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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My husband has locked me out of the bedroom and refuses to talk to me

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 1722 days ago

31 March 2020 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid My husband of 3 years is refusing to talk to me, i understand with pandemic and staying indoors all the time everyone are frustrated and depressed. But locking me out of master bedroom, is not solving any problem Yesterday during lunch time, he complained that i... (342 words)

I'm considering what I want for my wedding considering everything going on in the world

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1722 days ago

31 March 2020 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, Where to start? As we all know the world is in the middle of a crisis pandemic. It has really made me reconsider how much money we're spending on our wedding in 2022. We've only booked the hotel but this alone is £7000. This crisis has really made me reconsider wh... (120 words)

My father moved on very quickly after my mother died and I don't like his partner

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1678 days ago

31 March 2020 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid. So my mother passed away almost a year and a half ago, (November 2018) I’m an only child and still very hurt over it for reasons. 4 months after my mother moved out of the family home in 2016 he met a woman and she moved in quit quickly. Anyway last year... (456 words)

My boyfriend made me feel like he is apathetic or not invested in this relationship.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1725 days ago

30 March 2020 (F) age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I had a discussion. Much of what we do these days during quarantine. I asked him if I enrich his life, make it better. His response was ... "I've always said. Almost from day one. I want what is best for you. Bottom line is that if it's not with me, the... (284 words)

Are there any of you there that rekindled their motivation to do a job well inspite of it not necessarily being your passion or fulfilling?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1726 days ago

30 March 2020 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I need some advice about my career. I am experiencing burnout. The hours at my job are not stressful and the benefits are good. It's a creative job but I am an analytical person. I got into the industry through sheer chance. After college I just desperately need... (306 words)

Does my friend to date want me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1727 days ago

29 March 2020 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been friends with a guy for a few years now. I don't get to see him that often as we live over an hour away from each other and I was unwell for a while. For most of this time he contacted me weekly or even every few days. When I was unwell he always said I could ring ... (389 words)

I was hoping if we couldn't date at least we could be friends. I'm not sure we are even that

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1727 days ago

29 March 2020 (M)

age 30-35 - I met her at uni. I wasn't in her class for the first term, so she added me on Facebook and we started messaging each other. It wasn't every day or anything, but often enough. Not long after, I met up with her at a student pub. I was out with a couple of friends and she... (587 words)

I feel he played games and is not supportive.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1724 days ago

27 March 2020 (F)

age 41-50 - There was a guy that I liked on my course who is in his 40s. After getting to know him more recently, I have found he is quite anxious. Last week he messaged me as he said what is going on at the moment in the world had scared him. I replied and told him something personal, he ... (272 words)

Should I answer this guy after promising my boyfriend I wouldnt have any further contact with him.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1725 days ago

27 March 2020 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy two years ago who I started to fall for, despite me being in a relationship. I confessed to my boyfriend and he was very upset. He wanted me to stop contacting the other guy, so I did. I told him that I had chosen to stick with the life and partner that I have, and ... (295 words)

Would you stay with an insecure partner?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1728 days ago

26 March 2020 (F)

age 30-35 - My man and I have been together for almost 4 years he recently just accused me of cheating which made me very upset because I’m not the type of person he has a lot of insecurities from when he cheated on me which is something that I forgave him for and moved past. but I am ... (131 words)

My husband is cheating again but I don't know if I can be bothered losing my house and divorcing.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1715 days ago

26 March 2020 (F)

age 36-40 - Married for almost 10 years and have 3 little kids. We have a nice house,comfortable lifestyle. Found out today he has been texting some girl from his work, apparently thats all. Just dont know whether its work continuing relationship when he cant be trusted. Dont fe... (133 words)

What is everyone doing with their free time being cooped up?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1730 days ago

25 March 2020 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello again! I've posted several times and everyone's been very helpful and empathetic. Thank you! I hope all you aunts and uncles are safe and healthy (and your loved ones too)! I'm under the impression that at least one of the aunts here is actually from Italy and I ... (558 words)

After 3 years together how do I improve our sex life?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1728 days ago

25 March 2020 (F)

age 36-40 - How do I improve our sex life? My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years. We have been living together for one year. I have noticed that our sex life is slowing down. I feel like my partner's desire has dropped completely. When we were dating he would always ... (651 words)

