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writes:Last week my boyfriend with whom i have lived with for 3 months asked me to go away on holiday with him at Christmas.I said yes and now he wants £2000 from me to go snow boarding with him, which i do not have. I told him that i do not have that kind of money and he replied with "Oh,i'll just have to take somebody else with me and send you a post card" The trouble is that i dont think he was joking, as i think that he has somebody lined up called Angela, as this name is on his phone, but he tells me that he does not know a Angela, what should i do about him.
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reader, iateadonut  +, writes (29 June 2008):
that's a lot of money.
why don't you just call angela on his phone and ask her what's up? be friendly though. she might not even know what's going on. (also, i've had women's numbers in my phone who i didn't really know and wasn't interested in.)
i think my wife is pretty much free to call people on my phone (especially women) if she's nice to them. personally i feel she has this right. i know a lot of people probably don't agree, though, or that you're not married to him, but you're living with him, which is just as good in a society where the institution is in absolute decay anyway.
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reader, jeena knows101  +, writes (28 June 2008):
Sit him down and speak to him. dont argue dont yell dont be rude. Talk. Let him know how u feel about his and maybe work something out so u both can go even if it means postponing the trip. Hopefully he will be understanding
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2008): If he takes another woman on holiday, you should tell him the relationship is over. Why not just ask him why he's got a girl called Angela on his phone. Other than that, accept that you are having reservations about your relationship, you are feeling insecure and don't trust him. Tell how your feeling and how much you think that he has already decided to cheat or leave you for another woman.
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reader, tamsine83 +, writes (28 June 2008):
Huh, if he takes her then sod him off and he wasn't worth your time in the first place. What he said was really horrible, and you didn't deserve it. £2000 IS ALOT OF MONEY! He sounds like a complete arse, he's already lying to you about the person in his phone. Keep a look out to protect yourself from being played. You deserve better hun xx
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