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Archived questions from: 6 May, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can I keep this relationship going?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3882 days ago

6 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year and we live together at the beginning of our relationship it was the best kind of relationship we always did things together we went every where together there was never a boring moment. But now its a whole different ... (214 words)

No money for child care -- how do I go out and meet people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3881 days ago

6 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel so lonely , im going to b 30 next yr and well ive only got my little girl shes the best thing I have, and even her dad left ume before she was even born. I met someone else but he has since last yr been working away and I think hes with someone else as hardley see him ... (195 words)

Is he cheating, texting her, wanting her back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3881 days ago

6 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship for going on 6 months. After falling madly for each other I thought that we were doing great. He was attentive, we rarely had harsh words and he ended up moving into my apartment with me. Just last month I noticed that when he came home he got a ... (711 words)

I have a problem with men sexually objectifying women!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3881 days ago

6 May 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a real problem with the fact my partner objectifies women, I know most men look at other women and because men have more to look at on a woman's body, a woman's body can be more aesthetically appealing, I get that and I get that men are men at the end of the day etc. I ... (352 words)

Do I join my parents' birthday celebration, or stay with my partner for his?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3881 days ago

6 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My dad and step mum both turn 60 this year and as their birthdays are two weeks apart they have decided to throw a joint party on the weekend in between their birthdays. They've never had a party before and I never see them on their actual birthdays as I live up north and have ... (508 words)

White lies, half-truths, minor deceptions...are they bad signs or just normal human behavior?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3881 days ago

6 May 2014 (M)

age 51-59 - Are small half-truths or deceptions insignificant or significant in a relationship? I have been in a relationship for a couple of years with a woman who is different from any others I have ever known. She is very outgoing, very social, and a lot of people are drawn to her... (577 words)

How do I deal with my negative thoughts?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3881 days ago

6 May 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - This is a question about negative thoughts towards myself. It may just be human and I am not dealing with it right , but I have always had negative thoughts towards myself . be that going for a job interview or talking to a girl or anything . If I go for a job interview ... (237 words)

He wants me to move in, but I'm worried about his nasty sister, and my independence

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3881 days ago

6 May 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I met Andrew 4 years back. we have Ben dating ever since. He is a very good man and I love him very much We even have a beautiful 5 months baby girl together . He has another of 7 years old call her Anita Anita's mother has been in the picture ever since I met Andrew.... (368 words)

Anyone have experience at speed-dating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3881 days ago

6 May 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I was the anon who wrote this question originally: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-re-enter-the-dating-world.html Well, an update, things are going well so far, not saying it in an egotistical way, here's hoping it continues ;) However, this question doesn't co... (385 words)

Should I ask him why he exaggerated the length of time he was single and why he led me to believe he's been living by himself?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3882 days ago

6 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I'll try to keep this short Basically I met, dated and fell for this amazing man roughly two months ago. Never have I connected so well with someone, shared so many likes and tastes with, which he reciprocates. During this time frame we've got to know one another well, so... (285 words)

I don't want to be a gay man.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3880 days ago

6 May 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - How do people accept being gay so easily? I'm starting to think I'm gay but I don't want to be. Sure I could pretend to be straight for the rest of my life but I'm not sure if that's what I want but I don't want to lead a gay lifestyle either. I feel so stuck. My family hates ... (445 words)

Why is she taking birth control?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3881 days ago

6 May 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm in a LDR, my girlfriend and I are in different countries due to school and we can see each other every three months or so. she is on the pill. why would a girl be on birth control if she is not supposed to be sexually active?... (48 words)

From friends to something more? or no? advice pleaseeee xx

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3882 days ago

6 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, I have a guy friend, and he is a great friend. 4 years ago I liked him and we were together just 2 days, which is nothing. After a while we became really good friends. I was friend with benefits with his friend. All of this was fine. All until my friend starts h... (181 words)

I can't turn my back so what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3876 days ago

6 May 2014 (F)

age - One of my closest friends had cancer, recovered well, got the all clear 2 years ago. We all supported her through it. She also has an obsession with pain in her mouth and has been seeing specialists for almost 3 yrs and they can't find a reason. She is still receiving treatm... (264 words)

I just can't find any happiness in my world.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3882 days ago

6 May 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm kind of apathetic and indifferent towards life right now. I've accepted the fact that this is a crazy world and bad things will always happen to good people and there's nothing you can do about it. Ever since the 7th grade I've had a hard time finding happiness in life. ... (202 words)

Am I in love with her? I miss her so much. Is this love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3882 days ago

6 May 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been with my girlfriend for almost 8 months and she spends the night at my house and she left today to go home and I have been breaking down because I miss her so much. Does this mean I am in love with her?... (47 words)

How do I give her support? My friend has been her Bf for month. Now he wants to spend his Birthday with his guy friends, not her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3882 days ago

6 May 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - hi, please please tell me what i should do? A friend of mine have been dating with her bf for 1 month. On this friday it will be her bf's birthday, and her bf said that he doesn't want to go any where with her, but instead wants to go with the guys, This message was heard by... (121 words)

What is friendship? Is friendship worth having? All my friends move away or pass away.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3882 days ago

6 May 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I am just wondering if having friends is worth it? I have had friends before, but after a while, they always end up dying or moving 3000 miles away, to the point where I am questioning if friendship is real.... (41 words)

'I was hurting for so long that after a while I became numb to the pain'... what does that mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3882 days ago

6 May 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - What does it mean when an ex says to you 'I was hurting for so long that after a while I became numb to the pain? - This was in reference to a conversation about our break up just before christmas, it was awful since I was in a bad place and didn't go about it the right way, ... (114 words)