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Archived questions from: 24 May, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I feel suffocated by my girlfriend and have lost all my friends!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3863 days ago

24 May 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been going out with my girlfriend for just over a year. I am a uni graduate, where she is didn't study after school. She is currently in part time employment and I'm studying. Is it normal to give your girlfriend first priority for everything? I was happy until I fe... (282 words)

Mutual close friend spend lots of money on my friend's birthday and very little on mine. Does it mean something about our friendship or am I just being ungrateful?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

24 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel childish and horrible even posting this but there's something that's niggling at me. My oldest friend (A, whom I live with) and I have a very good friend in common (B). We met B at the same time, work with her and are (as far as I can tell) equally close to her. A's and ... (377 words)

I'm thinking of splitting up with my boyfriend but I just can't, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3864 days ago

24 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly three years now and it's just fizzled out on my end and I don't know why, he's caring, loving, respectful and everything a person could ask for. It just started very rocky with some horrible behaviour when i had my strongest feelings for ... (202 words)

No strings attached sex with coworker - could this progress into more?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3863 days ago

24 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear agony aunts, I need to understand how men's mind work... There's this guy at work I go out with sometimes. We both made it clear that we don't want to be in a relationship and that "it's just sex, no strings attached". I know myself. I know I won't be able to ... (140 words)

My boyfriend keeps registering on dating sites and tells me it's just "for a laugh"

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3860 days ago

24 May 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Could some one advise me what to do please? I have found my boyfriend to be registering on different date sites. This is the fourth time I found out about it now. He says its just for a laugh and unregisters from them, but then secretly registers on one again. Is he to be ... (80 words)

Unusually big chemistry - how do I take it from here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3860 days ago

24 May 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi Friends Background: I know a girl I met for a few weeks nearly 4 years ago when she was in my town. We had an unusual chemistry between us, lots of teasing and flirting. She left and we went out ways pretty much keeping in touch at times on facebook. Just to put it in other... (282 words)

My boyfriend often gets angry at me for no reason and offends me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3863 days ago

24 May 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid My bf of 3 years is getting angry all the times these days. He goes on weeks without talking to me. He gets angry if i talk about my work related issues or if i forget to buy his stuff or ask him to pick me up from work or to take me out on a date... Earli... (170 words)

My partner of 7 years left me. I am trying to give him space but I want to start again from the beginning.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

24 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My partner has just broke up with me 11 days ago. We where together 7 years and have lived together for most of this. in the last 3/4 months we where planning on moving abroad to work for the summer. we gave up are house and moved in with his mum to save money, close till me ... (640 words)

My Best Friend, His Girlfriend and I.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3864 days ago

24 May 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I've known my best friend for about four years now. I've known his girlfriend for about five. Before I met my best friend, his now girlfriend and I use to flirt around (before they became a couple). It was never anything serious, just a few harmless spanks, hugs, light petting, ... (582 words)

If he's married now why is he trying to contact me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3864 days ago

24 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - *I know that what i did and how i acted was my fault so you don't need to tell me that.* I'm feeling quite low at the moment and have been trying to get my head around everything that's happened in the past couple of years. I got involved with a guy who couldn't have be... (725 words)

Alone and too scared to meet or trust

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3863 days ago

24 May 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Let me say this 2 yrs divorced and doing ok as for my career but life outside of work for me doesnt exist . I have no life ! In sept I went on a health kick and lost from size 26 to size 14 and look ok and proud of myself even but Still No Life Outside Of Work !I guess im still ... (202 words)

Started a new diet last week, however its been a week and I have lost no weight. Advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3863 days ago

24 May 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey! Basically I have been un-happy with my weight now for some time and I am REALLY desperate to lose it. It kinda started about a year ago, I got put on these pills which made me put on loads of weight. I was orignally 10 stone... (586 words)

Anyone know about the NHS rules for breast scans?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3864 days ago

24 May 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I had breast implants done 11yrs ago. So far my breasts are ok with minor changes. I have some rippling but nothing too major like pain etc. I went back to my surgeon just for a check up. I was expecting him toeither say they are fine or that something is wrong and I need... (367 words)

Scared of a Relationship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3859 days ago

24 May 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. So I'm having a little trouble. I will use fake names to distinguish the different people. There's this girl (we'll call her Angie) I dated her twice. first time she broke up with me because I was her first boyfriend. The second time I broke up with her because I didn... (254 words)

I found an empty condom wrapper and a phone number in his clothes after he came home from a stag party!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3838 days ago

24 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I'm over thinking this but I need another view point on this one. What would you think if your boyfriend came home after a stag party, and then the next morning you found an empty condom wrapper in his pocket along with a phone number written on the back of a scrap ... (381 words)

My parents hate my boyfriend and I can't see him! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3864 days ago

24 May 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - My parents hate my boyfriend Ok so I have been with my boyfriend 8 months now and we are in a happy, comfortable relationship, I love him to pieces and his family are lovely people however my parents hate him here are some bulletpoint reasons why... -I am 16 and he is 1... (996 words)

He revealed he'd had an affair while married! Can I trust him now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3864 days ago

24 May 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I am very much in love with the man I am with. He was married before and has been divorced for a while. He was married for more than twenty years and his ex wife left him in such a way that it almost destroyed him emotionally and financially (she had an affair, took money, he ... (378 words)

I've been diagnosed with bipolar but my husband doesn't believe in it

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3864 days ago

24 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I was diagnosed with Bipolar several months ago, and when I broke the news to my husband he was less than accepting. I told him that I didn't tell him sooner because I was worried he would think I'm crazy, but he said "You're right, I do think you're crazy." He said that b... (160 words)

Am I wrong for shaving my head even though my gf prefers it long?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

24 May 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I'm a young guy with an extremely noticeable receding hairline. I'm cool with shaving my head, I think it's comfortable and looks alright on me..but my gf hates! She makes me grow my hair out and it looks ridiculous. Am I wrong for shaving my head even though my ... (124 words)

She stopped texting... What's the protocol?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

24 May 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, so this girl and i have been texting for a few months. She's cool, she's like a year or two younger than i am and normally she'd start the conversation, we talked pretty much every day but she hasn't texted in about two weeks and yeah, well i really like her so i don't know ... (81 words)