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writes: I am 18 years old. I have been with my partner for a little over a year, he is in his 30's. We have been in love from pretty much the fisrt time we met! My problem is prbably the hardest thing I have had to deal with, When we met he was informed that I was already 18 when in actual fact I was 17! It hurts when I think I have lied to him for so long I dont want it to be like this but Im scared to tell him the truth! We now live together and I really do feel as though I am going to burst one of these days, Ive had nights where I jus sit in and cry while he's out and there are times I will be cuddling up to him and I will jus get tears fall down my face! I love him more than anything and I want to spend the rest of my life with him! What am I going to do? Please help! Reply to this Question
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reader, Joe  +, writes (3 January 2006):
any lie no matter what is still a lie and is going to have bad consequences i'm sure that when you tell him he may get angry but if you loves you enough he will soon calm down and see nothing wrong.
but be careful like i said a lie is a lie and even if he forgives you he could find it difficult to believe some things you say.
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reader, shortandsweet408 +, writes (2 January 2006):
 Its only one year. Does his family know? I don't think that one year makes a difference between you guys. I once dated a guy who told me he was 26 (I just turned 18) and in all actuality AFTER we were intimate I had a bad feeling and asked him how old he REALLY was - 33. It really didn't bother me with the age, but the fact that he lied to me about 7 years... plus it made me wonder what else he could lie about. THATS a big one. I can see how you can feel bad, but if he really loves you he will understand. I just don't know why you didn't tell him 2,3, 6 months along? Its best to get it off your chest. Especially since your friends and family really know your age, why hasn't it slipped out yet? Don't hide something that small from someone that important to you.
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