It seems this friendship has run its course.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1731 days ago

25 March 2020 (F)

age 30-35 - Long read, thank you for reading Hi everyone, I’ve had a friend, Serena for a while. I noticed we definitely have grown apart but I thought it was normal until... I asked her to hang out and she told me she couldn’t that she promised a relative she would babysit that Saturday... (796 words)

My girlfriend's health worries me. Should I break up with her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1730 days ago

24 March 2020 (M)

age 36-40 - Been dating a woman 10 years younger than me for almost 9 months. We are in love but her health really concerns me. I have a job which requires me to maintain my fitness and I work out several times a week. My girlfriend is overweight (not an issue for me) but shes diabetic. ... (106 words)

How can I work out what I am doing wrong on dates?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1732 days ago

23 March 2020 (F)

age 30-35 - I haven’t been in a relationship for eight years, my last date was December and it was the only time I’d gone on a second date and I haven’t heard from him since. I’ve only been on a handful of dates on the past couple years, and I don’t get a lot of conversation on the apps ... (321 words)

I don't want my partner back but he says he cant live without us.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1730 days ago

23 March 2020 (F)

age 41-50 - I split up with my ex after discovering his infidelity. We have 3 children together who he still sees every other weekend and we have stayed amicable. 2 weeks ago he went silent for about a week. He told me yesterday he is struggling with his mental health and took an overdose... (161 words)

All my friends are getting married.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1730 days ago

23 March 2020 (F)

age 30-35 - Welp, it happened. all my friends are engaged. not exaggerating, all of them. meanwhile, I’ve never been in an actual relationship. I just turned 27 two months ago and basically ready to join a nunnery because art least that would give me an excuse to be this pathetic. I mean I ... (335 words)

I'm going through a rough phase at the moment.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1721 days ago

22 March 2020 (F) age 41-50 - Hi guys! ai am going through a rough phase. I will turn 40 next November and I feel my life is over. Despite having a wonderful husband, a great job, a nice home... I feel old and useless and worry about dying alone since ai have no children and no family besides my hubby- my ... (115 words)

Could we ever work out again?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1735 days ago

21 March 2020 (F)

age 22-25 - I was in a relationship for a year with my ex. We lived together and were deeply in love and had a crazy sexual connection. However - he was very insecure and possessive and the relationship became quite toxic with frequent crazy arguments (was worse when he drank). Eventually ... (105 words)

Would women date an ugly male virgin?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1679 days ago

21 March 2020 (M)

age 30-35 - I've never been on a date before, I've never had a girlfriend, and I've never kissed a girl either. I am of course a male virgin. I'm not a handsome man so I don't ask girls out on dates. They'll just say no so I feel like I shouldn't waste their time or ruin their day by ... (211 words)

I'm not sure if I should call her now, and let her know I like her, or wait for her to call me one day.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1733 days ago

21 March 2020 (M)

age 51-59 - So this may sound corny, but i just dont want to mess things up. i began a job back in june delivering auto parts to a small chain of car shops. in one of the stores i began a friendly relationship with one of the counter girls. She knows that i like her and was working my way ... (255 words)

I apologised but customer wants me fired.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1734 days ago

20 March 2020 (F)

age 26-29 - So I work in fast food and our drive-through is open. I work as a cashier and drive-through. I don't know how to make food here as I've only been here seven months. Anyway, I accidentally misgendered a customer and now he/she won't stop at anything to get me fired over it even ... (368 words)

I thought my Mom had enough on her plate.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1733 days ago

20 March 2020 (F)

age 22-25 - So, I am a 19 year old college freshmen who has a mom who got mad at her. Did I do wrong? I am the 2nd oldest of my mom's 7 kids but the 1st one she gave birth to. She adopted my older have brother and kept him after she and dad split. My parents have a 2nd daughter. They ... (245 words)

Wife asked best friend to help me recuperate at home. I enjoyed being naked in her care

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1737 days ago

20 March 2020 (M)

age 51-59 - I came home from the hospital and needed help with bathing and dressing. My wife needed to work so her best friend Sue offered to help me shower and dress. . My wife agreed so Sue came and helped ungress and shower. She was professional about it like the women CNAs who helped m... (97 words)

