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*ighheeledfeminist
writes:Hi all, I posted a question about my friend's brother not too long ago. In summary, I am a sophomore in college, he is a senior at my school, I am very good friends with his sister who is also a sophomore, and I have been interested in him for about six months or so (ever since he started subtly flirting with me and I, therefore, started noticing him). Initially he was very hot and cold, sometimes being really flirty and touchy and sometimes ignoring me completely. To an extent this seemed dependent on whether his sister was around, which makes some sense. But we got back to school just under a month ago after he was away all summer and he has been consistently very friendly and at least a little bit flirty with me--finding ways to "accidentally" touch me, that sort of thing. However, I am getting really impatient. He is always happy to see me when I run into him and that sort of thing but has never asked me to hang out with him specifically, until the other day when he invited me to join him and his sister for dinner. Okay, a nice gesture, but obviously nothing was going to happen with her there! (By the way, she knows I'm interested in her brother and is perfectly chill with it, but if she knows anything about how he feels she would definitely not tell me so I don't really discuss the situation with her.) But I'm wondering, since he had a pretty rough situation with a girl for basically the first 2.5 years of his college experience, AND is maybe a little worried about the fact that I'm his sister's friend and that could be weird, could it be that in this situation maybe I should make a move and be a little more obvious? I definitely flirt with him...it is not very subtle, at least I don't think so, but maybe his inviting me to dinner was his way of opening the door and hoping maybe I would make some sort of a casual move as well?
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reader, highheeledfeminist +, writes (24 September 2014):
highheeledfeminist is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks so much for your replies :) I will most likely see him tomorrow and I'm going to see if he wants to grab lunch with me. Keep it chill but clear that I'm interested in spending more time with him. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2014): Well go for who you love. don't be afraid to screw up. U just have to go for it. your heart says so.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (24 September 2014):
 Go for it! Thes types of encounters don't come along everyday. Who knows you two might be neant for each other.GooLuck
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reader, Vm  +, writes (24 September 2014):
 Hey yeah you are right may be he is hesitating to you as you're his sister's friend.. If you really interested in him just go and talk..if you really want relationship with him..its not like that always guys initiate..be brave and talk openly..
Or mail me for any other help.
Take care
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