he does not let me have any friends and has even made me give up my best friend. He swears at me and calls me names on a daily basis and even insults my kids. I don't want to be without him ...

Ladies: Tell me how you would react to this?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5990 days ago

29 June 2008 (M) - Ladies..if I saw you for first time and bumped into you and said "can I just say something, your eyes are so pretty" and walked off? How would you react and what would you think? [Moderator note: major spelling and grammar corrections, next tim...

Is it possible to be platonic friends with a previous fling?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5992 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - Is it possible for a guy to have a friendship with a female outside our relationship? Keeping in mind that they had once had a fling in the past, and that my boyfriend was attracted to her. Can I trust their friendship?...

My wife is an escort. What does she mean by this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

28 June 2008 (M) - last september i posted a question about my wife working as an escort and received very helpful answers. we decided she should continue escorting as she wanted and everything has been pretty good so far. she is very much the typical affectionate ...

What should I do - she doesn't like roller coasters, should we break up?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4144 days ago

28 June 2008 (M) - I've been going out with my GF for a year a a few months, i think she's great and we have alot in common.I found out recently that she doesn't like roller coasters (although she has only been on one). The problem is i absolutely love roller c...

Can you forgive after cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5994 days ago

28 June 2008 (M) - Four months ago I got back together with my ex,who is a good friend that I've known all my life. We never made it official, because we knew the relationship was going to have to end soon when she left town for 6 months. Despite this we agreed to be ...

"Oh, i'll just have to take somebody else with me and send you a post card"...What should I do about him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5993 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - Last week my boyfriend with whom i have lived with for 3 months asked me to go away on holiday with him at Christmas. I said yes and now he wants £2000 from me to go snow boarding with him, which i do not have. I told him that i do not have that kind...

I believe my husband is afraid to stand up to his ex and concentrate more on our family.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - I have three children, and two step children. MY ex is out of the picture and we have zero contact with him. I moved in with my now husband three years ago, and since his two daughters and ex-wife make my life hell. I moved in to the house that he s...

His grown up adult, immature children have a lot to do with keeping us from getting married, I'm sure of it.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - What do you think of a man who is older, that had given me a promise ring this past December, and promised me that we would offically become engaged within 6 months, and would be married shortly afterwards? A few weeks after this he told me "if" we g...

Is it that girls just don't find me attractive?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5992 days ago

28 June 2008 (M) - I'm 24 and I've never had a girlfriend. In fact, I've never even had a date or a girl like me. I'm really not having any luck with this! Kinda getting the feeling I'm doomed to singleville forever at this rate All my friends, including the fe...

I see him flirting with other people and it hurts. Please help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5994 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - Please help, Im confused about a guy. This guy I work with and am good friends with is acting weird. Last year, he liked me for a while but was also getting over his girlfriend. We would flirt and hang out and we still talk on msn, text, see each...

Is this the right time to call it a day and not keep in touch?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5994 days ago

28 June 2008 (M) - Hi, I'd really appreciate some advice about platonic friendships. I fell for somebody a few years ago and she wasn't interested. The thing was, that we became really close friends. It caused all sorts of problems, because I found it really difficul...

Short of hiring a lawyer and pursuing legal action, how can we stop his ex....?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5994 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - How do you get someone to stop using your mailing address without your permission, short of hiring a lawyer and pursuing legal action, which we cannot afford? My b/f's ex g/f who now lives 1000 miles away and has been gone for over 5 years, stil...

Metrosexual or egotistical?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - What do you do when your boyfriend suffers from vanity? He wasn't always like this, but about a year and a half ago he got a job at this mens underwear store. Totally brand new place which features live models as well. He got hired on as manager, ...

I self-identify as straight, so why do I have these urges?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

28 June 2008 (M) - I self-identify as straight because i have sexual feelings for girls and am repulsed be the idea of anal/oral/kissing a guy; however, I've been having sexual feelings for my MALE best friend Could this be just because of a dry spell relationship...

How to get over some nasty people, so I can start enjoying my school?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

28 June 2008 (?) - Hi, Okay so there is this girl at school and she hangs round in a group of 7 with her other mates, i get along really well with the other mates apart from one. Both of them hate me for something that happened in the past but it didnt even invo...

My boyfriend still gets mad about stuff I did in the past. Help me please!!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5958 days ago

28 June 2008 (?) - Hi, I have some issues, I feel totally lost, like I don't know where I'm going in this relationship! Ok, my bf and I have had our issues because he asked about my past early in the relationship, and I lied about it, and later when I came clean, he b...

We are having a break and have agreed to dating other people, is my BF using me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and half. We have had a rocky relationship but lately things have been going well. The other day he suggested that we 'take a break'. He said he needs his freedom because our relationship is like a ...

I was going to be a father, but she aborted the child...how can I not hate her for what she has done??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5980 days ago

28 June 2008 (M) - I don't know how to deal with her or this pain. I was going to be a daddy. That was taken from me. The child was too young for me to know the sex but I felt it was a boy, I don’t know why but I do. We were about one month pregnant when we broke up, ...

Please help me go back to being my old popular self.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - Hi everyone!, I need advice and it has nothing to do with sex or anything like that. I just graduated from highschool yesterday(I didn't go to graduation though)and I picked up my diploma at school today. I also bought my yearbook which I wasn't ...

Sex statistics on fellatio and anal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5977 days ago

27 June 2008 (M) - what percent of single women have performed fellatio and what same for having anal intercourse....