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22-25,
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writes:I’m graduating high school in May. There’s this really cute junior who occasionally stops me to compliment my outfit, or in one case a presentation she’s watched me hold (I have social anxiety; that was not a good presentation). I know nothing about her except that’s she’s queer, describes herself as awkward and has roughly the same interests as me.I’ve run away from her whenever she’s approached me. Lol originally my plan was to talk to her in the hallways or at the next climate march, but now that school and any social events are cancelled thanks to covid19, I don’t think I’ll see her again. Juniors aren’t invited to prom at my school, and by the time quarantine is over, I’ll be on study leave and will have graduated (fingers crossed). Did I miss my chance to talk to her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2020): Can you find her on social media? Do you know any of her friends? Now that schools are closing due to the Covid-19 pandemic; you can try and send her a message. I don't think it's a missed opportunity at all!
I think you might want to be careful until you know for certain she's into girls. She may like you as a person and share your interests; but that may be as far as it goes. Sometimes rumors get around about people, but they don't get a chance to set the record straight. Don't go by what you've heard, go by what you know about people. You said you know nothing about her; then until you both actually talk, what you think you know is only what you've heard.
Good luck, sweetheart!
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reader, no nonsense Aidan  +, writes (22 March 2020):
IT sounds like it, but take it as a lesson learned: be bolder in seizing the chance when you have it if someone interests you. Don’t dwell on it too much. Maybe you wouldn’t have liked her anyway if you had got to know her. Life is full of what ifs and the answer is always that we’ll never know. Good luck in your future.
I wish you all the very best.
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