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Archived questions from: January, 2006 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

My friend of 20 just got engaged to a 68-year-old. What problems might they expect?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6091 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - I am a 23 year old girl and my friend is 20 years old. She told me she has recently got engaged to a 68-year-old man she met in a pub - he is the owner of it, and that he is a decent person, was what she told me. She asked me what problems w...

What about the age difference?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - Hi Im a 16 year old who is in love with a 35 year old man, we hwere close friends since i was 12, but i started to see this guy as more than friends, then i told him.... i couldnt believe it, he felt the same, but never acted on it cos of the age ...

I really regret kissing an older woman, but I'm afraid to tell my girlfriend what I've done!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6900 days ago

31 January 2006 (M) - I got very drunk and kissed an older woman. I can't remember it properly and I would never have done a thing like that sober. I feel really guilty and ashamed. I am fearful about telling my girlfriend cos I love her so much. What should I do?...

There's 20 years between us and he's married, but it's only a bit of fun. Should we leave off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6605 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - I'm 17, and after a drunken night I ended up fumbling in a back of a taxi with this 37 year old married man. We got intense but we didn't sleep together. I have started seeing him every Sunday, and things are getting more intense as time goes by. We ...

I think that he thinks I'm involved, but I'm not. Now I live nearby, and I wonder if he feels the same attraction I do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6901 days ago

30 January 2006 (F) - I know a guy from work, he's about 10 years younger than me. Last May we meet at a baseball game and we talked for a long while and he kept staring at my eyes. I was married at the time and my husband had just told me he had a girlfriend and was ...

Should I try to flirt with my teacher to get him interested in me?

This question has 34 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

29 January 2006 (F) - Well I'm having a problem right now. I like my teacher. He's 23 yrs old and I'm only 15. The thing is that I wanna have something with him but I understand it's gonna be hard because he has a girlfriend and he's engaged. Every time I see him I just ...

I'm pregnant with my divorced, older-man's baby. Now I've seen him in town with his ex-wife...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6873 days ago

29 January 2006 (F) - I have been secretly seeing someone that is 10 years older than me. We have been together for almost 9 months now. He has been married and has a child. He told me that I was his only one. He said that him and his wife were divorced and I should feel ...

Finally met the guy I want to lose my virginity to, but all we do is fool around!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6905 days ago

26 January 2006 (F) - I'm 18 and have stayed a virgin while waiting for the perfect guy to come along. Well I've finally met him, and am ready to have sex. We've fooled around but we've never had intercourse. He's 12 years older than me and every time we talk about ...

Am I foolish to be in love with a woman six years older?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6896 days ago

26 January 2006 (M) - Dear Agony Aunt, I'm 17 years old and I'm in love with a 23 year old woman. We are really good friends and have spent nearly every day of the last five years in each others' company. She always comes to me when she needs a shoulder to cry ...

Any idea what his reaction will be about my age-lie?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6900 days ago

25 January 2006 (F) - I'm a 17 year old female in a relationship with a 26 year old male. The problem is, I lied about my age. My birthday is in March. I will be 18. He thinks I will be 19. Its only a years difference. It could be worse... but I'm just terrified to tell ...

Really clicked with the girl, and her family have met and like me. Should I tell them I'm 9 years older than her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6894 days ago

23 January 2006 (M) - I could really do with some people's opinions. Before Christmas I met a 17 year old girl and we clicked straightaway. We have loads in common, and have hardly been apart since. I have met most of her friends and seem to get on really well with...

The relationship could have come out of a soap-opera storyline... Am I a lovefool?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6908 days ago

22 January 2006 (F) - im an 18 yr old who's been seeing a guy 16yrs my senior for almost 3yrs. i love him with all my heart but our relationship is begining to take its toll on me for many reasons and i don't know if i should stay or go? i know it sounds like a st...

Was it really the age gap between us that made him break up with me, or was it something more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6855 days ago

19 January 2006 (F) - I just broke up with my first serious boyfriend. He's 18 and I'm 15, and everyone was telling me to break it off with him because it would end in tears etc but we kept on going because we were in love and were enjoying ourselves. His reason f...