How do I tell my girlfriend I bought myself a sex toy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1734 days ago

20 March 2020 (M)

age 22-25 - Hello all! Call me "S" please! I tried typing this up once but it got lost by mistake so I'll make this a bit more condensed and can elaborate if you have questions about anything. I bought myself a prostate massager toy with a wireless remote. I've always been interes... (232 words)

My parents keep pushing for me to communicate with my abusive sister

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1733 days ago

19 March 2020 (F)

age 36-40 - My sister has never been my friend. She’s about 8 years older than I am. Even as children I mostly recall her being verbally and physically abusive towards me. Honestly I have few good memories aside lectures from her as well as guilt trips. Any gifts I received from ... (334 words)

I'm having a hard time coping with LDR

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1735 days ago

19 March 2020 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey y'all, I was together with my bf for 4 months in the same city. We spent the nights and days together in the same appartment for most of the time. So it was almost like we lived together.. However it's been almost 2 months now that we are in a LDR. We had to cz of work- n... (174 words)

Man I'm dating still lives with his ex and won't tell her about me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1734 days ago

19 March 2020 (F)

age 30-35 - I have invested time in a man but I can’t work out whether I’m being too trusting or whether I’m being naive. We’ve been seeing each other about 5 months. He lives in another state and is in my area 4 days a week for work. When we first started chatting at work he told me ... (435 words)

Would it be stupid to move across the country to be near in-laws?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1735 days ago

19 March 2020 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey I believe my mother in law doesn't like me even though my husband says she does. We were supposed to move across the country to live closer to them but now I'm not so sure I want to. Some background info I'm white my husband is Mexican, we got married in a Christia... (375 words)

Why has my ex suddenly blocked me on social media?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1738 days ago

19 March 2020 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi my question is why has My ex of 6 years ago suddenly blocked me on social media even though we were not even following each other what does this mean? ... We haven’t spoken since our breakup 6 years ago..I had seen his name pop up in my suggestions and had looked at his ... (118 words)

I'm having therapy but feel I can't be fixed no matter what I try.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1735 days ago

18 March 2020 (F)

age 30-35 - I was in a long-distance relationship for a year. I found out he had 4 other long term girlfriends. The whole process was very traumatic. I trusted him as years ago we were together for over 2 years. He was my first boyfriend. During this long-distance period, he gave me... (393 words)

I kicked the cheater out, but miss what we once had.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1738 days ago

18 March 2020 (F)

age 30-35 - I kicked my boyfriend of 10 years out 6 months ago because I found out he’d been having an affair with someone from work. It wasn’t just an affair. He had been leading a double life for the 5 months that the affair went on for. Everyone in their workplace knew they were an ... (278 words)

Have I missed my chance to talk to the cute girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1735 days ago

18 March 2020 (F)

age 22-25 - I’m graduating high school in May. There’s this really cute junior who occasionally stops me to compliment my outfit, or in one case a presentation she’s watched me hold (I have social anxiety; that was not a good presentation). I know nothing about her except that’s she’s ... (145 words)

How do I tell my boss I've changed my mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1682 days ago

18 March 2020 (F)

age 51-59 - This is not exactly a relationship question but has raised through me trying to become independent after a relationship ending. I work several different jobs as a lecturer, all of which are on yearly or termly contracts. Recently here in the UK there were major strikes or... (1071 words)

A former friend has cancer, should I reach out to her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1734 days ago

18 March 2020 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I've just found out an old friend has terminal cancer at 41years old, however we haven't spoken in over 10 years. We didn't fall out but i just decided at the time that due to feeling like her and her boyfriend (now husband) regularly put me down and made me feel rub... (208 words)

Sister Keeps Guilt Tripping Me Into Visiting Dying Formerly Abusive Dad

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1739 days ago

16 March 2020 (F)

age 30-35 - I grew up being abused by my dad on a regular basis (physical, emotional and he once also attempted sexual but then had to leave suddenly. If not I would almost certainly have been molested). He also however gave us all a great expensive education and was nice in the periods ... (532 words)

I thought we had a great date but he's went totally cold on me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1736 days ago

