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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I've never felt an instant attraction before!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3868 days ago

18 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Why did I feel that way about that guy? I've never felt like that before.? So yesterday I went to my sister's party and I saw this gorgeous guy and the attraction was instant. I was so shy couldn't wait to get out off his sight. He found out my name and came to ask m... (228 words)

No contact for three weeks and now we're going to meet -- is this a good idea?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3869 days ago

18 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I broke up last month and we have been in no contact for three weeks. He broke up with me saying we are not compatible. I took it pretty bad because it came out of nowhere for me. I did all the things i wasnt supposed to lol as in texting him and calling him, asking ... (332 words)

How do I get over all this hurt and move on from this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3868 days ago

18 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone I'm just looking for a bit of advice, I'm really hurting and angry infact confused and I just don't know how to get over this or move on from it. I'll tell u briefly about the history. 3 years with a guy a few years older than me (39) It took a while but u fell... (661 words)

We've drifted apart and I've met someone else

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3868 days ago

18 May 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been with my current partner for several years now and we have two beautiful children together. We got together quite young and fell with the first after only 6months of being together . We haven't been unhappy but we have drifted apart over the years and it's just ... (298 words)

My friend told me she can't throw my baby shower and I'm scrambling for ideas! Help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3869 days ago

18 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - in desperate need of some ideas my "friend" was all set for throwing me a baby shower, which I was very very excited about. I asked for it to be held in my house so I didn't have to bother about traveling anywere whilst tired afterwards, which I am happy about. however, my "f... (280 words)

Will spending time apart really help us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3868 days ago

18 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay my boyfriend and I have been dating a year and 3 months and we live together. It feels like our relationship is running into the ground. I'm not sure if its because we spend all our time together or what. Our daily routine is he goes to work at 11pm and gets off at 7am and ... (430 words)

I fall too hard and too fast

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3870 days ago

18 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I think I have a problem with men which is really affecting my life. I'm hoping someone will have some good advice as I really want to break free of this! I've been single for quite a few years, but during this time I've had numerous 'flings', which have lasted anywhere... (484 words)

He's so negative that it's bringing me down too

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3870 days ago

18 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 4 years seems to be going through some sort of crisis, and I have no idea how to help him or even if that's possible. He keeps saying he hates his life. He hates the fact a lot of his family have moved away to different countries. He hates the weather. He hate... (343 words)

Should I feel bad for moving on first?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3870 days ago

18 May 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - There's this girl that I liked at my college. We were friends for a good few months. We went out together, partied together, did crazy stuff and just all around enjoyed each other's company. We even entrusted each other with some pretty embarrassing stories. It got to the point ... (696 words)

Some of the things she confides turn me on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3869 days ago

18 May 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - For a while now my best-friend, call her Cee has been in a relationship with this guy, who's also mostly my friend too. I's been going on for two years, and it was the most ridiculous relationship ever, and Cee was complaining about him constantly, about how unromantic he was e... (235 words)

My ex bf found nude pics that I sent to this one night stand guy.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3762 days ago

18 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I was in a long term relationship (5yrs with him) we broke up, well technically I broke up with him cause I cheated on him. I never told him that I cheated on him and NEVER WILL, but we had other issues to split up. When I cheated on him I was out of state for a month I had a ... (319 words)

Ex boyfriend has a new girlfriend but does he really want to be with her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3869 days ago

18 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - myself and my ex boyfriend broke up 2 years ago when he went abroad. I was suppose to go out after him but decided I wasnt ready for the commitment. He has done alot of the chasing for the last two years and was always the one to contact me. He recently told me he had started ... (288 words)

Went out to dinner with 2 colleagues, were they a little rude..?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3870 days ago

18 May 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Need some opinions. I recently went out for lunch with 2 colleagues who are Asian, one 31 one 53, me early 40s, we get along well and I like them both, Im white. We went to food court and one of the women headed right for an asian restaurant and as soon as we wen... (400 words)

My siblings had bad relationships so I'm not allowed to date

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3868 days ago

18 May 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - My dad won't let me date because of my siblings' past relationships! I have four sisters and one brother who are all in their late 20's and 30's. Their relationships would sink and my parents would baby them! I don't know what to do. I'm almost 18 and I'm dating a guy who is ... (227 words)

Even though we've broken up he still tries to control me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3869 days ago

18 May 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi and thanks My ex boyfriend and I had a roller coaster relationship. Our first time around he was on a dating site our whole 8 month relationship plus admitted to having feelings for his ex plus cheated so many times I can't count that high. I found out about his cheati... (608 words)

How come my ex never feels sorry?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3869 days ago

18 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I were long distance. He's a social butterfly and he's loud and I know how he acts around people. I know he couldn't put up with the loneliness if I wasn't there with him, so I used to ask him to let me know if he had feelings for someone else or didn't have love for ... (287 words)

Does he not observe personal space, or was it something else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3869 days ago

18 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - This is going to sound really stupid.It is. For the first time in a long time,got attracted to someone who everybody else thinks is gay. He is moving to another state that is so far away.It doesn't matter.But he always seemed uncomfortable and nervous around me.There ... (119 words)