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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can I have a conversation with him about this without being arrested for a domestic dispute?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3827 days ago

28 May 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - After 25 years of marriage I have come to realize my husband is a liar...about big and small things. I do not trust him at all, and I find it difficult to believe anything he tells me, even if it's about the weather!! I want to confront him about things I know he lied abo... (513 words)

I'm confused about my addiction!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3829 days ago

28 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Am 25 yrs women with no child and I need help. I'm confused ever since the is this lesbian used to give me attention and loving I start have bad addiction of musterbating each and every time when am alone I use my spare time on bedroom and masterbating and watch porns and only ... (132 words)

I'm stressed because I can't seem to find that passionate love.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3829 days ago

28 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 22 and still did not find "real -passionate love". I had 4 boyfriends but noone of them could impress me so much. I know it might sound strange, then "why I was with them". Well, because I loved them but not with love. Not with THAT kind of love. Just - they ment more to ... (234 words)

Engaged to be married but afraid to do so because I do not want sex

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3824 days ago

28 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 21 years old and engaged to be married. Let me explain some of my background to you so that this makes sense. I went to a very small Christian school all my life (16 kids in a k-12 school) that is attached to my church. I grew up reading the bible, soul-winning, ... (949 words)

Any tips for approaching my crush?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3828 days ago

28 May 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I recently had a dream that I was getting married, well kinda. Well for some reason I was at my middle school ( currently in the 10th) and there was this semi long hall way to get to te front doors. Well I was walking towards the front doors and my friends were standing on ... (258 words)

How can I say I'm sorry?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3828 days ago

28 May 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I had been with a guy for a few months, friends before that for a long time. When we were friends he was seeing someone else and during their break up he came to me to vent and talk over. We became close. We fell out and had not been speaking. I was heartbroken and... (181 words)

Has this turned into a casual sex thing?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3825 days ago

28 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - so I am a little confused on my situation.. my ex and I are not together, yet we are in this cycle of not talking, then talking, hooking up, meeting up while we are out, then not talking again for a week or two. he is well aware that I love him and I guess ive kind of accepted... (172 words)

Does it take time to fall in love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3828 days ago

28 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a question about love. People who are in love, did you fall in love right away or did it take time? When you met your love, did you ever have doubts in the beginning or were you confident he or she was the one? I recently met someone I really connected with. At ... (144 words)

My family guilted me into getting back in touch with my LDR

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3828 days ago

28 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a dilemma… I dated a guy very shortly (less than 4 mo.) and he wanted to do a long distance thing but I didn’t like him enough to do so. He just didn’t “get it” so I had to rudely and abruptly cut contact and block him. My mom gave me a lot of shit for it because ... (416 words)

How to cope with losing the girl AND watching her love someone else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3829 days ago

28 May 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Well, after a year of being with her as great friends, I finally confessed my feeling. She didn't feel the same. The friendship didn't last. Only a week after our friendship ended, I see her with another guy at school. They both are always in each other's arms and smiling and ... (213 words)

I'm terrified he's going to go from "I want to marry you!" to "I don't want to get married to you!"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3828 days ago

28 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - When my boyfriend and I started going out with each other - after a few months we used to chat about what kind of wedding we'd have etc etc. we were both on the same plane about it cost wise and all that - not too expensive but a fun day and put our personalities into it. ... (320 words)

I'm scared to be a single mum with 2 kids at 20, but I don't think I love my fiance anymore. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3829 days ago

28 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a very tricky dilemma. I don't think I love my fiance anymore. Me and my fiance have been together for over 2 years now and have a daughter together and I'm pregnant again. Although we are constantly arguing, we don't get along anymore, I find myself fantasising about ... (177 words)

Starting to like a guy I'm dating, but I think hes still looking for others?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3829 days ago

28 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive known this guy for a couple of months now. We met on T--r (a new dating app), and i wasnt sure about it, but my friend recommended it to me, help me get out more and meet and date new people. Now I've met this guy, and we're suuposed to be having our 3rd date this weekend ... (176 words)

How do I help my son?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3828 days ago

28 May 2014 (M)

age - Both my sons have left the house and have been in the military. My youngest is currently home visiting, he has time off. Chatting with him, I realized he seems depressed, he has no inspiration for the future, such as college degree or a good job. I feel real bad because I ... (348 words)

Should I start up a text conversation with her again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3828 days ago

28 May 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupids, I just got this girls nnumber last week. I waited a day and then texted her. A day later she responded while I was out with some friends. Probably should of told her I was busy. I ended up starting to text her back after a couple of hrs. We started getting ... (221 words)

I mentioned my ex and now this man has blocked me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3814 days ago

28 May 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - When I was in college a guy lived next door and I lived there until the end of college and moved and he went to michigan we were just friends and neighbors. He came into town not to long ago and low and behold his aunt is next door that he was visiting. I saw him and there was ... (205 words)

Did I come on too strong and freak him out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3509 days ago

28 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear All, It seems I am having a dilemma. I have recently met a guy over a month ago. It started as me trying to be friendly with a guy in our hiking group as no one really talked to him. I didn't start to fall for him until the third meeting where we got connected. ... (304 words)

Should I introduce this married woman to my wife?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3828 days ago

28 May 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - I am married. I met this woman some time back. She seems to be very interested in me. She is married. We used to share lot of sms and our own photos. Recently I told her that she is looking good and if we were not married then I would have asked for her. She replied that we are ... (109 words)

In love with my friend's sister -- what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3829 days ago

28 May 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - I am in love with my friends sister. I started liking her a couple of years ago and now I know I really like her a lot. I had planned to ask her to prom, but most of my friends said it wasn't a good idea. I was afraid that she was going to reject me, so I didn't ask. She ended ... (111 words)

My fiancé wants to postpone the wedding?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3828 days ago

28 May 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - My fiancé and I have been engaged for almost three years now and we have planned our wedding for about a year now. Our wedding is coming up in July and last week she told me she wants to postpone it because she is scared and she clams to not be ready. I don't know how to ... (101 words)

We've both decided we want different things in life but can't seem to end it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3829 days ago

28 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone I've been with my bf for almost 3 years and from the start our relationship hasn't been great. We live together but I feel we're more like house mates than partners. We both work a 9 - 5 and while he's really into gaming on his game consoles after work, I prefer t... (249 words)

My LDR can see prettier women in porn, so why bother taking it to the next level?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3809 days ago

28 May 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in a long distance relationship and we have not yet been sexual in person . Next time we meet we will take it to the next level but in the meantime we enjoy that online but I'm worried about how I can possibly keep my bf interested when he enjoys so much porn. I mean all... (157 words)

My husband doesn't have much interest in sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2863 days ago

28 May 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - What would you do if your spouse doesn't want to have sex with you? My relationship with my husband has been...different. Very early on in our marriage, in bed, he said to me, "Don't initiate sex. I'll initiate." Then, over the past ten years, has proceeded to initiate it ... (305 words)