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Archived questions from: 8 May, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is there any way he'll ever think better of me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3843 days ago

8 May 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Could anyone please help Is it possible to change someone's perception of you ? Ok I was very good friends with a guy and it went badly wrong We got close and kissed a few times It shouldn't have happened as he was in the middle of breaking up with his partner and w... (320 words)

I've fallen for a guy at work, but I'm married

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3841 days ago

8 May 2014 (M)

age - I'm 54, married with children (grown up) and I've become obsessed with a guy at work who is younger than most of my children. I get on so well with him, but for some time my feelings toward him have become sexual. What the hell do I do??... (49 words)

I thought all men liked giving anal sex! Is he a weirdo?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3848 days ago

8 May 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Am a bit confused about the situation am in it also may sound a bit silly. I have been with my partner now for 7-8 years now and I should think i know him but.... When we got together ok we experimented with each other in the bed room department and my sex life with him is ... (242 words)

Cat-calling, how bad is it and how do you ladies handle it?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3847 days ago

8 May 2014 (M)

age 51-59 - Cat-Calling This is a question for any ladies out there who have experienced what is commonly known as 'cat-calling' (E.G strangers calling out sexual remarks to them.) My daughter, who is in her early 20's and lives away from home, was telling a friend about some abus... (259 words)

I'm not sure how to handle this family situation!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3849 days ago

8 May 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband's daughter from his first marriage is having a baptism for their baby. The relationship between the daughter and my husband is limited in that she never remembers his birthday, father's day or Christmas. She does not return phone calls or e-mails either--only when ... (355 words)

His ex is still in the way!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3848 days ago

8 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, i´ve been dating my BF for almost three years. And his ex is still in the way. I mean, they stayed friends after the break up, but my bf lives in another city than her, so they chat on fb from time to time..I don´t live with my bf yet, he lives with his 2 male friends in ... (182 words)

Is he serious this time.. or trying to get back at me for screwing him over?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3849 days ago

8 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy named (Sean) we will call him that. About a year ago Sean and I were seeing each other until i decided to get back with my ex. Sean and I would talk every now and then still. We didn't talk for a month after i told him being friends just hurt too mu... (260 words)

What to do about my husband's suggestions for my business?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3848 days ago

8 May 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I am starting a business and I am the only person other than my husband trying to help me as an unpaid manager. He is a manager where he works and a good one at that. But, when it comes to my business he will suggest things such as taking an expensive class, which I did ... (605 words)

Should I go for it, the fourth time around?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3849 days ago

8 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Should I go for it, the 4th time around? I went yesterday for girls night out and met someone I dated and we broke it off 3 times already. I didn't see him for about a year. It started with one night stand, and then we continued going out and having non stop sex, sev... (1018 words)

Is the new hair, the underwear for the gym, and texting her friends for her pleasure or for someone else's?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3848 days ago

8 May 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok over 2months ago me and my girlfriend joined a gym together thought it would bring us closer which it didn't cause I wanted to use the weights and she was only the light equipment for the first few weeks we went 2 times a week then our kids had some time off school which ... (412 words)

Am I suffering from some form of sex addiction?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3849 days ago

8 May 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - As I've mentioned previously on this site, I'm in the habit of frequenting brothels on a weekly basis. However, after soliciting the advice of some of the regular contributors here, I've decided to refrain from sleeping with sex workers while I wait to undergo an STD test. ... (157 words)

I want to forget my ex but how?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3849 days ago

8 May 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend broke me up a week ago, then he deactivated his Facebook account. I beg because I love him so much, I have done everything for him. It really hurts, he doesn't answer my text and when I call him, he will turn off his cellphone. What should I do to forget him? He's ... (66 words)

I need advice on getting my confidence back with dating and men.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3849 days ago

8 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I need advice on getting my confidence back with dating and men. Sorry I sound selfish but i recently was with a guy who ruined me. I met him a dating site which made me think he genuinly thought he wanted to meet someone. He was nice in the beginning and he always paid... (196 words)

Could he be attracted to me at least? How could I become friends with him again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3849 days ago

8 May 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - There is this boy M that I used to be friends with in 9th grade but then we stopped talking completely after a fight.We started talking again occasionally after last summer when we met at a bday party.We are hs seniors now.I was at 2 parties where he was too.He gets very drunk ... (542 words)

He acts like a child when he wants to go see his family and when he's with them! I feel like I want to start afresh!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3848 days ago

8 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my partner for 4 years. when we first met he moved over to the area i was from after meeting on a works holiday. he was happy and seemed to want to spend all time together and put his past behind him (for the first 2 years). Now he has to travel back and forth ... (222 words)

I am fed up of arguing about her wanting breast enlargement surgery!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3848 days ago

8 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I need some advice on a frustrating situation that I am in. About 7 months ago I had a breast enlargement. At 22 I was fed up of feeling self conscious, unhappy and miserable about my body. I never ever developed more than budding breasts. One breast was notic... (471 words)

Is it safe or a good idea to go clubbing on my own?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3848 days ago

8 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it safe or a good idea to go clubbing on my own? All my friends are settled or far away. If i want a night out i have to go on my own I have done it a few times i feel like people are looking at me thinking im pathetic with no friends or im a slut looking to be picked up.... (133 words)

I'm struggling with my job applications, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3848 days ago

8 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm struggling to apply for this voluntary job. What should I do ?. I have to do a voluntary job soon at a Youth Club. I am on Jobseeker's Allowance. However, I am struggling to apply for it. It says on the application form that you need two references, but I only have one, ... (175 words)

Does the girl code mean I can't date my soon-to-be married best friend's ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3847 days ago

8 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Would it be wrong of me to go out with my friend's ex, even though when they went out they were 17 and my friend is now actually getting married this winter? I have known my friend for almost 5 years, and she was the first friend I made when I moved here. We are really close... (376 words)

I want a girlfriend so badly!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3849 days ago

8 May 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - So im 14 years old and lesbian . I go to a really small school with like 12 people in my grade and none of them are gay or actually people id consider to be in a relationship with. But like. I want a girlfriend so badly and I know im young but just. I feel like I really just ... (82 words)

How do I do this by myself and maintain my sanity?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3849 days ago

8 May 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Well in my past question i asked if you can gain trust from someone that has never trusted you to begin with...we split up. Now i have two kids to take care of...no vehicle...no job...and my phone will be out of minutes tomorrow. I have no idea what to do with myself and im ... (83 words)

I need ex-boyfriend advice: will he change if I stop answering his calls?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3849 days ago

8 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - my ex bf and I have been playing this back and forth game for a while now. he says he does not want to get back in a relationship and he does not want commitment, I do. but yet he continues to call me and not let me go and move on whyyy? will he change if I stop answering his ... (62 words)

I don't want to give him a second chance but I said I would to settle him down. Now what?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3849 days ago

8 May 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Its been almost a year since me and my ex broke up ... He double timed and after knowing that i broke up with him .. He is constantly appologising and asking me to come back but i never forgave him... But yesterday he texted me that he attempted suicide... I tried to settle him ... (123 words)