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*TRyan
writes:I have seen many many articles bashing guys on how to kiss. Well ladies exactly how do you like to be kissed? exactly what is it that makes your toes curl and your hair stand on end? i would like to know so that i can be the best i can. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2008): Yes ,Thats what I meant..with the other question... be seductive with your kisses. I like to be fisrt a slow motion kiss when eyes are staring and you can feel the energy building up as the lips touch softly.The nibbling starts but all slow.Kiss the cheeks ,nible an ear, whisper softly a compliment and come back to the lips and going up another notch but toungues start to touch , all smooth,slowly.No digging for anything or moving the tongue in a wild way,specially if you are in the moment and if she is liking it dont spoil it....Is like dancing . A great kiss can make a girl melt and feel weak at the knees, and hungry for some more..I do like the wall one..thats good.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2008): :)
I've got a great link to another question on this site.
It will help you understand how NOT to kiss us ladies. :D
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/anyone-else-turned-off-by-the-way-some.html
Good Luck. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2008): :)
I've got a great link to another question on this site.
It will help you understand how NOT to kiss us ladies. :D
Good Luck. x
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reader, MTRyan +, writes (29 June 2008):
MTRyan is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks ladies you've been good help. kinda already had most of it in mind but you gave me some good tips.
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reader, BigSis  +, writes (29 June 2008):
 I've copied part of what I put on an earlier thread...
"I like a man to start off by soft and seductive kisses round my lips, with the slight gentle nibbling of them, top and bottom, then when our lips do finally suction together, I like him to use his tongue, but slowly playing around with mine.
When I go all goose~pimply and my hairs begin to stand on end, that's when I know that he's kissing me right."
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Soft kisses all around my ears...oooh nice *shudders*...then down my neck, back and front, licking and kissing over my throat and lower, if we're not too exposed in puclic.
That makes my whole body all tingly, then I can't take it anymore and ....well, I'll leave the rest to you.
Okay...this is me, and I can't help it, alright?
Enjoy it, I do, and can't wait for my next encounter.
BigSis
xXx
{Well he asked, I told him}
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reader, shelleyanne +, writes (29 June 2008):
 One guy I kissed opened him mouth as wide as he could (which was awkward for me because my mouth is on the smaller side), stuck his tongue in my mouth, and waggled it around as fast as he could. It felt like a very wet rattle snake.
Always start off with no tongue. Then you can gauge how much is appropriate for her.
Kissing is rather like sex. You start of slow, and as it gets hotter and hotter it gets faster and more intense.
Also I'm going to restate: No groping! Unless you work up to it. Otherwise girls are going to think you're just in it for the sex. Even if you are, you should pretend like you aren't.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2008): Is it me... or did the temperature rise and make things get hotter in here... I like the wall thing, I like the "come on's"... Oh heck I like everything that the other's have said, too much to respond.
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reader, Raechel +, writes (29 June 2008):
 OooooooOOoooh. Good question :~)
I like it when a guy makes the 1st move. Definitely...
...Or when a guy does a "come here" motion with his finger and says, "Kiss me, girl.." ..That way..when I lean in to kiss him..I know both of us want it, and I feel like he's so in control by "telling me what to do". That is so hot to me =D!
I like it when a guy puts his face close to mine and pretends he's about to kiss me, but when he gets close to my lips-teases me by softly rubbing his nose on my lips...That makes me anticipate his kiss even more.. By then I'm so ready for his lips to touch mine. By the time he finally moves his lips to my lips I'm so hot for him.
As far as KIsSiNg sTyLeS go, I'd have to say..VARIETY..in all aspects is important.. [Hard/Soft/Fast/Slow/Tounge/No Tounge/ETC.]
Speed is a VERY important factor!--Make sure you stay at your partner's same speed! When a guy kisses me and he's too fast, I can't take it!!
If you start off very slowly then you have a chance to learn the patterns of your partner's unique kissing style since everyone has their own.
Me for instance...I usually start of very slow...barely let him touch my lips..I usually back away a bit and barely kiss him..then i ask him, "please lick my lips? :)" [I like that, I dunno, lol]..then I bite/suck his bottom lip softly..He then usually does that back to me..We usually continue kissing very slowly/innocently..then I always ask "I want only tounge now :)] so we are strictly "tounging" at this point-but *not* swallowing eachother!! I hate that! More like..the tips of our tounges are touching..if that makes sense. Hehe~ But anyway, so..by then it usually moves up a notch as far as *hormones* go LOL, so we start getting faster/rougher with more nibbling/sucking on the lips, and I start kissing all over the guy's neck..and eyelids..and nose.. because I want HIM so badly at that point.. =D
Hope that helped?? LOL!?
Oh, and *always* have good breath!!!
My favorites are cough drops~! [Don't ask, I love the taste!] Winterfesh gum & Skittles are yummy too!!
It's also a turn-on for me when a guy puts an ice cube in his mouth, takes it out-and kisses me. I like it when my warm tounge feels his ice cold tounge and lips. Ahhh I love that.
But don't go tounge crazy!! That gets sick!!!!
XOXO, ~R
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reader, LaydeeOfSorrows  +, writes (29 June 2008):
 i enjoy guys nibbling my lip, that makes my toes curl.
Also, dont use too much tongue and always have minty breath, and should do well!
Good luck!
xx
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reader, twisted +, writes (29 June 2008):
 Push us against the wall (don't hurt us)hands above our head and lay your lips lightly on ours (make sure you wet your lips first, nothing worse than a dry kiss). Kiss once or twice like that, then open your mouth a little and let your tongue touch our lips with some more soft kissing, then start kissing, just don't slam your tongue in our mouths so we can't breathe, dont kiss so hard you leave our entire mouth red and sore, not too much saliva (eeew)and touch OUR FACE or HOLD THE BACK OF OUR HEAD, don't start grabbing other body parts right away. Stop evey once in a while and look into our eyes, you can even say something like "you're so beautiful", or nothing at all, just a deep stare for a few seconds, then some more kissing. (By the way, the wall thing is optional!)
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