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Archived questions from: 14 May, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What’s wrong with my friend? How can I help her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3841 days ago

14 May 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a friend. She’s like a sister to me. I’ve known her since she was born, which is 6 months after me. Our moms were best friends and they were both single moms. I had no father and her parents were divorced. For years I’ve thought that she has a serious problem, but her ... (731 words)

I'm so sick and tired of being leeched off of.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3842 days ago

14 May 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Here's the situation. I use to live alone in a two bedroom apartment. One room for me to sleep, use computer, hang out, etc. The other room was my workout room with all my weights, benchs, punching bag, etc. I enjoyed the solitary lifestyle. My own private getaway from the ... (703 words)

What does it mean?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3841 days ago

14 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - What does it mean when a guy does these things? What does it mean? So my boyfriend of 9 months (we didn't have sex) started acting distant and irritated with me and I couldn't stop hurting:( He'd ignore me for days when we argue and get really rude if I ask him questi... (212 words)

I feel too intensely

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3842 days ago

14 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Anyone else wish they couldn't feel emotions? I feel like everything hurts me. I'm an intense person, I get close quickly and they end up hurting me. I've never been able to have a relationship for more than a year. It takes me ages to get over pain, people's comment... (111 words)

When I'm drinking I don't find him attractive anymore, why is this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3843 days ago

14 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I've never experienced this before and it's incredibly unusual for me! Usually they say when you drink someone looks more attractive.. But the guy I'm dating, he looks very good looking when I'm sober, yet once I've started drinking he starts looking unattractive to me and it's ... (149 words)

Is she losing interest already?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3843 days ago

14 May 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - So I went on a date with a girl I met online last week. I thought it was great, we just walked and talked for like a few hours, although I thought that I might've been a bit more awkward than I normally am, but in general I thought we hit it off. At the end I gave her a hug and ... (207 words)

I cheated on my boyfriend, he won't forgive and forget...

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3843 days ago

14 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for about four years. Two years ago, I cheated on him. My boyfriend is much older than me, and as far as I can remember our age difference had nothing to do with me cheating on him. I also have borderline personality disorder, and a symptom of that ... (1209 words)

Should I confront my sister over her affair with a married professor?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3842 days ago

14 May 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My little sister (age 20) and I have always been so close and tell each other everything. She has always been very conservative and reserved. I've never had to worry about her because she has never given me a reason to. Well just recently, I noticed a change in her behavior... (469 words)

What to say to this inquisitive but kind work colleague?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3843 days ago

14 May 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - a woman at my workplace similar age to me (35-40) may at times asks me what I think of my colleagues, she has only been working at my workplace a few months and I dont know her well and dont work everyday with her, but I do like working with her. I don't wan... (295 words)

He's farther ahead in terms of committment than I am

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3842 days ago

14 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it possible to love someone yet not be IN LOVE with him? I know for sure I love my BF.. we click very well and do sweet things for each other. We always start the day off with a morning call to each other, talk/text through out the day, and end the day talking on the p... (357 words)

I want to move on, to find someone who will support my choices

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3842 days ago

14 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I am 22 years old and have only ever really liked (had a crush on) one person. Ever. I know that he is a total momma's-boy and a gigantic crybaby who thinks that the world should bow down to his gigantic ego because he could have been a doctor, but chose to go into ... (108 words)

I want to stay friends with 'the other woman' but she says she hates me

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 3842 days ago

14 May 2014 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a separated male who still is friendly with my wife, we have 2 beautiful teenage girls and we remain very close after 6 years of separation. We still share family vacations and days out as a family and even the bed 1 - 2 times a month. I live on my own in an apartmen... (655 words)

Boundaries with a patient- husband is a physical therapist- please would like some advice

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3842 days ago

14 May 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Will try to be brief :-) SOme history: Im 43, BF is 48- we are both divorced and in a solid trusting relationship for past 6 months. Knew each other 3 years as friends so good foundation. BOth very happy. We live separate for now and everything is dandy..... Boyfriend is a... (792 words)

How do I reject this sweet, disabled guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3842 days ago

14 May 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - How do I respond to this?! Him: Why were you not in class today? Me: I was a little sick this morning - didn't wanna chance a 50min 4pm lecture :P Him: It's been a while hey? I really missed you. Me: I know, right? It's feel like forever since I've had Afrikaans wit... (273 words)

My husband prefers masturbating to porn to making love with me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3843 days ago

14 May 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - We have been married for 3 years for the last two years or more my husband has had a very low sex drive so i thought, he went to the doc 2 years ago who put him on testosterone which really didnt improve anything he started blaming his issues on his back and quit the ... (761 words)