I think my friend is just being used by her younger, gay friend. Am I the only one who thinks the relationship is weird?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6907 days ago

18 January 2006 (M) - A close (intimate) female friend-53- has a relationship with a younger gay male- 40- which upsets me. She is in the US, he in Europe.They met on a trip a year ago at a resort and seem to have developed a relationship where they communicate almost ...

My boyfriend's rushing to move in together, but after the miscarriage and our breakups, I need to take things slowly!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6903 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - I met my boyfriend around 9 months ago whilst working for my aunt. We live 100 miles from each other, but without a doubt he visits me every weekend. I was 15 when I met him and he was 20. I am now 16 and he is a few months away from 21. My par...

Our 16 year old son is with a 43 year old woman...what do we do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6906 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - Recently me and my husband found out that our 16-year-old son has been dating a 43-year-old woman and has got engaged to her. We asked our son if this was true, and he said it was. He told us he is talking of getting engaged to her and havin...

I need him but he's jealous and threatening and he wants me to have his child...help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6906 days ago

16 January 2006 (F) - I'm 15 years old.. And I met and fell in love with a 22 year old. He never asked me to have sex.. It was my choice to give it to him. Now that were sexually involved he talks about me havin his child.. And he does things like take the condom off ...

My partner is no longer interested in sex! Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1542 days ago

15 January 2006 (M) - I am 35 and my partner is 54 and she has become uninterested in sex, please can you help?...

There is a big age gap and what does he really want?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

15 January 2006 (F) - Hi I am 16 years old and have a part time job. About four months ago a new chef started at work. After the 2nd weekend of working together he started texting me. He says he really fancies me and he has even said he is in love with me. The only pro...

Am I just "settling" for my current boyfriend, or am I letting the disapproval of my friends and family get to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6916 days ago

14 January 2006 (F) - I've got a bit of a connundrum for you all. I'm going out with a wonderful man, though he's a dozen years older than me. He's extremely sweet. My mother doesn't approve of the age gap, of course, and though my friends haven't said anything, I can't ...

The relationship is wonderful, but he confessed a dark secret: he's 2 years older than he said he was...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6451 days ago

14 January 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 months. Everything is wonderful, we love each other so much and we cannot get enough of each other. I have never been happier and I know he feels the same way. We have recently decided that we are ready ...

My mom, 50, told me she's having an affair with a guy, 25... How do I help her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6917 days ago

13 January 2006 (M) - My 50 year old mother is having an affair with a man who is 25. I am the only person she trusts enough to tell and I don't know what to say to her. The problem is, that she loves her husband (My stepdad) very much but she is young at heart, she acts ...

I'm 38-he's 25..his family won't meet me..his mother thinks our relationship is 'disgusting"! Need advice

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6918 days ago

12 January 2006 (F) - Older Woman Younger Man I'm 38 and my bofriend is 25. We have been dating for 1 1/2 years. We love each other dearly. The problem is his family... they dont accept our relationship and refuse to meet me.. his mother said that our relationship is ...

I'm upset because he wants to break up because of the challenges of our age gap relationship.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6918 days ago

11 January 2006 (F) - hi, i'm presently 23 and my boyfriend is 17 years older.when we first met i considered him to be for the most 28,at once something just clicked.after getting to know each other and spending time together he told me that he was 39.i couldnt believe ...

He 12 years older and I met him online. My parents need reassurances that he's ok. How can I do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6919 days ago

11 January 2006 (F) - I'm 18, to be 19 in less than a month, and currently in a long-distance relationship with a man nearly 12 years older than me. My parents seem a little unnerved, understandably. We met online (through a video game forum, a shared interest of ours), ...

It was a little lie about his age, but it's shaken my trust in him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6920 days ago

9 January 2006 (F) - My boyfriend lied to me about his age for 4 months. He told me he was 34 when he is really 36. A month before we were going to move in together he decided to tell me about his little white lie. I am only 23, so he said he was afraid if he told me ...

23 years between us. Could it work out if we really love each other?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6919 days ago

9 January 2006 (F) - Do you think that a 23 year age difference is ok?? I'm 17 and he's 40, and he says that he really loves me, and while I don't think I love him yet (we've only known each other a few months) I do really care about him and can't stop thinking about ...

Calling all "toyboys"... Your views are needed!

