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writes: I know a guy from work, he's about 10 years younger than me. Last May we meet at a baseball game and we talked for a long while and he kept staring at my eyes. I was married at the time and my husband had just told me he had a girlfriend and was leaving me, but I never told the guy that. Fast forward 9 months later, I never seen him since then til we met at a hockey concession stand where I'm doing volunteer work. He was acting funny, brushing his shoulders off and staring at me and it felt that our eyes locked. I felt a deep connection to him at the moment and strongly attracted to him. Well, as fate has it, I've moved into the house across the alley but I haven't heard from him. He's single, shy. I'm wondering why I feel like I want to have a relationship with him. I'm thinking that maybe he thinks I've already got a boyfriend, while I'm wondering if he has a girlfriend. If anything else I think he would make a good friend. Any suggestions?
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reader, smeedle +, writes (30 January 2006):
Sounds like you may have a new friend, you need to make the first move especially as he is shy and take it from there, ask him were is good to eat, what pubs are good etc as you are new to area, this may lead onto a conversation into which you could ask him to join you for a drink.
I am a believer in fate and think there is a reason you keep bumping into each other.
Go for it, give fate a helping hand and good luck.
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