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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My friends tell me I should give my boyfriend a BJ

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 3884 days ago

1 May 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - A lot of my friends are wanting me to give my boyfriend a blowjob, and he agreed to wanting me too when i asked. But i feel like we are kind of young for this to be happening. My friends said it was okay because we have been dating for 6 months, but im still not sure. And if i ... (70 words)

Attracted to a girl but I'm straight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

1 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I need some advice. I'm 20, female and always thought I was straight. But lately I've become kinda confused because there's this female singer, and well, I'm really attracted to her. I'm confused big time. I've never had a boyfriend but I've always liked guys and this... (101 words)

I sort of want out of this LDR but I just can't get myself to do it.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3886 days ago

1 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a long distance relationship with a guy from another country. We have been talking for over 7 years but only dating for a little less than one. I love this guy. He's charming and a total sweetheart. That said, I am constantly at war with myself with this relationshi... (508 words)

Is my online date a bit weird?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3886 days ago

1 May 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been chatting to a 45 year old guy online who was keen to meet new friends and go dating. I was going to meet him at the weekend and we've been chatting for a week. He works from home and is also renovating his place. He boils up batches of lamb and eats curry most nights ... (145 words)

I have no interest in anything, anymore.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

1 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - For about 2 months now I've been feeling very empty. Bored out my mind, nothing excites me anymore. My boyfriend and I split 3 weeks ago and I've not cried or spoken to anyone about it and that is not me at all. I just feel so empty nothing in my life excites me now. ... (96 words)

Where am I going wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3886 days ago

1 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Can someone tell me whats wrong with men today? I was dating a guy i met recently. He was a shy or quiet person anyway and when i text him i would get very dry responses and I ask him had he plans for the weekend. It seems I have offended him and i dont know it he just stopp... (205 words)

Should I break up with my depressed boyfriend?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3861 days ago

1 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, and thank you to those to can guide me in my dilemma. My boyfriend has depression, and is suicidal. He opened up about these thoughts is January, and was hospitalized and got a psychologist, anti-depressants and the whole package. After around two months in the hospital, ... (485 words)

Is he just stringing me along or trying not to hurt me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

1 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - It's been 4 months since my partner broke up with me. We lived together for another 6 weeks until I was able to move back home. I didn't want the break up. He dumped me out of the blue and never gave me a clear reason, nor wanted to talk about it. But once I moved out he conti... (141 words)

He said things can't work between us but he still contacts me. Am I just a backup plan?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3884 days ago

1 May 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy roughly a year ago in a bar. We began dating, we both work in the same industry so were both very understanding of the lack of time we could spend together however for three months we saw eachother at least one a day a week. at one point I admit I became a little ... (489 words)

I'm too afraid to ask him for help financially!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3886 days ago

1 May 2014 (F) age 30-35 - I'm 23years plus i'm dating a guy of 29years plus getting to three years now, l love him so much but despite my love for him i'm shy to ask him when i need help financially because of my two reasons my first reason is that i'm thinking its too early to ask him for that now ... (95 words)

I'm afraid he's going to go running back to his single life!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

1 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, A little advice needed. Me and my boyfriend were together for four years when my parents announced they were moving to a different country for my dads work. I had the option of staying or going with them. After much consideration I decided to go with them due to... (509 words)

How can I make her well again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3881 days ago

1 May 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi friends, I was liking a girl and we both came into a relationship knowing that both of ours family wont agree with it and have know that it wont be last longing. our office was far but i used to drop her home in cab when it was too.but i started dropping daily.we got in... (438 words)

Am I crazy because of lack of sexual release? Or is "craziness" determined by genetics alone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

1 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I am far too embarrassed to ask anyone I know about this, so here it is: Can you go crazy from never getting sexual relief? I'm a 25 year old virgin, and I've also never had an orgasm. A long time ago, I believed you didn't need to have sex or have orgasms to have a ha... (454 words)

Should I try and get back with him? Will it be different the second time round? How do I know if he wants to make it work with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

1 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my boyfriend of two years, a year ago and I'm still in love with him. A few months after we broke up I left home to travel Europe and live in London. I'm still in London, and will return home in August this year. Since I left, I have spoken to my ex every few ... (235 words)

Is it weird that my boyfriend of a year and a half had pictures of him and his ex girlfriends on a hard drive that he bought after we started going out?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3885 days ago

1 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm keeping my question short and sweet really. Is it weird that my boyfriend of a year and a half had pictures of him and his ex girlfriends on a hard drive that he bought after we started going out? Bearing in mind he's been broken up with one of those girlfriends for ... (111 words)

I quit my job after 5 days because of the way I was treated! Should I say something?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

1 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey! I've been having a bad day at my new job today. I started my new job last Tuesday at a Clinic and got to meet 4 girls who I'm going to be working with in the front desk and with the doctors. My first day was good. My second day was really bad. Three of the girls started to ... (239 words)

My husband never touches or kisses me during sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3885 days ago

1 May 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I love my husband very much. We get along great. Sex is my only complaint. I'm very sexual and enjoy sex. My husband doesn't kiss or touch me at all when we have sex. Even when I go down on him, nothing...he says he likes it but never touches me or says anything. It's always do ... (104 words)

I love her but she played with my mind

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

1 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, I have a long story, that I'll try to sum up. I'm 23 and I was talking to my manager at work who is 26. We texted and talked all day and all night, flirting, dirty talk, etc. He asked me to meet him privately and I said no, cuz I wanted a serious relationship als... (545 words)

I don't want to seem weak when I end it

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3886 days ago

1 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been casually seeing a guy for about 6 months and I think for my own sanity I need to end it. He's probably the most rude and arrogant person I've met and he makes me feel worthless with the way he speaks to me. Now do I tell him that's the reason I don't want to see ... (90 words)