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*ubblygirl
writes:Please help, Im confused about a guy.This guy I work with and am good friends with is acting weird. Last year, he liked me for a while but was also getting over his girlfriend. We would flirt and hang out and we still talk on msn, text, see each other and plan hangouts! Just a couple of days ago he was all over me and texting me about my bra colour!!!This summer, without a girlfriend, he’s been acting really flirty with a lot of girls at work. Specifically this one girl who at work, who he is 'courting' (we animate different people at our job and his character is supposed to be dating this other character at work). So since he's been 'courting' her, he’s been sending her letters and gifts galore and it was fine until recently when I noticed it happening outside of work.Now, when we go out for parties, he is acting like he likes her. He jumps around from girl to girl and this is the new one he likes. He’s always hugging her, touching her and around her when we have parties outside work. He touches a lot of girls like he touches her..it just seems a bit excessive and it happens whether im there or not, so I don’t think he’s trying to make me jealous? Even though he still hugs and touches me, its not like it is with her. When im with him, im the center of attention, but when she’s around..he focuses more on her!!What should I do? Does he really like her or am I overthinking?Please help me. I still have feelings for him but all I see is him flirting with other people and it hurts.
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reader, whiteflower  +, writes (29 June 2008):
The big red flag is that when you're both there, he chooses to give more attention to her. I don't blame you for having feelings for him, but don't waste your time waiting for him to notice you. Even if he did become your boyfriend, he would probably still act like that around the ladies. That kind of behavior doesn't just disappear when the guy is no longer single.
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