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writes:I self-identify as straight because i have sexual feelings for girls and am repulsed be the idea of anal/oral/kissing a guy; however, I've been having sexual feelings for my MALE best friend Could this be just because of a dry spell relationship-wise, or should I act on my feelings? Sometimes, after a party, we sleep together in his double bed.
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reader, mustaine6 +, writes (29 June 2008):
Relax dude, you're not gay. every guy on earth goes through this ''am i gay/bi?'' patch. usually because they find themselves thinking of sex stuff with their bestmate.
you might be bi...but hey, i dont know you, your sexuality is your choice.
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reader, jeena knows101  +, writes (28 June 2008):
When u have these urges it is normal to be confused about what they mean. It could mean many different things like maybe ur bisexual or ur just curious of what it would be like to be with a guy. You could possibly be bicurious which is a confusion of ones sexuality. Think about it.
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reader, lotty83 +, writes (28 June 2008):
Ok don't panic etc, I think everyone has thoughts at some point about the same sex etc. But I would think twice about acting anything out on ur mate unless they feel the same way, it may spoil ur friendship. Just chill and give things some thought, before you do anything. It could just be dry spell etc, but time will tell.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2008): I've been in the same boat as you before, and all you have to remember is that deep down everyone is bi and no-one is 100% straight (many will disagree but this is true). If I was you I wouldn't mention this to your friend as it could be very awkward and ruin your relationship. Speaking hypothetically about this to someone you're close to (a different mate or member of family) is a good idea if you feel you're unable to discuss it directly. In the end, it's highly possible that these feelings will disappear once you start dating girls again.
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