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Archived questions from: 25 May, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

She came across sexual and experienced, but she's a virgin?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3830 days ago

25 May 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm confused at what the girl i'm dating told me yesterday, I don't judge her for it and never would but it doesn't make sense judging by her actions and the things she says that she is. She's very affectionate and feely with me, she'll roam her hands around my body that it ... (338 words)

Am I being unfair by being annoyed at the situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3828 days ago

25 May 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - My flatmate's boyfriend had been here Every. Single. Night. In. The. Past. Three. Weeks. Occasionally, after a braai or two (she likes to host parties on weekends), even his brother will stay over for the weekend!! When the boyfriend would start visiting a few times she asked ... (284 words)

I like my friend's ex but don't want to lose the friendship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3832 days ago

25 May 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - hi everyone so basically i think im starting to like one of my best friends ex's. they have been apart about 4/5 months now but they are both really good friends and me and her have been friends for about a year or so now. However, the other day me and my friends went out... (355 words)

What kind of man lies like that?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3710 days ago

25 May 2014 (F)

age - I have been seeing a guy for the last couple of years. The connection seemed to be undeniable. He committed to me giving me an expensive piece of jewelry. We connected on FB. After little time, I realized that the immense majority of his friends were women. I had just entered ... (617 words)

Is this a friendship or is she confused?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3831 days ago

25 May 2014 (F) age 30-35 - Hi there! I'm pretty confused about my current situation and am hoping some of you can shed some light on it... So here goes. About a year ago I was at a social event from work and saw this gorgeous girl - I'm a girl as well, by the way - constantly looking at me. I went ov... (946 words)

Can you change your mind about attractiveness?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3831 days ago

25 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend (mr A) recently started dating this girl who previously dated his best friend (Mr B). She was very into his friend and when he lost interest in her she was very upset and cried to my friend (Mr A) about it. When her and Mr B started dating first my friend Mr A said ... (111 words)

After a year I still don't have my online boyfriend's phone number

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3829 days ago

25 May 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Met a guy online over a year ago, we fell in love, never spoke on phone. It is a LDR and I gave him my number but he never gives me his. Lately, he is busier at work and he says he loves me but I don't know what's going on. Is it normal to be in a LDR for that long and... (75 words)

He was so eager to see me. Then we had sex. Is he now fobbing me off? If yes, then why?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3829 days ago

25 May 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I want an honest opinion, please don't judge me. I met a guy on a night out a month ago in a different city. We talked every single day via messaging/phone calls ect. a significant amount. We agreed on a date for him to come and see me at my place, but he spontaneously sa... (291 words)

New workplace for me. Guy there is married, attractive and older. What's my next move?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3829 days ago

25 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - hi.theres this man whos pretty elder to me but is ravishingly handsome,at my workplace. i just started working there 2 weeks ago and he makes frequent eye contacts and shows many other signs of attraction.it makes me feel really awkard to gaze back at him as it would look too ... (73 words)

Is it my mood swings or is my husband not interested in me anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3831 days ago

25 May 2014 (?) age 30-35 - Hello. I been been with my husband for 5 years and married for over a year. When we got married and had a baby we stayed at my mums till we found a place since 5 months ago but he never likes to stay there and he prefers to stay at my mum which means we sleep in separate rooms ... (149 words)

The ex stayed with the family for the funeral so why not me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3831 days ago

25 May 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi So I am after some opinions as to whether I am over analysing things and being silly or if I am right to feel upset. I am new to this site and so am expecting there may be some readers who will judge me pretty harshly but that's ok, maybe I deserve it. I'm not sure, that's... (469 words)

My clock is ticking and I want a baby!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3832 days ago

25 May 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I want a baby and I am dating a guy who is 7 years younger than me, i'm nearly 39 and he is just approaching 32 and we have been on and off for over a year but it was just sex that turned into something more but only the last 2 months we have been very steady spending every ... (293 words)

What's with him? Is he just curious about us?`

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3832 days ago

25 May 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - For more than 6 months now apparently all the classmates of a guy friend of mine (M) think we are together.They often say something about this to him, make remarks, especially the boys, but sometimes the girls too and a lot of them seem so sure of what they say and are ... (437 words)

I'm falling for one of my best friends ....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3832 days ago

25 May 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Been friends for a few years. Last year and a bit we've become really close. We do everything together, always hangout, close with her family. I've never had feelings for her, until a month ago. Do I tell her? I don't know if she feels the same way. Sometimes I don't thin... (96 words)

My girlfriend has been texting a much younger man

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3830 days ago

25 May 2014 (M)

age - Here is a the concern two weeks ago I found out that girl I have been dating for five years and living with four and a half was texting a younger man. I found this out one night awhile she was sleeping with phone still in her hand. The text were more my girl friend bearing ... (126 words)

I am planning on having sex outside my marriage

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3831 days ago

25 May 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello. I have been trying to ask this question for a few times because i am facing a situation in which i am undecided. I will talk honestly. Well i am married since 10 years. I have always loved to appreciate beautiful women. I particularly appreciate a girl and it's ... (148 words)

Online friend won't talk to me

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3830 days ago

25 May 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been good friends with a man online for over a year now, we chat nearly everyday and take the piss out of each other. We sometimes have disagreements but always resolve them by talking. A day ago I posted something funny on Facebook and he commented back a... (232 words)

I don't feel loved and I think he is cheating again.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3822 days ago

25 May 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 24 yrs I have two kids, one just graduated from college the other from high school. I caught my husband cheating on me in 2010. He admitted the affair and said he was so sorry and would never do such a terrible thing to me again. I agreed to work it ... (425 words)

I feel like I am his enterainment while his wife is waiting for him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3832 days ago

25 May 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - hi. i am dating this guy. i am a foreign living in USA for 7 years. he just got here as a refugee. we met 3 months ago. his english is very little but somehow we can communicate, we liked each other so we became friends first. now we are kind of bf/gf. he is from irak and i ... (349 words)

He's gone fishin' and I'm here all alone ..... again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3832 days ago

25 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello I've been with my boyfriend of two years. We have a great relationship until summer comes around. Every summer My boyfriend loves to salt water fish and his summers are filled with tropical trips to the islands and lots and lots of fishing. I would love to go with him ... (191 words)

I'm curious. How do I find out if she is too?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3832 days ago

25 May 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a married woman, but this woman I work with is attractive we often joke about being lesbian. I would really love to experience another female. How can I know if she feels the same?... (36 words)

She said she don't love me no more!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3832 days ago

25 May 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - My now ex and I have been on and off for 4 years now. Last year we split because she accused me of cheating and to me it felt like she wanted to be single so she didn't have to go with me places. She got pregnant early into our relationship, which has been a rocky road. ... (501 words)