16 March 2020 (F)

age 26-29 - Afew days ago, I went on a fantastic date with a guy I have been talking to at my local gym. His 20 and I am 22 years old, so he doesn't have alot of dating experience. We had dinner, went to golf, drove around town and went to the movies. We cuddled, held hands and he was ... (436 words)

How would I go about finding a lady to help me dress up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1739 days ago

15 March 2020 (M)

age - as a boy I was fond of silky dresses my mother wore. when I was 6 I dressed up in them and also my two sisters clothing.i loved the feel of smooth fabrics. I wore my sisters school knickers and the feelings as I pulled them up.as an elderly man I have thought about paying some ... (96 words)

I have a boyfriend and catch myself thinking of someone else

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1741 days ago

14 March 2020 (F)

age 22-25 - I have been in a relationship for a few years and now I'm thinking about someone else I have been in a relationship for a few years and I'm at university. I don't see my boyfriend that much but we talk everyday. Recently I have been thinking about a boy in my course. He's a f... (129 words)

I'm falling for my FWB guy and trying to decide how he feels

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1689 days ago

14 March 2020 (F)

age 36-40 - This may come across sounding very strange, I met this guy through a friend, we only started talking via text last year as a friend gave our numbers to each other, this year we have met three times only for sex, but we seem to get on well, we spend ages talking having a... (276 words)

Things have gotten rough since we had the baby. How do I save us?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 1739 days ago

14 March 2020 (F)

age 26-29 - I’ve been with my partner for 6 and a half years and 9 months ago we had our first child. Since our little boy has arrived we’ve argued more than we have in the 6.5 years we’ve been together. I knew it would be hard and challenging but I didn’t realise it would be this bad. My ... (279 words)

I'm confused! Does he like me as a friend? Or more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1742 days ago

14 March 2020 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, It has been a while since I've been on this site. I have a question in the back of my mind that's been bothering me for quite some time. This will take a while to explain everything... First off, rewinding back to January of 2019: I've Started working on my GED and wo... (981 words)

Letting someone know in the simplest way that we can't keep in touch.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1743 days ago

14 March 2020 (F)

age 30-35 - I ran into an old friend from childhood. We reminisced and he some of the other people from our group of friends. He told me how he reconnected with many of them and talks with them through phone calls in text. I found out a few of my friends have husbands now and careers they ... (329 words)

I'm a married woman crushing on an old friend

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1741 days ago

12 March 2020 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I am married with a child but recently added an old online friend on social media and we have been chatting .. exchhnGed numbers and all..we flirt a lil but I decided that I won’t speak with this guy after we meet.. it’s been about 10years since we last met. He lives In a ... (196 words)

Will this single dad ever be ready for a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1744 days ago

12 March 2020 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing this guy on and off for almost a year. He has a young son (4 years old) and when we were first starting to see each other and things were getting serious, he got scared and said he couldn't handle anything new because his previous relationship with his baby ... (321 words)

I am crushing on my married doctor. I want to tell her my feelings

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1744 days ago

11 March 2020 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a crush on female doctor (she is married lady) I don't know when I see her I really feel to talk to her more and more (she is already married I don't know what to do know). Can I reveal this to her directly?. Help me.... (53 words)

I want to tell my ex that I made a mistake and I miss her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1745 days ago

11 March 2020 (M)

age 26-29 - I need help with my situation and what to do. Last summer I broke up with my ex gf of 2 years. I wasn’t happy in my relationship for a long time and I realised she was very toxic. At first I felt nothing but relief so thought I was over it. My ex gf got into another ... (598 words)

His lack of respect and communication are getting to me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1745 days ago

11 March 2020 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm at a loss as to what I can do so all advice appreciated. I've been living with my boyfriend on and off nine months, we was together for two years before we moved in. I work full time, self employed and I have no breaks in my day. I get home and I cook from fresh, I do... (284 words)

I have a hard time believing anything my b/f says. Should I break up?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 1738 days ago

10 March 2020 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi, I’m writing this in regards to my current relationship, the question is (Should I let him go?) My current boyfriend and I have been together for almost 8 months now. In the very beginning he did cheat on me, we had a fall out and he begged for me to take him back, so I did... (317 words)