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Archived questions from: 19 May, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

We haven't kissed or cuddled for years

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3868 days ago

19 May 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for almost ten years. We are a gay couple, but things aren't all rosey I'm afraid. Our sex life has completely broken down for no apparent Reason. I've asked on regular occasions why, but he is older than me by 13 years (I'm 31) and he says ... (300 words)

Is he pushing too soon to have a relationship with me?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3866 days ago

19 May 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid Member I have a question? Do you think a guy is pushing a relationship with you too soon if after exchanging emails and just talking once on the Phone he already told me that He wants to be my Boyfriend? I met him online in one of those dating sites. And I am ... (213 words)

Should I try again with my ex? We have 2 daughters and have been apart for 4 years.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3868 days ago

19 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My question is whether it is a good idea to try have a relationship with an ex again when there is children involved? My ex wants to get back together after 4 years apart, and even though I would like to try, I have a fear it would affect our two girls. Our first child... (366 words)

He told me to text him but he didn't say he liked me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3868 days ago

19 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - So today, I confessed to the guy I like that I like him. He's anti-social and shy so I wasn't expecting much, but we talked for two whole hours and he was really nice. He didn't make it awkward. When I would flirt with him, he would blush, smile, and encourage it. He also told ... (113 words)

Who pays when the guys invite the girls?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3868 days ago

19 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - We went out with 2 guys yesterday, my friend and I. The whole discussion with her started after I noticed ( I think) that when It was time to pay, the guys were kind of hesitant ( may be I am mistaken). I was ready to offer to pay for my drinks, which honestly was totally ... (192 words)

Is it normal to pine for an ex when your relationship hits a low?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3869 days ago

19 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Before I begin, I must admit that I sincerely regret the pain caused by me to the persons involved in this mess,so please, refrain from abusive language or harsh approaches.THANK YOU! Currently I'm in a relationship with a guy since the last 3.5 years. Everything was f... (390 words)

It seems like we've lost interest in each other -- how do we get it back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3861 days ago

19 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid.... i joined this site as im in a relationship and have been 2 years this june, however since i've got my job in july 2013 we seem to have lost interest in eachother we sit in seperate rooms when he comes to stay and our sex life is nothing now we mabey have sex o... (177 words)

Does it really happen that people can't keep their hands off each other?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3868 days ago

19 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Can this really happen? You know in films where a couple can't keep their hands off each other and they basically attack each other. Does anyone have this? Is it real or is it just for the drama? Most the time form what I can remember the sex I've had has been planned and not ... (72 words)

Should I cut contact altogether with him? He's an unappealing combination of arrogance and cheesiness.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3868 days ago

19 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - The guy I used to date and I are talking now, just as friends. We had an abrupt break up so now we are just exchanging friendly emails to catch up, I guess. I never went beyond friendly because I thought that after almost a year of not seeing each other (we were long distance ... (348 words)

Is it normal for guys to fantasize about girls they wouldn't normally date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3868 days ago

19 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend dislikes the makeup and fake tan and painted on eyebrows look. However, one of his exes and a couple of girls that he has been with look like this. And he checks them out fairly frequently. He watches BBW porn and one of the girls he was with looks like that too ... (134 words)

Why does she not reply to my messages anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3868 days ago

19 May 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so this might be a long story but here it goes! So when I was in highschool I liked this girl and we went out, but I later said somethings and she took them as if I did not like her and then she just kinda didn't want to talk to me afterwards! So later I talked to her and ... (317 words)

Should I just let him go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3869 days ago

19 May 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello Agony Aunters, I have a little story...7 years ago I met and had a brief relationship with a guy, who is 5 years older than I am. He works in the emergency services, although I didnt know this when I first met him, I liked him from the moment I saw him. We dated for a wh... (284 words)

I used to like my body shape but the digs keep coming ...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3867 days ago

19 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - In my adult life a LOT of people have asked if I'm pregnant, even though there has never been any reason for it other than my fat belly! A bit of back story, I have a bit of a buddha belly lol, in fact I'm very slim but my belly just puts on all the weight. all the women in... (488 words)

My wife gave her phone number to a former lover and says I am over reacting!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3868 days ago

19 May 2014 (M)

age 51-59 - Through the wonders of Facebook my wife was contacted by one of her former lovers. I don't know why but she gave him her cell phone number and he started calling her. I discovered one of these voicemail messages when she asked me to check something on her phone and we had a ma... (170 words)

Why do guys wait so long before texting girls back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

19 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating a guy I really like for a couple months. I genuinely feel that he really likes me and cares for me. He treats me right when we are together and I feel very close to him. Always after a date, the next day he will text me a lot. He will initiate and make lots of ... (248 words)

After ten years we will be getting married ... IF we can agree on a venue!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3867 days ago

19 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - After 10 yrs of being together we finally have decided to get married this year but the problem is I want a church wedding and he wants a civil one. All girls dream is to walk along the isle with everyone watching and all he ever want is a simple civil wedding with family a... (83 words)

His tone of texting has changed, did our date not go well?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3869 days ago

19 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, so I'm not sure if I'm thinking about this too much, and it's all in my head, but I think I was a little too blind to know if this date went bad. I could really use some insight, and to know if I'm just overthinking this. Ok, well, from the beginning, I met this guy onli... (381 words)

Does wanting to be me make me a bad person?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3868 days ago

19 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all, I was wondering if you'd be able to help me. I am in a bit of a predicament and when I explain things, I'm probably going to get a lot of stick for it and come across as a selfish whore but I do hope someone can answer me. I have been in an on-going relatio... (669 words)

Some small complications with pregnancy, I need some advise.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3869 days ago

19 May 2014 (F) age 30-35 - Hi all...looking for a bit of advice :) Im currently 30 weeks pregnant and have recently found out of a few small problems with the pregnancy. Thankfully nothing major but i am going into hospital twice a week to be monitored. I am happy that they are keeping a close eye on m... (179 words)