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Archived questions from: 9 May, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He's moved on. How can I move on and forget him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3847 days ago

9 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - So I started seeing a guy at the beginning of this year. I'm quite shy, and it took a lot of effort from him to convince me to say yes to a date. I didn't have much experience with guys before him; I had only been seeing one other guy, and at this point I thought that I neede... (730 words)

My boyfriend wants a blowjob but I can't do it due to past experiences

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3846 days ago

9 May 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - My current boyfriend of almost a year really wants me to give him a blowjob. He's asked a number of times and at first I thought nothing of it and said I would at some point, but more recently he's become more naggy on the topic. This has made me think about it more and I've ... (1091 words)

She broke up with me because of anxiety, but doesn't want to give me details

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3848 days ago

9 May 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am was dating a girl who I got on really well. One day she called it off. Not in the usual way, it sounded quite strange. Anyway, she has kept in touch with me for quite a while now. She sounds like she wants to date again. When I asked why she called it off she said... (160 words)

Why does my boyfriend watch chubby porn but not fancy chubby women in real life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3848 days ago

9 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm slim, my boyfriend tells me I'm sexy and he loves my body often. But I am slim and my breasts are an A to a B cup. I have a nice bum. However my boyfriend always looks at BBW porn. Not very big girls but chubby with big boobs. It's his go to porn and he did tell me this ... (142 words)

Co-worker's flirting is going to get her into trouble

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3847 days ago

9 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have this co worker who is very flirtatious with everyone and it's causing trouble here at work and for herself. She's a really nice person and I don't think she's doing it on purpose but it's really getting out of hand. The other day, this guy came in and demanded to know ... (330 words)

Should I go through with leaving?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3847 days ago

9 May 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Married for 7 years with a 5 years old kid,My problem is my husband shares everything with his family. I dont have any privacy at home . I I am a private person and he knows it. We have talked many times regarding this issue, last night I found out that he has shared somethin... (198 words)

Should I raise this issue or just accept that my Boyfriend does more than his fair share, financially, for his divorced mother?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3848 days ago

9 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently I have realised just how much my boyfriend does for his mother and their family but I don't want to point it out to him because I know it will do no good. My boyfriend is three years younger and he still lives at home. His rent covers almost half the mortgage payment... (402 words)

Will I be limiting my chances of having a Boyfriend considering that I don't like giving blow jobs?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3847 days ago

9 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Will I have limited boyfriend chances unless I give blow jobs?? I don't mind hand jobs, but I'm not a person who feels comfortable with the idea of a penis in my mouth. I also don't particularly like the idea of a guy ejaculating on me, but I don't see another option unless ... (138 words)

How do we address issues that arose after we both cheated on our former partners, at the start of our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3847 days ago

9 May 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - My gf and I are having issues with our families accepting a mistake we made and I really could use some advice. We have been dating officially for about four months now. But eight months ago we met while we both were in relationships. I was married and she was living with ... (221 words)

Give me some ideas to make him miss me and get excited about me again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3848 days ago

9 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm so depressed right now. There's so much trouble withmy boyfriend of 5 years. He's not the same with once we knew each other. He's busy with his friends and we are rarely see each other. How to make him miss me and excited about me again? Please give me some idea. Thank... (58 words)

I have a job, but not a role, should I quit or wait until I find another job or they fire me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3848 days ago

9 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - it's not a relationship question but I don't know who else to ask. a few weeks ago my supervisor told the human resources he no longer wished to work with me (some sort of misunderstanding happened and he thinks I screwed up, which I didn't but he hasn't seen or spoken to me ... (273 words)

How long can I hide my girlfriend's job from my family and friends? We are planning a life together!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3848 days ago

9 May 2014 (M)

age 51-59 - Following divorce/kids I have met a fantastic woman. We have fallen in love and are making plans to spend our lives together. One problem is her work - she is a lap dancer. The job pays well and she has done it for several years. I have no problem with this but I shudder t... (132 words)

Can you please help me find a way to get my boyfriend to be intimate with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3848 days ago

9 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I'm happy to say I've been with my boyfriend for about 8 months now we get along great and it's very rare we fight and when we do it's never a long and we always learn to reconcile with each other quick. The only thing that's really wrong with our rela... (164 words)

Mum as wingman, good or bad idea?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3848 days ago

9 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I hope this doesn't sound bad, but does anyone see anything wrong with going to places with your mother a lot ?. My mother and I have been to a lot of gigs together over the years. I am 30 and she is 55. I guess sometimes people can think that a parent can cramp your style. I ... (212 words)

I know her boyfriend does not have good intentions, how do I handle this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3847 days ago

9 May 2014 (?) age 30-35 - Hi everyone Me and my sister are very close even though she is 4 years older than me. I got married last year and also had a baby however I was pregnant before marriage and she been there for me. The problem is me and her best friend hate her boyfriend, he treated her so b... (179 words)

My husband requests fellatio all the time and not only that! What do you do when your husband denies you a sexual orgasm or intercourse if you don't do it first?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3848 days ago

9 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't want to bash my husband or write insensitively of him but it has caused a little ripple in our marriage where it hasn't completely gone away. By continually asking for me to give him oral sex but it's not as bad as it was before when he kept asking for a blow job and to ... (823 words)

Are there any decent guys out there still? Will I ever find somebody normal?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3847 days ago

9 May 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a depressed, 32 year old female and I'm starting to wonder whether I will ever find a normal guy....I'm loyal, attractive, caring, trustworthy and I seem to end up with all of these guys that have 1 or more major issues. I know nobody is perfect, but it seems so difficult ... (329 words)

I did some things I'm embarrassed about, he told my adult children, now what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3847 days ago

9 May 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi long story short found photos of my ex with his best friends mrs having sex before he meet me anyway have broken but lived together for awhile when I found the photos of the mrs but also found photos of someone else that he didn't tell while we were broken up I'm shattered ... (135 words)

We were friends with benefits, ended it and now this happens.. advice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3838 days ago

9 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, So i had a friend with benefits, for two years. Before that we were friends and through the friend with benefits, we were really good friends, even on a holiday together and so on. Last summer, both of us had a relationship, but we still slept together, we have someth... (236 words)

He just can't let go of my past

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3847 days ago

9 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello aunts, I'm having a dilemma with my current boyfriend. We have been dating for a little over a month now and we really enjoy each-other and fell in love and love spending time together when we can. We are almost one person and I've had previous relationships fo... (366 words)