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writes:Am 25 yrs women with no child and I need help. I'm confused ever since the is this lesbian used to give me attention and loving I start have bad addiction of musterbating each and every time when am alone I use my spare time on bedroom and masterbating and watch porns and only gays n les porn turn me honey normal doesn't makes feel honey and now am starting not enjoy sex with my BF is been 2yrs now am strangling but I never have sex with women before but now feel ready to do that... Am too scared now I can't sleep without doing and and I always make sure that before I wakeup I'm doing it and aslo when am alone its only what I think I can do
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reader, llifton  +, writes (29 May 2014):
 There's nothing wrong with masturbation. Don't convince yourself you're doing anything wrong.
You say you watch lesbian porn instead of "normal" porn. Lesbian porn is not abnormal. That's a misconception you need to get out of your head. That aside, I think you have a lot of pent up sexual frustration that you're desperate to get out - hence all the masturnation to female porn. Don't suppress how you truly feel just because you're afraid it's *gasp* "wrong" or "unnatural." If it were so unnatural, you wouldn't naturally be feeling these desires, would you?
I think you really need to think about your sexuality long and hard. It doesn't sound to me like you're completely content with men. You should open your mind to the possibility of being with women. See if you enjoy it. No sense in denying yourself of something that makes you happy simply because you're afraid of it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2014): It would seem as if you are gay/a lesbian. Are you frightened about that?
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reader, CMMP +, writes (29 May 2014):
It's pretty normal to go through a "constant masturbation" phase. It's not good that it's hurting your sex life, but that may have more to do with you wanting to explore your sexuality.
If I was you I'd talk to your boyfriend and ask him what he'd think about inviting another woman into the bedroom. Maybe he'll love the idea and you can be free to explore while still being with your bf.
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