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

8 January 2006 (F) - Hi! I know there is no definitive answer to this question but I'd appreciate some 'toyboys' responses to this one - what is that you 'toyboy's, for want of a better word, love about your older women? What is it about older women that you find ...

What should I do... Ex-wife, 26, is hooking up with a guy, 38, and making a BIG mistake!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6865 days ago

8 January 2006 (M) - me and my wife have separated twice now and because of my verbal anger problem as well as the first time we separated i got involved with a women witch was the icing on the cake for us spliting that time.at the time i was 28 the other women was ...

Is it unfair to make my 34 yr old boyfriend wait until we have kids and get married?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6923 days ago

7 January 2006 (F) - Hi, ive been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years and he is 34 years old and im 21. At first the age didnt bother me but just recently, he has been saying he is ready for marriage and children, i have told him that i am not ready just yet and he ...

Should I have sex with my underage girlfriend? She says she's ready, but I'm not sure about the consequences...

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

6 January 2006 (M) - I am 20, my girlfriend is 15. She's said she's ready for sex with me, but I'm feeling like I'm doing something very wrong. I feel a lot for her and we're really happy together, but, I just don't know where I would stand legally if I have sex with ...

I'm 30... Going out as "friends" tomorrow with 21 year old guy but should I leave door open for "more"...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6925 days ago

6 January 2006 (F) - Getting myself into a spot of bother here. I am going out to the movies with a 21 year old male friend tomorrow night. We’ve been friends since childhood, or rather I have been a big sister figure to him and we have only recently been back in ...

My physics teacher still leers at me and makes suggestive remarks. I think I'm falling for her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6913 days ago

5 January 2006 (M) - I think a teacher fancies me. I am 16 and in 6th form and ahe is about 45. When I was in year 11 my physics teacher used to wear low cut tops, showing her breasts and every lesson she would stand opposite and bend over the desk and help me with my ...

I'm 13 dating a 24 year old man... Is this cool?

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 6611 days ago

4 January 2006 (F) - Im 13 and starting to get on "WELL" with a 24 year old. Im 13 and had met this 24 year old guy and we have a hell of a lot in common. We feel strongly for each other. And we have kinda been steady for while. Im a extremly mature 13 year old,and i am ...

I'd love to date the guy from my church...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6927 days ago

4 January 2006 (F) - Hi, I have quite a problem. Well, I go to church with a guy who seems perfect. I've known him for quite some time. He's 6 (sometimes 7) years older than me though... Him and I are just friends right now and I would have no intention of act...

Don't know if the age gap of 4 years is too much, and I don't know if I should tell my parents!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6923 days ago

3 January 2006 (F) - Hey people, I don't know if you can help, but here goes. I am going out with this really amazing guy but there an age gap. I'm 16 and he's 20. Does that matter to parents, because my mum, dad and sister wont let me date because I am the clever o...

Should we have to worry about the age difference?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6899 days ago

3 January 2006 (M) - Hi all, I am wondering if some of you could be so kind and give me your honest opinions on my situation ... i am 33 and have have fell madly in love with a 19 year old woman i have known her for over a year and the feeling we both have for ea...

How do I tell her that I'm much older than she thinks??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6927 days ago

3 January 2006 (M) - Age difference I'm a currently single 42 year old guy who, I guess, has been blessed with a bit of a "baby face". I also keep myself in shape, and even my hair is still pretty much it's natural colour (that is, next to no greying). Many p...

Am I stoopid for dating a 37 year old married guy? Age 16...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6584 days ago

2 January 2006 (F) - I'm not sure what to do. i am 16 years old and have been dating a 37 year old married man for nearly a year now. He i adore his children and i am friends with his wife. We have recently told each other that we love one another and i've stopped see...

Feel like my pet allergy came between me and my boyfriend and his friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6927 days ago

2 January 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year, I am 19 and he is 6 years older than me. On new years eve he invited me to go round to his friends flat for the bells, as i hardly know his friends i declined the offer. However changed my mind after he ...

A little white lie is haunting me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6928 days ago

2 January 2006 (F) - I am 18 years old. I have been with my partner for a little over a year, he is in his 30's. We have been in love from pretty much the fisrt time we met! My problem is prbably the hardest thing I have had to deal with, When we met he was informed ...