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Archived questions from: 10 May, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why does my boyfriend want me to act like a 14 year old boy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3877 days ago

10 May 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend told me the other day that I'm not as much fun as he wishes I was. We go out to concerts, dinners, the occasional movie, and do things with our kids. He will usually have ideas of ways we can entertain our kids, but when it comes to doing things alone, he ... (545 words)

Can you lose weight in the vagina area?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3876 days ago

10 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a vagina question! So, in the last couple of years (since I've been with my current BF), I've noticed that my labia looks different. They seem a bit longer - for want of a better word... I have lost about 8 kilos or so in that time. Is it possible that my vagina l... (182 words)

Drama with two people at work may have undermined my position

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3878 days ago

10 May 2014 (F)

age - I'm in dire need of some advice on how to handle a situation at my place of employment. I have worked at my job for 21 yrs in various positions. For the last 8 yrs. I have been in the position of Site Supervisor for a Before and After School Childcare Program. At my site ... (791 words)

We want to get married but I'm not happy with the living situation options!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3878 days ago

10 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in relationship with my boyfriend of 5 years and we will going to marry soon. His plan is next year. Both side family is supportive with our relationship. The only thing I extremely worried about is about our home. He said I would live with his family in his ho... (443 words)

Am I right to be hurt with him being such an obvious flirt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3877 days ago

10 May 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok I have been seeing a guy for the last 4 weeks. I think he's great, funny, sexy, a laugh, and one thing that sets him apart from a lot of guys is that he has so much time for me. Things do seem to be moving along fast, but we're both just going along with it and see where it ... (823 words)

I told her I couldn't be with her anymore because she is married and she didn't take it well!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3876 days ago

10 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I have been dating a married woman who is in a same-sex marriage. We have only been dating for a month and a half and I have already fallen for her. We have done a lot of stuff together and she has never treated me as her mistress. Recently, I told her that her and ... (129 words)

Does he want a reaction, sex or commitment?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3878 days ago

10 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Right , I've known this guy for a few months, and I don't know what to do.we have met up and we have had sex a few times, he treats me well etc, but I don't know where I stand with him. He is been showing me potential women his mum wants to marry but my response has always been ... (103 words)

I accidentally sent my step-mom a sex message intended for my girlfriend!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3876 days ago

10 May 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay. . .I know some of you will be tempted to think this a prank message and OH BOY I REALLY wish it was at the moment. My girlfriend and I got into "the mood" and decided to send sex messages and pics to each other. We were really getting into it that I guess I accident... (359 words)

Will he grow out of his stubbornness? Or is this just something I'll have to get used to?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3876 days ago

10 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everybody. Me and my boyfriend have been together for five years, but we recently had a 'break' from the relationship. We've been together since we were 17 years old and everybody always used to say that we would be the couple that would be childhood sweethearts. If ... (597 words)

Is it crazy to still think about and miss my boss?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3877 days ago

10 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - hi there!i don't what i'm feelin', i miss my former boss,he was not actually my immediate boss but he's the brother of the CEO of the company i was working before. we never been close but we usually see each other at the corridor for some instances.he's at his 35 years of age ... (108 words)

Is this feeling of competition something I should even consider or just ignore? Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3878 days ago

10 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all! Some thoughts and advice would be much appreciated! I am an artist and have struggled for a while to display my work in public or to even let anyone, including close friends, know that I am an artist. I don't know why though. Anyway I finally got my work ou... (359 words)

Is he seeing someone else where he lives?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3876 days ago

10 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been told by his mates that hes seeing somone else where he lives. Ive confronted him about it and all he says is no im not I was even told her name which I looked on fb and it says shes in a new relationship, he doesnt have a fb pg so I cant tell who with but everything ... (152 words)

Should I leave my boyfriend? Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3878 days ago

10 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I would so appreciate if someone could give me advice on my problem as I really don't know what to do. I have been with my boyfriend for 7 years, I am 22 he is 24, we have been going out since our teens. We didn't have the best relationship in our teens which when... (509 words)

Does he like me? When I talk to him he acts so nervous and weird but he stares and does other things.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3878 days ago

10 May 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - There is a guy in my class that I think he likes me. First of all he stares at me, and he sits in places that I appear to be there in the class. And he just seem so loud and he sings and kind of show off in front of me. He stands next to me in places that o go to. And he just ... (142 words)

I think my body looks abnormal, help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3874 days ago

10 May 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi aunts i need help Like two years ago im this slim tall guy with big head,or a head that is actually noticeably big,i started building muscles to gain some mass, because eating didny really,so now agained this whole lot of muscles And my whole body match,big head big body B... (187 words)

How can I stop my bf messing me around?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 3871 days ago

10 May 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear all.please advise.My bf of three years .has a nasty habit of messing me around .e.g I ask him what he is doing later on this evening.He says he doesn't know.I text him a bit later saying I thought he might like to come over.He texts back saying 'I'm not sure.I might be ... (259 words)

My guy tries to make me jealous and bullies me too. How do others handle a situation like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3878 days ago

10 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband is a bully and has deliberately been trying to make me feel jealous of him, but that has just put me right off him. I cringe when he comes near me now. If someone tries to make me jealous to pay them more attention it has the opposite effect with me and then I dont ... (74 words)

Do I need to have a serious conversation with him about his rough way of making love? And how should I raise the topic?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3877 days ago

10 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know what to do with this guy. I met someone 3 months ago. Really cute fun guy, But... The only thing I keep having problems with is how he has sex. He is a bit on a rough side. In addition he has large penis,which doesn't help the situation. Even the way ... (726 words)

How important is the look of "it"?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3876 days ago

10 May 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Help .... I'm about to enter into a physical relationship with a new man after a long marriage and I need to know . How important is the appearance of a woman's vagina to a man Most of the ones I've seen in porn look very similar and much tidier than mine. Unless all oth... (86 words)

Why would a girl date me when she isnt over her ex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3877 days ago

10 May 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I have met a girl online and we are going on a date tomorrow i know I shouldn't but I have been looking at her online activity and I saw her boyfriend had broken up with her 1 month ago. I was looking more into it and she put online just hours ago "you have no idea how hard it ... (142 words)

I ruined my second chance.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3878 days ago

10 May 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - so cupid, Recently, my boyfriend and I broke up for the second time. things that happened: In the past, I have cheated, and I paid for my actions, I was devastated. so that led to this girl in my class who's in his class, and she's been feeding him lies that I still talk to ... (189 words)