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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I am married. I met this woman some time back. She seems to be very interested in me. She is married. We used to share lot of sms and our own photos. Recently I told her that she is looking good and if we were not married then I would have asked for her. She replied that we are helpless now and keep it to ourselves.2 days back I suggested I will introduce her with my wife. For which she hesitantly accepted. I did not introduce them yet. But she is not talking to me now. Not sure what is happening? Is it good to go forward?
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (29 May 2014):
 Why on Earth would you do this to your wife?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2014): Put that interest, excitement and energy into your wife - you wouldn't want her to do that to you with her guy crush, would you? Invest in what you already have. Really look at what you have at home and make it what you need at this stage of your life so that another woman is no longer the answer to your extracurricular activity online.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (28 May 2014):
 Forward with WHAT?????
Good luck.....
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reader, CMMP +, writes (28 May 2014):
Wow. What a a terrible idea. Of course you don't introduce your crush to your wife FOR NO REASON!
If I was you I'd stop talking to her. What you've done is only slightly inappropriate for a married man, but if you don't quit now it's very likely to lead to cheating.
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (28 May 2014):
 Leave it be.
OP, it was unwise and in poor taste to tell this colleague that you find her attractive and that if you weren't already married you'd pursue her. If you're not satisfied with your wife, you really shouldn't announce it to others, and if you are happy with her, you've left a very different impression.
It's very likely that you've mistaken this woman's intentions. Being friendly does not necessarily mean she's interested in you romantically.
You came on very strong here and you need to back off and go back to being professional.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (28 May 2014):
 You should cut contact with her, you are headed down a path to cheat on your wife and you will devastate two marriages. With time your feelings for her will fade.
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reader, RevMick  +, writes (28 May 2014):
 Hi,
I would keep them apart. You don't want to mix these two worlds.
She isn't looking to be friends with your wife, so why do you think it's a good idea to have them meet?
I think it's a train wreck waiting to happen.
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